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How to decorate your home to reflect your authentic style

ashlina kaposta December 11, 2017

This post is about how you can start decorating your home more intentionally.

The more I learn about staying in a high frequency and using "personal bliss" as a life GPS system, I turn to my home to support that state of mind. I've been using Feng Shui for a while now and really have been feeling the benefits of intentionally decorating.

Decorating according to my bliss and what feels really good to me. I am unavailable for decorating my home to "look like a magazine spread" any longer. I decorate for me. 

I encourage you to do the same. Clearing out your home of trends, clothes that don't fit well, colors that don't flatter or energize you, things that feel heavy or outdated and doing so without the guilt attached to it. Let it go. 

I've noticed more now than ever, just how important decorating with spiritual accents means to me, how fun it is to dress up the home with crystals and agates. Seeing the effects that fresh new bedding has on my skin and overall sleep habits.

The importance of fresh flowers, candles and images to keep up the daily bliss factor. You see, its all about keeping in your state of bliss. Lately I have been using the mantra BLISS VIBES ONLY as my word or motto. 

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Perhaps its time to push back the curtains, paint a fresh coat of paint in your absolute favorite color and get rid of all the "things" taking up space in your home. See how it feels to do this. It might be just the push you need to redecorating with authentic energy. 

This beautiful white and neutral home palette represents the new vibes I am feeling for my home in the new year. The ladies at Peridot have made my vision board. 

Creating a home that reflects your authentic style is an art that goes beyond following trends and replicating Pinterest boards. It's about curating a space that feels uniquely you—one that resonates with your personality, passions, and the way you live your life. Here’s a guide to help you decorate your home in a way that embodies your true self and brings joy and comfort to your everyday life.

1. Discover Your Personal Style:

Before diving into decorating, take some time to explore what truly appeals to you. Reflect on the colors, textures, and patterns that make you feel at ease and inspired. Create a mood board with images, fabrics, and items that you love. This could be a physical board or a digital one on platforms like Pinterest. Pay attention to the common themes that emerge—these will be your style cues.

2. Reflect Your Personality:

Your home should be a mirror of your personality. If you’re an adventurous spirit, incorporate elements from your travels, such as souvenirs, maps, or photos. If you’re a bookworm, create a cozy reading nook with your favorite books and comfortable seating. Think about what makes you unique and let those elements shine in your décor.

3. Prioritize Comfort and Functionality:

Authentic style isn’t just about aesthetics—it’s about creating a space that supports your lifestyle. Consider how you use each room and choose furnishings and layouts that enhance functionality and comfort. A home that works for you is one where you’ll feel truly at ease.

4. Mix and Match:

Don’t be afraid to mix different styles and eras. Combining modern and vintage pieces, for example, can create a unique and eclectic look that feels more personal. The key is balance—find a common thread, like a color palette or material, to tie everything together.

5. Incorporate Meaningful Items:

Surround yourself with items that have personal significance. This could be family heirlooms, artwork from local artists, or pieces you’ve collected over time. These meaningful items add depth to your décor and make your home feel truly yours.

6. Use Color Thoughtfully:

Color is a powerful tool in expressing your authentic style. Choose colors that resonate with you and make you feel good. Whether you prefer bold, vibrant hues or soft, muted tones, let your color choices reflect your personality and preferences.

7. Create a Focal Point:

Every room should have a focal point that draws the eye and sets the tone for the space. This could be a statement piece of furniture, a striking piece of artwork, or an architectural feature like a fireplace. Choose something that you love and build the room around it.

8. Personalize with Textures and Patterns:

Experiment with different textures and patterns to add interest and dimension to your space. Mix materials like wood, metal, and fabric, and play with patterns in your rugs, pillows, and curtains. The variety will make your home feel more layered and dynamic.

9. Be True to Yourself:

Ultimately, the most important aspect of decorating your home is staying true to yourself. Avoid getting caught up in trends that don’t resonate with you. Trust your instincts and choose pieces that you love and that make you feel happy and comfortable in your space.

10. Evolve Over Time:

Your home should evolve with you. Don’t feel pressured to get everything perfect all at once. As you grow and change, so should your home. Continuously add new pieces that inspire you and let go of items that no longer serve you.

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