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The 21 BEST decorated outdoor spaces that will inspire you to redecorate your backyard

ashlina kaposta July 21, 2023

In just a few days I will be celebrating the one year anniversary of purchasing and moving into my home. I can’t believe it’s already been a year and my backyard is still in the same shape as the day I moved in. This month, I have been focused on giving my backyard a makeover but before I share the full transformation, I wanted to share with you my inspiration. Naturally, when I decided I was ready, I went to Pinterest to cull inspiration images for my backyard.

I live in a townhome, so my backyard is a small outdoor space, not a lot of room for a huge transformation. But my goals are to be able to entertain and relax outside. I want the space to feel like a jungle, where I am surrounded by green. I also want it to feel very tranquil, perhaps a water feature or two? Finally, I want it to feel decorated and vibrant with lots of textures, places to sit, chat and have a glass of rose or two…or three.

HERE ARE THE MOST INSPIRING DECORATED OUTDOOR SPACES:

OUTDOOR RELAXING & BOHEMIAN LOUNGE

This is one of my favorites, it is so inviting. It’s an outdoor space that makes me want to grab a book and a glass of wine and just relax.

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MOROCCAN INSPIRED OUTDOOR SANCTUARY

The bohemian and earthy feel of this outdoor space is beautiful. It feels like a jungle with all of the luscious green plants and succulents. I also love the textured fabric layers, the bohemian inspired outdoor pillows, it makes it feel so eclectic and easy.

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NATURAL BOHEMIAN SEATING

ROMANTIC AND BEAUTIFUL OUTDOOR DINING SPACE

I have always loved the idea of outdoor dining and outdoor entertaining. This is such a beautiful outdoor dining situation. I love the soft outdoor lighting hanging from the pergola. Also the diamond trellis for the plants to climb just soothes my visual senses.

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SMALL AND COZY MAGICAL OUTDOOR LIVING ROOM

This was the EXACT outdoor space that inspired my backyard mirror wall. I love how it sits above the sofa and reflects all of the greenery.

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CHARMING OUTDOOR GARDEN SPACE

This space is more for the gardener, which I am starting to get into. I love the way the plants are layered around the outdoor dining table. It feels very magical and I definitely want this feeling in my outdoor space, just with more furniture.

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CHIC AF COVERED OUTDOOR PATIO

I absolutely adore this covered outdoor space with a pergola and what looks like clear covering to keep that natural light flowing. I just love an outdoor space that looks like a living room, I am obsessed with following @jennifershomeinterior.

This is another view of the same space, this one is actually outside and I can’t help obsess over having a black and white striped umbrella like this one. I’ve always thought one might be too much but I love how it looks here.

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BOHEMIAN AND ZEN OUTDOOR LIVING ROOM

I absolutely love the monochromatic energy of this outdoor space. It fully gives off that stylish yet zen outdoor energy. In fact, I love this womans whole vibe, May Sissel. You can see the entire home tour here.

MODERN AND INVITING OUTDOOR DINING LIVING

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COZY AND CHIC PLANT LOVERS OUTDOOR PATIO

This might be one of my favorite looks. There’s nothing better than sitting outside on a Fall Texas early evening under an umbrella with some string lights and cocktails. I especially love how they layered the palm leaf outdoor pillows. Pulls the whole vibe together.

Here are a few palm leaf outdoor pillows I found that I like…

SERENITY CHIC - OUTDOOR LIVING ROOM

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BEAUTIFUL OUTDOOR LIVING ROOM

I really love the way the round rattan coffee table centers and grounds the outdoor space, it makes it feel more like an actual living room.

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STRING LIGHTS

The one thing that makes a backyard magical, especially at sunset, the only time you want to be outside in the Summer in Texas…string lights. This set is my favorite look because I love the round shape, the warm amber glow and the weather proof standard.

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OUTDOOR RUGS

It seems like outdoor rugs really give the ultimate grounding for an outdoor living space. It’s what lays the groundwork for creating an outdoor space to feel like a living room. I personally want to feel like I am sitting in a jungle in my outdoor oasis so this palm leaf rug seems right up my alley.

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SEATING

I love the look of rattan and wicker seating with plush cushions. Seating that feels inviting and cozy. Here are a few that might inspire you…

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DECOR

Creating a beautiful outdoor living area requires some accents that make the space feel more liveable, here are a few of my favorites…

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If you are looking for more inspiration, the book Gardens for the Soul book has been the most inspiring book I’ve ever read. I draw inspiration daily.

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8 simple ways to slow down and romanticize your life at home

ashlina kaposta May 18, 2023

Have you ever felt like you just need to take a step back and create sanctuary at home? This post is all about 8 ways you can simplify your life and slow down at home.

Lately I’ve been spending an extraordinary amount of time at home, especially in my bedroom. Between, cancelling dinner plans in favor of giving myself an at home facial to spending all Sunday afternoon in bed catching up on the latest Love is Blind episodes on Netflix instead of brunch. I just can’t help but feel that the art of luxuriating at home is the ultimate bliss.

For most of my life, I’ve been very passionate about the art of domestic bliss. However, after the early years of becoming a new mom & the years of quarantine and being forced to stay home for months, I found myself feeling a little guilty if I didn’t get myself out to socialize and enjoy outside experiences as if they are ‘soon going away’. I hadn’t realized how much the PTSD from new mom life and quarantine had deeply affected me.

I had to learn a new way of appreciating my home and ‘staying in’ without feeling as if I am not grateful for the opportunity to ‘get out’. Over the past year or so, I’ve really learned so much about myself, how I was so plugged into hustle culture and the ‘girl boss’ mindset, that I had forgotten the bliss that comes from relishing in my true feminine energy nature.

