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HOW TO KEEP YOUR GLOW: 6 healthy habits you need to adopt when you turn 40

ashlina kaposta July 8, 2025

This post is all about the 6 beauty and wellness habits you should adopt when you turn forty.

This post may contain affiliate links, which means I'll receive a commission if you purchase through my link, at no extra cost to you. :)

The second I turned 40, I swear my body started falling apart. I’ve pulled my back muscles twice picking up my little boy. I pop every single time I start my yoga stretches and there are definitely new lines in my face.

While I feel more fabulous than ever mentally and spiritually, seemingly overnight my body decided to remind me…you’re over the hill girl. So, living a life with wellness at the top of my mind is everything to me.

I’m not going to lie, there is something kind of magical about 40. I feel more aware of life, more aware of myself, more powerful and so much better equipped for everything in my life. I’m also not going to hide the fact that aging well is very important to me. I want to look good as long as possible and feel good about myself. So, it is incredibly important to me to start paying attention to my body and myself.

Before I get into this post, I invite you to join me in making a commitment to yourself. To declare and decide that no matter what your age, this will be your best year yet. Commit to implementing these habits into your life daily for at least 21 days. Anything you do consistently for 21 days becomes an ingrained habit. I hope you will join me on this journey.

p.s. don’t forget to grab my 30-day glow up workshop (this workshop helps you with the inner mindset/emotional glow up work)

HIGH VIBE HABITS FOR A RADIANT GLOW

Habit #1 : Add salt to your water & up your water intake.

According to studies & research from Harvard, four to six cups of water a day is sufficient hydration for most people. However, ensuring you get enough hydration to regenerate your cells and get the benefits of being actually hydrated, you want to know precisely the right amount for you.

Now, here’s the thing, as we women age, there is a shift in hormones and nutrient dips. So, one tip that has really helped me is drinking this electrolyte water. Why? Because when you add salt, magnesium and potassium to your water, you get so many added benefits.

Benefits of adding salt to your water:

  • Improved digestion

  • Better sleep quality

  • Increased hydration

  • Body detoxification

  • Weight Loss

  • Improved skin

You don’t want to add just any salt, the best is pink himalayan and Celtic sea salt. I prefer to just add the electrolyte power because it’s a breeze to do in the morning as soon as I wake up. I stock up in this specific electrolyte powder because it also has zinc, magnesium and B vitamins. I love the peach mango and raspberry flavor.

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Also, take a look at this chart below that shows you estimated water intake according to your weight.

Aside from the obvious, there are extra health benefits from being adequately hydrated. More glowing skin, curbing of appetite, reducing puffiness and inflammation. Water flushes out the toxins in your body, which helps anyone combat things like eczema and psoriasis, which I have both so I can speak from experience. Sagging, droopy skin is a result of dehydration. So ladies, let’s remember to get over hydrated, mm-kay?

Habit #2 : Commit to a supplement regime.

Ever since January, my 40th birthday, I’ve been researching vitamins and supplements like crazy. I want to know the best vitamins to take to keep a glow and stay energetic. However, there are hundreds of vitamins and hundreds of opinions on what is best. So, I decided to do my own research and implement them slowly and consistently.

I’ve started with this line called NeoCell and I am currently taking the Glow Matrix and Joint Complex and loving it. To supplement that I take a vitamin D, it helps to boost your mood. I also take a shot of apple cider vinegar every morning before I drink my coffee. I put fiber powder in my coffee and sometimes I add collagen, too. I also take this Women’s probiotic twice a day.

This combo has me really feeling energetic in the mornings and sleeping through most nights. I have noticed that my hair is really full and shiny which I always appreciate and my nails are growing at a rapid pace again. The key here is consistency. For any regimen for that matter, staying consistent is the real trick to having all of this work for you.

VITAMINS AND SUPPLEMENTS I LOVE:

Habit #3 : Create a good skin care routine without spending a fortune.

Listen, I am the worst at this. I can’t tell you how many nights I have gone to sleep without adequately preparing my face and I still have pretty good skin. I attribute it to my Spanish/Hungarian genes. Having said that, that half-assed skin care worked for me for all 39 years but recently, not so much. All of a sudden the lines have started to creep in and I can totally see it. Cue eye-roll.

