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15 Tips For A Memorable & Mindful Summer {Podcast Ep. 315}

ashlina kaposta June 25, 2024

This post is your ultimate guide to a mindful and memorable Summer.

If you find yourself already feeling exhausted and overwhelmed with Summer plans and things to do, you’re not alone. As a mom, the pressure to fill the Summer up with camps, events, trips, etc can be incredibly overbearing. There is one question in particular that I have more this year than ever before…“got any big plans this Summer?”.

Ugh. I can’t stand this question.

Even though my days are already absolutely full, I can’t help but feel the nagging thought in my mind “am I doing enough?”

Then by divine intervention, I came across an old post I had written about the art of truly savoring the Summertime. I was reminded that Summer is meant to be savored, to be relished, used as a time to relax and to reconnect with your inner child for nourishment and joy.

So, I grabbed my Summer journal and began writing a list of the ways that I intend to make the most of my Summer this year. To resist the temptation to fill my days and to make an intentional list of how and what I want to experience this beautiful season.

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15 tips for a memorable and mindful Summer:

  1. Lower your cortisol. Your main priority this Summer should be on getting rid of the stress your body is holding on to. In other words, prioritize a massage over a party.

    Tip: Be less available. Instead of booking yourself a vacation, book a chunk of time where you simply relax at home without guilt, without a to do list. Resist the urge to fill the void with travel and summer plans and just allow yourself to be.

  2. Focus on slowing down and savoring the moment. Make each little moment of your day much more intentional. One place to begin is making your morning coffee routine a full on production. Why not create a gorgeous coffee corner that makes you feel like having coffee at home is a luxurious experience.

    I also get very intentional with my morning green smoothie ritual. This is my go-to daily drink every single Summer.

  3. Put down the phone. - Instead of constantly keeping up with what everybody else is doing, its important to intentionally build your own life. You can download my free guide to building your personal brand, step-by-step. Focus on cultivating your own style, direction and fill your life with things that keep you present versus following others on social media.

  4. Start a summer journal. I like to fill my journal with lists of things that I am manifesting, things I want to do to my home, things I need to do. I love my Paperblanks floral journal. It’s very light, flexible and easy to carry around in my Summer tote.

  5. Create an outdoor oasis. This year I created a little corner garden in my backyard. There is nothing more exciting that having an outdoor area that comforts you. I love to step outside in the early morning and water my plants and my beautiful herb garden. You can truly calm your mind when you connect with nature in this way.

  6. Invest in a straw summer hat and summer tote. Do I need to say more?

  7. Be a tourist in your own town.  Pick up the summer guide for your city. Spend some time cultivating a list of places you have never been and things you have never done in your city versus planning a big out of town getaway. I think you will find there is so much more to do in your city than you think.

  8. Try something new.

    Some things you might try: write a book, paint a portrait, visit a pottery class, try yoga, join a run club in your city. The important thing here is to step outside the box.

  9. Host a rose soirée. Have friends bring a dish. Play around with decor and dishes. Get some entertaining inspiration here.

  10. Curate a cozy home nook for reading. Why not try adding a new chair in your bedroom or getting a new pillow and table for a corner of your sofa that you love.

  11. Make a book reading list. There is nothing better than getting lost in a really delicious book during the Summertime. I like to grab my pool floatie and head to the pool for a little book reading so I can really just relax. You can see my complete book library list here.

  12. Make a show / movie watch list.

    I’ve become obsessed with the entire Bridgerton series on Netflix, next on my list is Queen Charlotte. Find a type of show that you adore that has several seasons to binge and allow yourself to relish in the beautiful stories.

  13. Buy a new cookbook and try a new sangria recipe. Grab yourself a beautiful pitcher and allow it to inspire you to make a new sangria or even a fun mocktail and fill your pitcher with it. This will create a whole mood for your home.

  14. Declutter your kitchen. Areas you will want to look at are the pantry, kitchen utensils drawer, tupperware, spices and the fridge. Throw old old, unused or expired things and replace them with fresh things that make your kitchen feel happier.

    Hot tip: Work on styling your kitchen counters a la Nancy Meyers.

  15. Let yourself get bored. Boredom can motivate you to break out of your routine, learn new skills, or improve your life. It can also push you to seek new challenges and experiences. Boredom may also make you more empathetic and charitable.

    For example, one study found that people were more likely to donate to charity when they were bored. There are countless benefits to getting bored that I am fully excited to experience this Summer.

Here’s my round up of pretty pitchers on Amazon:

Lemon pattern pitcher | Beige checkered pitcher | Pink & Green floral | Pink glass pitcher | Natural stoneware pitcher | Splatter paint stoneware pitcher | Rattan glass pitcher | Red flower pattern pitcher

I hope you enjoyed this episode and blog post. Let me know if you have any fun Summer ideas in the comments.

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4th of july soiree

21 Absolutely Delectable 4th of July Drink & Dessert Ideas

ashlina kaposta June 24, 2024

Are you looking for some genius 4th of July themed drink and dessert ideas for your upcoming party? This is the post for you. You’ll find 21 unique ideas that are sure to impress the guests.

There is nothing that I love more than a Summer holiday. A little outdoor poolside relaxation always feels good to the soul. In particular, I love a patriotic 4th of July soiree. I also think it’s so cool that our country’s zodiac sign is Cancer.

