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The Hot Girls Guide To New Orleans French Quarter

ashlina kaposta September 3, 2025

There are certain cities that feel less like a destination and more like an experience for the soul—and for me, New Orleans is one of them.

Stepping into the French Quarter feels like stepping into another world: a place where history lingers in the architecture, jazz drifts through the streets, and every corner invites you to slow down and savor life.

I recently had the most romantic trip there, and it completely swept me off my feet. From charming boutique hotels to candlelit dinners tucked away on cobblestone streets, everything was within walking distance, making it feel both intimate and magical.

In this guide, I’m sharing where to stay, the restaurants that became instant favorites, and the unforgettable little moments that made me fall in love with the French Quarter.

Whether you’re planning a dreamy getaway or just looking for inspiration, I hope you’ll see why this city has a way of capturing your heart forever.

For a detailed recap of my trip, listen to this podcast episode:

WHERE TO STAY:

Hotel Monteleon at night

my morning coffee

street glow

Where to Stay: Hotel Monteleone

When it comes to capturing the heart and soul of the French Quarter, no place does it quite like the Hotel Monteleone. This historic gem is more than just a hotel—it’s an experience. Built in 1886 and rumored to be haunted, it carries with it a sense of mystery and charm that makes your stay feel straight out of a storybook.

  • Charming & Historic Atmosphere: The moment you step inside, you’re greeted with old-world glamour—plush, traditional décor, glittering chandeliers, and details that feel timeless. It’s the kind of place where you instantly want to dress up just to wander the hallways.

  • Exceptional Service: Every single interaction felt warm, welcoming, and thoughtful. The staff has a way of making you feel like the hotel is your own private mansion in the Quarter.

  • The Pool Vibe: The rooftop pool was an unexpected highlight—sparkling, lively, and such a fun scene. With sweeping views of the city, it’s the perfect spot to sip a cocktail and watch the world go by.

  • The Famous Carousel Bar: This is truly the crown jewel of the Monteleone. The bar itself is a moving carousel (yes, it actually spins), and it’s one of the most beloved staples in New Orleans nightlife. Order an espresso martini (hands down the best in the city) and don’t skip their truffle fries—you’ll thank me later.

    💡 Insider Tip: The Carousel Bar is always buzzing, no matter the time of day. If you want to snag a coveted seat at the rotating bar itself, the best strategy is simple: make friends with the bartender.

    That’s what we did—ordered a drink, lingered nearby, and chatted until a seat opened up. It made the whole experience feel even more special (and trust me, it’s worth the wait).

hotel monteleon pool party

Carousel bar

Staying here gave our trip such a magical, romantic energy. From the history to the views to the buzzing social scene, Hotel Monteleone is the kind of place that becomes part of your love story with New Orleans.

Where to Eat in the French Quarter:

One of the greatest joys of visiting New Orleans is that the city practically invites you to eat your way through it—and nowhere is that more true than the French Quarter. Every meal feels like part of the experience: a mix of history, flavor, and a little bit of magic.

Whether it’s sipping iced coffee in the morning at a charming café, lingering over brunch in a sun-dappled courtyard, or ending the night with a cocktail in a sultry, velvet-clad bar, the food and drink here have a way of becoming part of your love story with the city.

On our trip, we discovered so many incredible spots—each with its own personality and flavor. Below are the restaurants and bars that truly stood out, all within walking distance of where we stayed, and each one offering something unforgettable. From classic French Quarter staples to hidden gems and new favorites, here’s where to eat (and drink!) when you want to taste the best of New Orleans.

cafe beignet morning view

enjoyed my iced coffee in the lush courtyard

BREAKFAST AT Café Beignet

No trip to New Orleans is complete without starting your morning at Café Beignet. Tucked right in the French Quarter, this charming little café feels like stepping into a Parisian postcard—quaint, cozy, and full of that easygoing New Orleans charm.

While the beignets are, of course, iconic, what really surprised me was how incredible the iced coffee was. Honestly, one of the best I’ve ever had. Pair it with one of their fluffy breakfast omelets and you’ll be perfectly fueled for a day of wandering through the Quarter.

Sylvain courtyard

peach fried chicken salad was delicious

Lunch at Sylvain

Nestled on a quiet street in the French Quarter, Sylvain feels like one of those hidden gems you stumble upon and instantly fall in love with. It’s equal parts cozy and chic, with a relaxed charm that makes it the perfect midday escape. The cocktail menu is fabulous—order one of their spritzes and you’ll see why it’s a local favorite.

We couldn’t resist the French fries, which were truly out of this world (crispy, golden, and dangerously addictive). For my main, I had the peach fried chicken salad, and it was every bit as dreamy as it sounds—fresh, flavorful, and a little unexpected in the best way.

💡 Insider Tip: If the weather is nice, ask for a table on the patio—it feels like your own secret garden hideaway in the middle of the French Quarter.