For Christmas, I ended up splurging on skincare for my man and myself at my favorite store Blue Mercury. I went in and asked what are the best products for people in their 40’s and here is what she told me…just wash your face for 45 seconds, twice a day, everyday. I struggled to make sense of her response because I have been programmed to think that you need 19 of the top skincare products to be beautiful and dewy.

However, I’ve learned that the beauty influencer movement has been created to sell us all the things. But, what is most important is keeping consistent with washing your face. When I think of it, my grandmother who was gorgeous up until her 101st birthday only washed her face with soap and a washcloth for most of her life. Simple.

A few skin secrets you may want to try:

+ Adding retinol (or something like it) to your routine. I am obsessed with this SkinCeuticals Glycolic Renew Overnight. It acts like a retinol but in a different way. Glycolic 10 Renew Overnight is formulated with a free acid value of 10% glycolic acid, allowing it to work at a true 10% concentration proven optimal in promoting effective exfoliation and natural cell turnover

+ Sleep on mulberry silk pillowcases. Can I just tell you the damage sleeping on your face does to your skin? I could go on and on. Once I discovered the bliss of a silk pillowcase, I became obsessed. These are the ones I have. You want to buy several so that you can switch them out so you are always sleeping on a clean pillow. So much dirt, grime and crap stays on your pillowcase. Trust me.

+ Use clean wash cloths to wash your face. How many of us use the same towel for our body and our face. Or perhaps you are only using your hands to wash your face. We need to make sure we use clean, soft washcloths to prevent from germs, bacteria and grime. These cute little pink ones are my fave. They are made for baby skin so they are soft and perfect for your face. They help to fully exfoliate and get everything off of your face.

+ Take care of your hair. I am big on caring for my hair. In our 40’s we tend to lose the density of our hair, so it’s important that we begin with the inside out. Start with your scalp, I love scalp massages and oiling my hair. I love this overnight hair mask. I also take Viviscal vitamins when I feel like my hair isn’t as full as it should be. I talk more about my specific hair care routine here.

+ Korean skin care. I am obsessed with the affordable and highly effective options. I make sure to wash my face every night and layer on these incredible products.

These are my go-to AFFORDABLE skin care picks:

Check out my top picks Korean skin care list here.

Habit #4 : Move your body for at least 20 minutes a day.

Also known as hot girl walks. Our body is always changing, and if we aren’t adequately moving and stretching, we aren’t supporting our body to operate at it’s optimal level. You don’t have to spend hours in the gym but perhaps you go for a walk outside or you walk up and down your stairs a few extra times. It’s just important to get the blood pumping and those cells moving.

Examples of daily activities :

  • Get up and do yoga stretches next to your bed. Set a timer and stretch your body for 20 minutes. I love this pilates bar for the home.

  • Take the stairs instead of the elevator.

  • Go for a walk around the block. Put on your headphones and listen to a podcast, like Blissfully Ambitious. This is a great way to multitask good habits.

  • Take your child to the park to play.

  • I love getting in the hot sauna and doing yoga stretches for 20-30 minutes. The anti-aging benefits of time in the sauna are incredible. Read more about sauna benefits here.

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Habit #5 : Develop a spiritual practice.

For so long I felt the need to go on a spiritual yoga retreat to really get into a good meditation. I even began taking meditation classes at my local studio. However, when you need to make it an everyday habit, which I strongly suggest, you have to just make normal everyday things into a meditation. For example, when I go for a walk in the morning, I just listen to meditation music and simply zone out. Or I can even make having a cup of tea in the afternoon into a meditation. I actually walk you through a simple chakra meditation (which changed my life) in my course SOUL ALIGNED. If you take the course, every morning for 21 days I send you a short video with a simple assignment. Do it in tandem with these 6 habits and you will absolutely GLOW!

According to recent research, meditation can inhibit the response of the bodies’ inflammatory genes. This means that you will have less inflamed skin (bye-bye acne!) and fewer wrinkles as you age. Hello.

🦋 To amplify my meditations, I love to incorporate affirmations into my mindfulness practice. Here are some affirmations around health that you can use.

-I am healthy and full of energy

-Healthy, vibrant energy flows through my body naturally

-I easily attract positive experiences into my life; mind, body and soul

-The Universe loves to assist me in achieving abundant levels of health and wellness

-Every day is a new opportunity to enjoy new levels of energy and wellbeing

-I am a magnet for healthy, uplifting and empowering energy

Habits #6 : Reading + Writing.

