Bruce, however, does not; his personality appreciates casual colors, more earth tones and lighter feel. In one episode he was curled up on the only piece of furniture in their bedroom that he could resonate with. That was a cry for help. He wanted to belong. The decor of the home doesn't acknowledge Bruce's more relaxed style. In exasperation, he lamented, "I don't feel like I belong there". There was none of his energy in the home. Subsequently there have been shows where he's gone out of town and they didn't notice. He even moved out. The story of the breakup was there a long time ago, and it was prophesied through the furniture. Now most men allow their wives to take decorative control, especially when they are married to strong women. However, in a good marriage, a wife will think about her husband, even if he doesn't care. A home should share their energy.
Your home has a whisper. Keeping up with your home is more than just keeping it clean and neat. It's keeping up with your life, what changes are going on in your world, who do you want to be and what's important to you. Really look at your home and try "listening" to the story it's telling.
Didn't J nail it on the head? The lesson here: Make sure your home is filled with the things you love. Pay attention to each room and the vibe its giving off. Does it work with you? or is it time for a makeover? If you have questions, leave a comment I'm happy to answer!
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