Anyway, I don’t usually host 4th of July parties but I absolutely love to attend them. When I attend a party, I never show up empty handed and 4th of July is one of my favorite holidays to make an on theme dessert or drink.

So, I’ve gathered up a list that are perfectly patriotic and will surely make your treat a party hit! Plus, themed desserts often incorporate seasonal ingredients like fresh berries, which are at their peak during summer, ensuring your treats are as delicious as they are visually appealing.

Most Popular Patriotic Dessert Ideas:

When it comes to celebrating the 4th of July, patriotic desserts are a must-have for any gathering.  Here are some of the most popular patriotic dessert ideas that are sure to be a hit at your Independence Day celebration:

● American Flag Cake – A sheet cake or layered cake decorated to resemble the American flag with blueberries, strawberries, and white frosting.

● Red, White, and Blue Berry Trifle – Layers of pound cake, whipped cream, and fresh berries make for a visually striking and delicious dessert.

● Berry flavored sangrias & sprizters– This classic Summer staple always makes a fun party refresher.

● Patriotic Rice Krispie Treats – Classic Rice Krispie treats mixed with red, white, and blue M&Ms or sprinkles.

A few things you could absolutely use for your patriotic party:

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21 Absolutely Delectable 4th of July Drink & Dessert Ideas

01 | Star Spangled Spritzer

Lulu’s recipe here

This delicious looking 4th of July cocktail has a little Lemoncello and a lot of berries. Would look fabulous in any gorgeous wine glass. Get the full recipe here.

Ingredients:

  • 2 oz. white wine

  • 2. oz. French Champagne or sparkling white wine

  • Splash of Limoncello

  • Granny Smith apples, blueberries, and raspberries

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02 | Strawberry Sangria

via The Girl Inspired

I absolutely love the idea of a strawberry sangria for 4th of July. You can use clear cups with some blue straws to keep it patriotic looking and festive. Sauvignon Blanc is my favorite wine so I know this is a perfect poolside treat.

Here is the breakdown of ingredients:

-1.5 liters of Sauvignon Blanc

-1 liter of club soda

-6 oz of frozen pink lemonade concentrate

-1/2 cup of simple syrup

-1 pint raspberries

-2 cups of strawberries

-a lemon to garnish

via the girl inspired

03 | Make patriotic ice cubes for your water like LC

Lauren Conrad

04 | Make a red, white and blue charcuterie board

Red White and Blue Charcuterie

Berries make the perfect accents to any 4th of July festivities simply because their beautiful colors. Delicious red rasberries, strawberries and watermelon too! Add in some blueberries and backberries to pair with your favorite cheese.

I love this breakdown from The Delicious:

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05 | Watermelon Fries a la Abby’s Kitchen

Abbey’s Kitchen

Watermelon is hands down my favorite Summer snack, I could eat it all day long. I adore the idea of cutting up watermelon and adding a bit of Tajin for a little spice. This snack is sure to be a fan favorite, especially for anyone who has a savory tooth like me.

06 | 4th of July Theme Strawberries

via Berry Delicious

07 | 4th of July Berry Cheesecake Trifle⁣ from Glorious Treats

via Glorious Treats

You will want to grab some patriotic straws & mason jars for the watermelon star garnishes. Also, how chic is the red gingham silverware?

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08 | Red, White and Blue dipped pretzels

Red, White and Blue Dipped Pretzels via The 36th Avenue

09 | American Flag Fruit Skewers

Flag Fruit Skewers via Party City

Here’s what you’ll need:

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10 | Berry Iced Mocktail

via Vintage Kitty

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11 | Patriotic Rice Krispie Treat Sticks

Pop Rock Rice Krispies via Life, Love and Sugar

12 | Patriotic Flag Fruit Platter

The Creative Bite

13 | Waffle Charcuterie Style Breakfast Board

via prada and pearls

14 | Brownie Flag Recipe

Spicy Summer Kitchen

15 | Patriotic Cheesecake Strawberries

via savory and sweet

16 | Red, white and blue jello shots

17 | American Flag Brownies

Recipe Magik

You’ll want to grab yourself some American Flag toothpicks to complete the look.

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18 | Red, White and Blue Rice Krispie Treats

Princess Pinky Girl

19 | Red, White and Blue Sangria

Cristin Cooper

What you’ll need:

  • 1 cup of fresh blueberries

  • 1 cup of fresh sliced strawberries

  • 1 liter of lemon-lime soda

  • 1 bottle of Prosecco or another sparkling white wine

  • 1 cup of white grape juice (optional, if you like a sweeter sangria)

Directions: The night before serving, pour water into an ice tray and drop in some of the fresh blueberries and strawberries & freeze overnight. Day of, add the fresh fruit (chilled) to a large pitcher for serving. Add the ice cubes you froze over. Pour the grape juice, the lemon-lime soda, and the Prosecco over top of the fruit and ice.

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20 | Twizzler party bundle

Make it love it

21 | 4th of July Snack Mix

Chelsea Messy Apron

Toile tablecloth | Red gingham flatware | red cast iron crab dish | floral ceramic pitcher | Patriotic bunting decoration | Blue glass goblets | Wicker woven coasters | blue and white striped linen napkins | star pattern pillows |

Hope you enjoyed this post. What are your favorites? Let me know in the comments below.

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