Cafe Amelie decor was perfection

the spicy bloody mary was on point

courtyard cherub

Brunch at Café Amelie

If you’re looking for a brunch spot that feels like pure New Orleans magic, Café Amelie is it. Tucked inside a historic French Quarter carriage house, the restaurant spills out into one of the most enchanting courtyards in the city.

The colorful French-inspired décor and lush greenery make it the kind of place where you’ll want to linger long after your meal. The cocktail game here is strong—think refreshing spritzes and spicy Bloody Marys that will wake you right up.

💡 Insider Tip: While the breakfast dishes aren’t the standout, do yourself a favor and order the shrimp & grits along with the shrimp appetizer. Both are bursting with flavor and will make your brunch here absolutely unforgettable.

loved the french 75 vibe

original french 75 recipe

potatoes were perfection

Happy Hour at French 75

For a happy hour that feels straight out of a glamorous Parisian evening, French 75 is the place to be. Known as the birthplace of the classic French 75 cocktail, this intimate bar captures the essence of old-world sophistication with a sultry New Orleans twist.

The space is decadent—sumptuous décor, warm lighting, and the hum of live jazz that makes you want to settle in and stay awhile. Naturally, the French 75s here are perfection, but don’t skip the food: the deviled eggs, tuna tartare, and perfectly crisp potatoes were standouts.

hermes bar was so charming

the grilled oysters were outstanding

Dinner at Antoine’s

For a truly romantic New Orleans dinner, Antoine’s is a must. Established in 1840, it’s the oldest family-run restaurant in the U.S., and dining here feels like stepping back in time—grand dining rooms, white tablecloths, and an air of timeless elegance.

We began our evening at the Hermes Bar, where the vibe is lively yet refined. A signature martini set the tone perfectly, paired with oysters to start. And not just any oysters—their grilled and baked oysters were hands-down the best thing on the menu, brimming with rich, buttery flavor.

For dinner, we surprised ourselves and went with the burgers, and they turned out to be just as incredible as the classics.

💡 Insider Tip: Start with a drink at the Hermes Bar before your reservation—it’s the best way to ease into the full Antoine’s experience and ensures you don’t miss out on their oysters, which are worth the visit alone. Also, dress up!

such a magical courtyard at orleans grapevine

I highly recommend the fish

Dinner at Orleans Grapevine

Of all the meals we enjoyed in New Orleans, Orleans Grapevine was hands-down my favorite. Tucked away just steps from Bourbon Street, this spot feels like a hidden sanctuary—a perfect blend of French Quarter charm and elevated dining.

Their courtyard seating is absolutely the place to be: romantic, intimate, and glowing under string lights. We started the evening with their signature martinis, which set the perfect tone, and then moved on to the fish of the day—cooked to perfection and bursting with flavor. Every single bite felt thoughtful and unforgettable.

💡 Insider Tip: Make a reservation and request a table in the courtyard. It’s the most magical way to enjoy the atmosphere, and it turns dinner into a truly memorable experience.

Bar Marilou

Late-Night Cocktails at Bar Marilou - salon salon

If you’re in the mood for something playful, sexy, and a little bit mysterious, make your way to Bar Marilou. One of the French Quarter’s newer hotspots, it’s tucked away inside the Maison de la Luz hotel and feels like a secret worth discovering.

The décor is bold, whimsical, and wildly Instagram-worthy—think jewel-toned velvet, vintage bookshelves, and Parisian flair in every corner. The cocktails are just as artful, crafted with unexpected ingredients that make every sip feel like an adventure.

It’s the kind of place that makes you want to dress up, lean into the romance of the city, and stay out just a little later than planned.

💡 Insider Tip: Try to snag a seat in one of the cozy nooks—it makes the whole experience feel even more intimate and special. And don’t be shy about asking the bartender for a recommendation; their craft cocktails are always on point.

Where to Shop in the French Quarter

If there’s one thing I adore about the French Quarter (besides the food), it’s the shopping. The neighborhood is filled with hidden gems, from couture boutiques to antique shops brimming with history. Every stop feels like a treasure hunt—you never know what one-of-a-kind piece you’ll stumble upon.

Vintage 329 – Designer Cocktail-Worthy Finds

Nestled on Royal Street in the heart of the French Quarter, Vintage 329 is your go-to haven for exquisite vintage Chanel and designer jewelry. In fact, it boasts the largest collection of authentic vintage Chanel jewelry in the entire United States—right here in New Orleans!

This boutique is a treasure trove of elegance and style, showcasing timeless pieces from Chanel, YSL, Miriam Haskell, Bakelite, and other iconic names in designer vintage fashion.

Whether you're hunting for a delicate brooch, a statement necklace, or a pair of earrings with history, Vintage 329 captures the romance and craftsmanship of fashion’s golden eras.

Fleur de Paris

hat collection was superb

Fleur de Paris Hats

If there’s one shop that feels like it was made for a romantic French Quarter stroll, it’s Fleur de Paris Hats. This boutique is pure enchantment—part couture salon, part fashion fantasy.