I got this habit after reading the book Miracle Morning. For a while, I was getting up at 5 am and doing the habits suggested for a miraculous morning. The two that really stood out to me and made an impact were reading a chapter of a book every morning and then free writing which is basically morning pages aka doing a brain dump in my journal.

I am a bullet journal person. You can read more about that here and here.

If you have never heard of the morning pages, it’s basically free writing in a journal for 3 pages. You just want to get every idea, thought, feeling and emotion out onto paper and letting it live there. Think of it as a decluttering of your mind, every single morning. It will do wonders for your inner self.

On the same note, when your mind is clear, you want to fill it with something positive before anything else. Read a chapter from a motivational, personal development or business book. When you fill your mind with something positive in the morning, your motivation will soar. You will also more likely go on a positive thinking spiral instead of negative which will lower your cortisol aka the stress hormone. The less you spike your stress hormone, the happier, healthier and more glow-y you will be.

A few of my favorite reads:



Bonus habit: Regulate your nervous system. I originally wrote this post in 2021 when I turned 40 but in the last few years I have put an extreme focus on my hormones and my nervous system, especially as a woman. Focusing on breathwork, calming my body, studying the nervous system, understanding the importance of hormone regulation (especially oxytocin!) and my monthly cycle have all been incredibly helpful for maintaining my glow and healthy body.

Related Reading: 11 ways to nourish your nervous system

***Self Love is the secret. So there you have it, my 6 habits to start committing to when you turn 40 so you keep that radiant glow and high vibe. I hope this post inspires you to begin to take your body health seriously. Having a mind, body and soul in alignment and glowing will keep you feeling your best. The trick is consistency, sticking with your habits everyday. It is the “secret” that I am learning really locks things in. Sticking with a habit consistently will have you living in integrity with yourself. When you are living from this place, you learn to trust yourself more and love yourself better. Self love is truly the foundation of every and successful person I have ever encountered.

This why precisely why I love my course, Soul Aligned. It’s 21 days of consistent work towards loving yourself better, developing self love and soul awareness. When you are living in this place of alignment, you are able to create the life that you have always dreamed of, no matter what age you are.

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Why Everyong is Drinking Lemon Balm Tea (+ 10 Soothing Recipes to Try!)

ashlina kaposta June 17, 2025

A Quiet NIGHTLY TEA Ritual That Changed Everything

If there’s one small ritual I have started this year that’s brought me profound calm, softness, and balance as I navigate the beautiful but often turbulent waters of perimenopause aka my 40’s, it’s brewing myself a cup of lemon balm tea.

I stumbled upon this gentle herb a few years ago while looking for natural ways to soothe my frazzled nerves and find moments of true rest in the middle of life’s chaos.

I had no idea that this simple, fragrant plant — often overlooked in the garden — would become one of my most beloved tools for staying grounded, feeling feminine, and supporting my hormonal shifts naturally.

Fun fact, I now walk around this Lemon Balm extract in my purse, just a dab under the tongue instantly brings a sense of calm.

Today, I want to share exactly why lemon balm tea is so special, how it supports us as women (especially in our 30s, 40s, and beyond), and how you can weave it into your daily self-care rituals to nurture your nervous system, balance your mood, and invite more oxytocin — that sweet “love hormone” — into your body and your life.

What is Lemon Balm and Why Does It Feel Like a Hug in a Cup?

Lemon balm (Melissa officinalis) is a gentle herb in the mint family with a lovely, subtle lemony scent. It’s been used for centuries in traditional herbal medicine as a calming tonic for the mind, a gentle digestive aid, and a beautiful supporter of restful sleep.

For me, it feels like an herbal embrace — a moment of peace that melts tension and invites my body back into its soft, feminine state. When life feels hectic or hormones feel unsteady, sipping lemon balm tea helps me come home to myself.

🍵 The 6 Beautiful Benefits of Drinking Lemon Balm Tea

Sipping a warm cup of lemon balm tea is like wrapping your nervous system in a gentle hug. This unassuming herb — Melissa officinalis — has been cherished for centuries for its soothing, mood-lifting, and heart-lightening properties. Here’s why it’s so wonderful to keep in your daily routine:

✨ 1. Naturally Calms the Mind & Eases Stress
Lemon balm is well-loved for its mild sedative effects. Drinking the tea can help quiet racing thoughts and bring a peaceful pause to an overwhelmed mind. Many people enjoy a cup in the afternoon or evening to unwind after a busy day.