I had to reprogram my natural state of being to embracing a slower routine by embracing rest and relaxation as a way to conserve my inner peace so that when I am in action, I’m incredibly effective and productive, so as to not compromise my success.

Being someone that works from home (and films videos at home) I have to ensure my home experience supports me in being effective, productive and at the same time, utterly blissful.

I learned that the best way to remain successful in my life, was creating an environment that nurtured my mind, body and spirit in a very feminine way. I put together a little for you sharing the ways that I slow down and romanticize my life at home.

8 simple ways to slow down and romanticize your life at home:

1. Enhance your sleep experience with rituals.

Getting a good night of beauty sleep is essential for optimizing your day and feeling fantastic. So, I knew I had to make my bedroom feel like an absolute dream. Plush pillows, blankets and delicious bed sheets.

I like to make my sleep experience a complete ritual. I use linen sprays so that when I dive into bed, so it smells incredible. I light up my essential oil diffuser with serenity oils to help me fall asleep. I program my sound machine to turn on at 7 pm every evening with a soft amber light glow to help my brain get ready for sleep. The entire experience is absolute bliss and helps you slip into your peace and ease, the ultimate feminine expressions.

Here are a few of my sleep essentials:

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2. Upgrade your home lounge wear.

There is nothing I love more than lounge wear at home. The second I walk in the door I love to find my coziest clothes and put them on. I do not sleep in anything but gorgeous pajamas or a beautiful robe. I need to feel the soft fabrics against my skin at night and be able to get up walk to my kitchen for coffee in something just fabulous.

Also, whenever you decide to stay in, you will be more likely to slip in to neglecting your self care if you feel like a slob while having your morning coffee. You want to feel pretty, fun and feminine. Treat yourself to pretty things to wear for yourself, and that will always make an impression if you live with others too.

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3. Create a luxurious coffee/tea drink experience.

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When I get up in the morning, I have a full glass of water with a little lemon in it. The water glass is beautiful with pink chrysanthemums on it. The lemon squeezer is this adorable little pink thing and it brings just a little more joy to my day.

My coffee experience is hands down THE most luxurious experience of my day, I am absolutely in love with my set up. Even the jar that holds my Nespresso coffee pods sits on a gorgeous mirrored tray. And don’t get me started on the beautiful coffee mugs I use. The entire thing makes me feel like a million bucks and you want the same for yourself too because how you do one thing is how you do everything. Meaning if you drink your coffee like a fabulous goddess, that vibration will carry through the rest of your day as well.

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4. Add plants, fresh flowers and other little luxuries.

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In Feng Shui, plants and flowers represent the energy of life and vibrancy. In other words, it keeps the energy in your home fresh, bright and colorful. Color will affect your energy more than you think. Yellow brings joy, Green cultivates the energy of abundance, Blues promote relaxation and serenity, Whites symbolize clarity and fresh starts. You can use this knowledge to help surround yourself with all of that decor therapy.

Bring in small things like crystals, candles and fresh or faux flowers and plants to decorate your special spaces.

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5. Set your table at least once a week.

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Setting the table is an art form, its also a creative expression, like cooking. If you aren’t big on cooking a huge meal at home, that’s okay. Just be sure to set up your table as if you are having a gorgeous home cooked meal, even if it came in as take out. It helps to get your creative juices flowing and it makes you more inclined to invite guests over which will bring more happiness to your home. Tapping into that creative, nurturing side of yourself will leave you feeling more of your feminine side come out.

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6. Create a signature home fragrance.

Sensory experiences will immediately have you unleash your feminine energy as women are incredibly sensual beings. When you focus on getting more in touch with your five senses, you will connect more with your body, your true feminine nature. The easiest way to start, is through smell. Candles, essential oils, lotions, perfumes, etc will all have you tickling your sense of smell. I once read that Patricia Altschul from Southern Charmed had a signature potpourri in her home that everyone ranted and raved about. I then decided to find my own home fragrance that was my homes signature and I’ve never looked back. It will leave a lasting affect on your guests.

Here are a few of my favorites, that I suggest…

♥️ I like to burn Tom Ford Fucking Fabulous, always makes my home smell decadent.

♥️ Using an essential oil diffuser with citrus/grapefruit always invigorates me in the morning.

♥️ I also LOVE using candle warmers like this one to keep my candle smell lingering all day long without burning it down so fast. Plus, it looks so pretty.

♥️ I’m also a fan of spiritual ritual candles like this one, they have aromatherapy benefits that help you manifest.

7. Prepare your bath/shower experience for relaxation.

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Turning your bath into a sanctuary is of the utmost importance. Your bathroom is THE most important room for taking exquisite care of yourself and it should feel like a spa if you know what you’re doing. When your bathroom feels pampering and beautiful, you will be more likely to take extra time caring for and beautifying yourself. Which you need to help build your relationship with yourself.

Set yours up complete with plans to take a long, very slow bath. You can even do a bath ritual like this or this.

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8. Set up little altars of joy.

All throughout my home I have little moments that literally boost my serotonin. There is even an entire new name for the trend which is called ‘dopamine decor’. It’s basically curating your home to have pops of joy all throughout your home, delicious treats for your eye absolutely everywhere. For me, I curate my altars with tokens of beautiful memories, crystals, plants and objects that put a huge smile on my face.

When we neglect ourselves and our home, we tend to live a life of stress and struggle. But when we care for ourselves, our inner peace and our homes…we shift into ease and luxury.

Here’s the thing, a low sense of self worth and self esteem will make you cling to things and beg for others to stay up front and center in your life. The false idea that you have no options will make you stay depleted and out there chasing outside things, people and places. Instead of staying in and taking care of yourself, your energy and your home.

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