4 reasons why organization is the new black

One of the first side effects of pregnancy that I experienced was the persistent need to throw things away. I've always known myself to be a little bit of a hoarder, I love saving things, I get it from my grandmother. However, once I was carrying my baby, I was ready to throw away everything. Probably because anything and everything made me nauseous in that first few months. 

I also knew I was beginning a new chapter in life and was ready to get rid of any clutter and organize what was left. I became a regular at the Container Store to find new ways to organize things. What I found while organizing my life away, was that I got better at it and began to organize everyone else's homes too. Clients, friends, even local boutiques. 

Organizing is a different form of therapy and while I had always been pretty organized, this new super organizer part of me, was experiencing all these new life benefits. So, I will share what I found with you....

1. YOU WILL AMPLIFY YOUR STYLE GAME

...and your clothes will last longer. Not only does an organized closet help you to get ready faster and give you more confidence when dressing because you know what you have, but you will also feel much more inclined to take care of your things because you know they are there. When things are stuffed in drawers or hidden, you tend to forget about them. When things are organized and on display, you will clean out your handbag, make sure your shoes are in good condition, etc. It helps you to be much more aware and caring for your things. You will be much more equipped to show off your styling abilities.  GLAM-shui tip: this also screams to the Universe that you take care of what you have, so you will begin to attract more! 

2. YOU WILL SLEEP BETTER.

Organization is good for the mind, it calms you and when you are calm and not frantic, you will fall into deeper sleep. If this doesn't encourage you to be better organized, I'm not sure what else could. Sleeping well is so essential to your wellbeing, it effects EVERYTHING in your life, your weight, your skin, your body, etc. If you want to improve anything in life, begin with focusing on your sleeping. Organization and decluttering will help with that. 

3. YOU WILL BE MORE A CONFIDENT PERSON. 

Confidence is one of the most important qualities you could work on in this life. Confident people are more attractive in any aspect, so if I could give any advice it would probably be something about confidence. Clutter affects your confidence. Confidence is essential for happiness, bliss, heath, work success, relationship success, etc. Having a lot of "stuff" in your life is a huge drain to your energy. When you are holding on to so many "things" and "experiences", you are blocking new, vibrant energy from coming into your life. Keeping your energy field open and clean will completely increase your self care level. That impacts your confidence. 

4. YOU WILL MAKE MORE MONEY

...and be so much more successful. Organization breeds effectiveness, focus, clarity, decision making skills. All of these things lend to improving success in work and business. If you are looking to get a raise, make more money & sales, attract better clients, you must get organized. Clear out any clutter in your office, throw things away, invest in better office supplies and get super organized! You will feel better about yourself, feel better about the work that you do and be more aligned with your purpose on this earth. What could be more blissful than that?

Cover photo: Veranda Magazine, Melanie Turner Interiors; thisisglamorous, unknkown, Style at Home, Kim Calabrigo

Blissful Business: 3 crystals to enhance your creativity, success & confidence

It's been very interesting lately how much we are all on a new spiritual wave. When I began sharing more about how I use crystals and Feng Shui on my Instagram, the more emails and messages I have received. More than ever before. When I began implementing more of my spiritual practice into my business, things began to shift immediately...for the better. 

So much of it really starts with letting go. Letting go of the need to hustle, need to control, need to force things to happen or need to know the outcome. There is a time for the hustle and a time for the flow. I learned this lesson when I began practicing Feng Shui in all aspects of my life, there needs to be a perfect balance of masculine and feminine in order for the flow to work. I am a Capricorn and an expert at working hard but it wasn't until I learned how to lean back and let go that things really clicked and made a lot more sense for me. 

The masculine part is being super organized, super clear and focused on the right things for your business. I share how to do all of that here. The feminine aspect is where the crystals, Feng Shui and my spiritual practices came in. These incredible things, gave me a guideline for how to amp up the Yin (the feminine) side of things. That's when doors open, opportunities come out of thin air, manifesting actually works and there is a feeling of freedom and flow. 

I even wrote an e-book all about how I began to flow more once I started using crystals in my life. I changed my health, my joy, my relationship status, etc. Read my story in the book, Manifesting with Crystals.



I will be sharing a lot more of these concepts but for now, I want to share with you 3 crystals that are great tools for keeping by or on your desk to enhance your success and creativity. 

1. Amethyst. In Feng Shui, the color purple is a symbol for wealth and abundance so this crystal brings excellent color to your desk energy. It's also a crystal that connects you with your spirituality and your intuition. It activates your crown chakra so that you can hear your higher self & what it wants you to create. Your higher self knows the things your soul longs to create, and you will know because it will flow out of you. So when you are needing to tap into your creative potential, you can wear an amethyst crystal bracelet on your right wrist, (the hand you create with). You can also place one on your desk, stare at it or hold it while meditating. Whatever feels good to you. 

2. Citrine. This gorgeous crystal represents confidence, courage, vitality and represents the bright energy of the sun. Keep this crystal close to give you a boost of optimistic energy for whatever you are working on. It is known to be the crystal of manifestation as she helps give you the energy you need to manifest your dreams. So, if you’ve been feeling like you need a little extra energy, grab your citrine crystals and go get em! p.s. if have a dimly lit office, this crystal brings on the feeling of natural, bright light.

3. Selenite. White crystals are incredible for cleansing energy and purification of the mind, body and soul. If you are stressed, needing any sort of focus and clarity, this crystal is your magic little pill. I keep several Selenite wands around my home in wand form and I often use them like a magic want to brush away stagnant or negative energy. It also helps you to get honest. Honest with your clients, honest with yourself about what you can do, etc. Pretty powerful. You can watch my video discussing the benefits of Selenite here.

WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR CRYSTALS:

First, I cleanse & charge my crystals, constantly. It's fun to do actually. Just light up some palo santo or sage and let the smoke fill the area with new, clean energy. Next, give your crystals a purpose or an assignment. Hold them in your hand, close your eyes and give them a job to do. For example, one of my first times I ever held my selenite wand, I gave it the purpose to help get rid of things that do not serve me. So each time I use that crystal, I am confident in "letting go" and letting the universe do it for me. Crystals are a great connection to the universe and the earth. Which is really good Feng Shui. Finally, you want to place them where they look beautiful on your desk. The upper left hand corner of your desk represents the wealth sector of the Feng Shui bagua, so thats a really good place to start. Arrange them in a way that feels good and beautiful to you. That's the important part of their magic, using them intentionally. 

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WHERE TO BUY YOUR CRYSTALS:

I recommend going to a crystal shop and finding authentic crystals for your home. You will be have fun feeling drawn to the right crystals for you. You want real, authentic crystals because they hold powerful energy so if you are using them in meditation or in your hands, be sure they are authentic. You can also find them in unique forms at places like HomeGoods. They may not be natural and authentic crystals but honestly, they still can serve as a representation of the symbol. A lot of times you can find these candle holder crystals and light a candle to amplify the vibes. They are so pretty too. It's whatever feels right and good to you. 

I know a lot of this feels a little out there and woo woo, so don't force yourself if you don't feel it. However, I have found the effects of implementing these magical tools in my life to be very effective. 

And again, grab my e-book, How to manifest with Crystals. Inside you will learn:

💎 How to shop for crystals
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💎 Why you need crystals in your life & how you can use them to amplify your manifestations.
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💎 Which crystals go where & why.
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💎How to set up your home with crystals for love, money, health, etc.
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💎 Which Crystals work best in which rooms & why.
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💎 Why you may be dream to specific crystals over others.