✨ 2. Supports Deeper, Restorative Sleep
Because it helps relax the nervous system, lemon balm tea can gently prepare your body for rest. It’s a beautiful bedtime ritual if you’re someone who struggles to fall asleep or wakes up feeling restless during the night.

✨ 3. Aids Healthy Digestion
Traditionally, herbalists have turned to lemon balm to soothe occasional digestive discomfort. It can help ease bloating, mild cramps, or that “nervous stomach” feeling that sometimes comes with stress.

✨ 4. Uplifts the Mood
One of my favorite things about lemon balm is how it seems to lift a low mood without being overly stimulating. A cup can feel like a natural boost of sunshine on days when you need a little extra emotional support.

✨ 5. Balances & Nourishes the Nervous System
Regularly drinking lemon balm tea is a gentle way to support your body’s resilience to stress. It helps calm the body’s fight-or-flight response and brings you back to your natural state of ease and flow.

✨ 6. Deliciously Simple Self-Care
Beyond its herbal magic, brewing lemon balm tea invites you to slow down, sit with yourself, and remember that tending to your inner calm is a form of everyday self-love. It’s an easy ritual that reminds you to prioritize moments of softness and stillness in your day.

Tip: Fresh or dried leaves both work well — just steep for about 5–10 minutes and inhale that delicate, lemony aroma as you sip. I love adding a spoonful of lemon balm honey or pairing it with other calming herbs like chamomile, lavender, or mint.

Related Reading: How to do a proper tea ritual

How I Use Lemon Balm Tea in My Daily Life

My ritual is simple but deeply nourishing:

  • I keep dried organic lemon balm in a pretty glass jar near my kettle.

  • In the late afternoon — when my energy dips and stress peaks — I brew a pot of tea and step away from my screens.

  • I pour it into my favorite mug and take ten slow minutes to savor the warmth, inhale the citrusy aroma, and just be.

This simple pause helps regulate my nervous system, lowers cortisol, and reminds my body it’s safe to relax and receive.

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10 Calming & Soothing Lemon Balm Recipes You’ll Love

1️⃣ Fresh Lemon Balm Lemonade — The Herbal Academy
This simple recipe shows you how to use fresh lemon balm leaves to make a delicate, uplifting lemonade. Perfect for beginners, it’s a gentle way to enjoy lemon balm’s calming effects in their purest form.

2️⃣ Lemon Balm Iced Tea — Tidbits & Co
Cool off while calming your nerves with this refreshing iced version. It’s lightly sweet and incredibly soothing — wonderful for hot days when you want to sip something that reduces tension and lifts your mood.

3️⃣ Lemon Balm & Coconut tea — Homestead Challenge
Infuse coconut with lemon balm to create a sweet, herbaceous treat. It’s a lovely way to boost relaxation and sneak lemon balm’s benefits into your day.

4️⃣ Honey Lemon Balm Spritzer — She wears may hats
A fun twist on classic lemonade, this herbal version combines fresh lemon balm with zesty citrus for a cooling drink that soothes anxiety and feels like sunshine in a glass.

5️⃣ Lemon Balm and Chamomile Sleep Tea — The Good Life
Pair lemon balm with gentle chamomile for a dreamy bedtime blend. Sip this before bed to quiet your thoughts and invite deep, restorative sleep.

6️⃣ Lemon Balm Detox Drink for weight loss — Recipe Master
This is perfect to sip in the evenings and curb the bedtime cravings. It’s also a delicious way to enjoy lemon balm’s relaxing AND detoxifying properties.

7️⃣ Lemon Balm & Mint Herbal Popsicles — Edible Wild Food
Cool, calming, and kid-friendly, these herbal popsicles combine lemon balm and mint for a soothing treat on warm days. They’re a fun way to help the whole family unwind.

8️⃣ Lemon Balm Salve— Food For Life Garden
This helps to calm digestion, ease tension, and support your immune system — a staple in traditional herbal pantries.

9️⃣ Lemon Balm Tincture — Food For Life
Learn how to make your own tincture — a concentrated extract you can keep on hand for quick stress relief. A few drops under the tongue can help you stay calm and centered during busy days.

🔟 Lemon Balm Infused Oil for Calming Skincare — Hawk Homestead
Lemon balm isn’t just for sipping — you can infuse it in oil to make a gentle skincare remedy that soothes irritated skin and promotes a sense of calm when massaged in.

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