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Entrepreneuress 101: How to attract the clients you WANT!

The Decorista September 10, 2014

Many of you readers are so dear to my heart because you are budding little decoristas, designers, creatives, etc. I love your emails asking me for advice and any words of wisdom. I get so excited to just share everything I know and I enjoy coaching you girls so much! Today, I have a super fun topic to talk about...How to actually target the ideal client base that you dream of. My girl Dayka, an Atlanta designer, laid it out for us perfectly and today is sharing a few tips with us that I could not have said better myself...

If you're feeling creatively stuck as a designer (or ANY creative artist), one of the first things you should assess is whether you're really working with your targeted crowd...because nothing will suck the life out of you like an "un-ideal" client (that sounds much nicer than calling them "bad", right?). An ideal client is to a creative like a weave is to Beyonce...you can still have a business without it, but it doesn't quite have the same spirit. (Get my drift?) 

Attracting your ideal client won't ensure your business will be a raving success, but constantly working with "your people" is one of the best ways to position yourself FOR success.

HERE'S WHY (AND HOW) TO ATTRACT THE CLIENTS YOU WANT

1. Figure out who they are.

 I mean really sit down and figure it out. People always crack up at me because 

I can easily run off the demographics of my current client base

 (income, ethnicity, family size, education, location, age, marital status)--one thing you can be assured of, I know who my people are, and I know who I want to work with. 

Simply saying that you want to work with "people with money" might be the obvious choice but it isn't enough, plus...it cheapens you as a creative.

 Do you REALLY want to work with just anyone who throws a stack of money in your lap? I know I don't. I like clients with great energy & an appreciation of great style (fashion, makeup, hair, architecture, Interior Design, etc) who like to like to push past their boundaries and are confident in their selection of me as their designer not because I'm the cheapest, but because they want to work with me specifically. I like clients who want to take chances but hire me because they love my aesthetic and are not quite sure HOW to make the right choices in their decor. Simply having a big wallet just isn't enough.

As a creative, there are certain jobs you shouldn't take on and in order to be clear about which jobs to turn down, you have to identify your tribe. 

2. Know who YOU are. 

Wait a minute--are YOU even clear about what you're doing (or what service you're providing)?? If not, this is square one. 

Make sure you're clear about who you are as a brand & business owner and can clearly communicate your "who-ness" to others verbally

(or if you wanna get all business lingo technical, it's known as your USP [unique selling proposition]. If you're not sure about what & who you are, it doesn't take a brain surgeon to realize your people aren't going to be sure either.

And if they're not sure, they won't hire you. 

3. Create your highest standard (like attracts like). Look for opportunities to do the work you want to be doing now

--no matter where you are in your business--and create according to your standard. I recognize that this isn't always easy, especially if you have a taste for fine linen, custom drapery from the finest silks and 100% wool carpeting with a $1000 budget, but you can always start somewhere. Use your home as a canvas. Create smaller vignettes that articulate your style. Imagine that you're working with your ideal client--what would you create for them? Even if it's nothing other than a case study or concept board, 

create like you're already where you want to be

. After all...everyone knows that the fastest way to get what you want is to BE what you want. And like Ray Kinsella said in Field of Dreams "If you build it, they will come." So get to building!

4. Be consistent. Quality control, quality control, quality control!

 Be sure that the work you present to the world represents the kind of work you actually want to be doing in your business...all the time.

 If French Country isn't your thing but you happen to have taken on a few of those projects, don't share those images (or even pay for professional photography) on your website or social media accounts. 

A client would rather see one stellar project that represents the kind of work you're passionate about on your website versus 40 photos of a mix of styles that will confuse them about who you are and what your area of expertise is (besides taking the first check that comes along!). If you're a budding photographer and only 3 of your last 20 photo shoots met your expectations, only share the 3 you love and share those projects until the wheels fall off! Again, when you're consistently communicating who you are and who you want to be in business, you make it easier for the people who are looking for YOUR area of expertise to find you.

5. Ask for what you want. If you want a certain type of client, ask for them! I don't mean beg and plead in their face, but when you're networking and sharing about your business, speak with confidence about who you want to work with. When you run across your ideal client in your daily travels, communicate your desire to work with them and share not only how you can be of assistance to them but why/how your business or product would be a great fit for their project(or a project you can create). You have not, because you ask not...sometimes it really is that simple.

Are you working with you ideal clients? Have any advice to share? If so, please chime in and leave a comment below!

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bath talk: earth elements in the bath

The Decorista September 9, 2014

Because my current projects are in the Austin area, many of you may have noticed I've done a lot more wood posts than normal. This town is all about earthy elements in the home, so I'm learning all about it. Right now I'm redesigning a bathroom and all the client wants is a zen like, earthy space. I've found that wood is predominantly the easiest element to work with and here are my current inspirations...

The second I saw this first photo, I thought, YES! This is a pretty cool bathroom, warm it up with more towels and rugs and we are good to go. I love the exposed wood around the sink and the wood shelving. It's pretty fun. I also think the circular stone shape of the shower is cool and goes perfectly with the floor. The grey and wood combo is such a pretty vibe.

stone nicety

stone nicety

Now if I wanted to go a little more modern with the bath, I would do something like this stone lined bath. SUCH a cool look with the aqua tiles on the floor. I love that pop of color. I imagine it would be pretty inexpensive to do, possibly a DIY, if you're up for the challenge.

bathafter1

bathafter1

I also love love love this after bath [found here]. This is pretty easy to accomplish if you have a great wood guy, I know a genius one who works in the NYC or Austin area if any of you need.  To mix up the wood look, the marble on the wall and subway tile on the floor makes it clean and modern. Although, I'm currently obsessed with wood flooring in the bath, if you can get it coated and water resistant. I live for this chevron pattern...

flooring

flooring

Now, if you aren't into redesigning your entire bath, I also think that just adding touches of wood goes a long way when styling your bath.

touches of wood

touches of wood

A few wood accents for a chic bath...

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