Inside, you’ll find an exquisite collection of one-of-a-kind dresses, tailored jackets, couture hats, handbags, and accessories that make you feel like you’ve stepped right into a Paris runway moment. Every piece is special, beautifully made, and utterly unique.

I found the most perfect dress and earrings here—pieces that felt as though they’d been waiting just for me. It’s truly every girl’s dream boutique, the kind of place where you leave with not just something to wear, but something to treasure.

💡 Insider Tip: Don’t rush through this shop. Take your time trying things on, chatting with the staff, and soaking up the artistry of each piece. If you’re celebrating something special (like a romantic trip), this is the perfect place to treat yourself to a forever keepsake. Ask for Ashley!

always eyeing the oyster plates at moss antiques

Moss Antiques

For a taste of New Orleans history through objects, Moss Antiques is a must-visit. This classic French Quarter antique shop is filled with timeless treasures, but the real showstopper is their incredible collection of oyster plates.

As someone who adores vintage and antique finds, walking through this shop felt like stepping into a carefully curated museum—only here, you get to bring a piece of history home. From fine furniture to delicate glassware, every corner is filled with something special.

💡 Insider Tip: If you’re hunting for oyster plates (a true collector’s item), this is the place to start your collection—or add to it. The staff is wonderfully knowledgeable and happy to share the stories behind the pieces, which makes shopping here feel like a conversation with the past.

Hemline

If you’re looking for a mix of trendy and timeless, Hemline is always a go-to. I already loved shopping Hemline in Texas, but the French Quarter location completely blew me away. It’s huge—spanning three bustling sections—and filled with everything from chic everyday staples to statement pieces that feel perfectly on-trend.

I ended up finding a couple of the cutest outfits here that I can’t wait to wear all fall. It’s the kind of store where you walk in just “to browse” and inevitably leave with a bag (or two) of new favorites.

💡 Insider Tip: You can bring your husband or boyfriend, they have excellent seating & they’ll pour you both champagne!

Romantic Things to Do in the French Quarter (Beyond Eating & Drinking)

New Orleans is a city made for romance, and beyond the incredible food and cocktails, there are so many experiences that make the French Quarter unforgettable. Here are a few of my favorites:

gorgeous building

fabulous ferns

💛 Stroll the French Quarter – Wander hand in hand through cobblestone streets and admire the gorgeous historic architecture that makes this neighborhood feel like another era.

canal street palm trees

💛 Take a Streetcar Ride on Canal Street – There’s something so nostalgic and romantic about gliding along Canal Street on a vintage streetcar. It’s an easy way to see more of the city while soaking in the charm together.

WWII museum was gorgeous

loved the installations

WWII aircraft carriers

💛 Visit the WWII Museum – A surprisingly romantic experience, this museum was moving and memorable—we were truly blown away by the history and storytelling.

Lafayette Park

💛 Walk Through the Parks – From the charm of Jackson Square to the beauty of Lafayette Park and Audubon Park, each green space feels like a little oasis for slowing down together.

second line was magical

💛 Catch a Second Line – If you’re lucky, you might stumble upon a joyful second line parade in the streets—complete with brass bands and dancing. It’s spontaneous, celebratory, and pure New Orleans magic.

Final Thoughts on the French Quarter

New Orleans has a way of stealing your heart, and for me, the French Quarter was pure magic from start to finish. From our romantic stay at the historic Hotel Monteleone, to unforgettable dinners under twinkling courtyard lights, to wandering shops filled with treasures, every moment felt like something out of a storybook. There’s truly no place else like it—rich in history, alive with music, and brimming with charm at every turn.

I already can’t wait to plan my next trip back, because this is the kind of city that keeps calling you to return. ✨

Have you been to New Orleans? I’d love to hear your tips, favorite restaurants, hidden shops, or must-do experiences. Share them in the comments below—I’ll be adding them to my list for my next visit!

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12 Must-Read Feminine Energy Books for Women Ready to Heal and Receive

ashlina kaposta September 2, 2025

If you’ve been on a journey of personal growth, you’ve likely heard the phrase feminine energy. But what does it really mean—and how do you embody it in your everyday life?

Feminine energy is about softness, radiance, creativity, intuition, and the art of allowing rather than forcing. It’s the balance that lets you be powerful without burning out, magnetic without chasing, and deeply fulfilled without constantly hustling.

Years ago, I realized I was living almost entirely in my masculine energy—overworking, people-pleasing, pushing myself to do more and be more, all while feeling increasingly exhausted and disconnected.

When I began exploring feminine energy, it felt foreign at first, but little by little it began to heal me. Learning to balance my masculine drive with my feminine flow changed everything in my relationships, my business, and my sense of self. And one of the most helpful tools on this journey? Books.

For me, reading books on feminine energy has been life-changing. These books have helped me reconnect with my own radiance, step into confidence, and soften into the version of myself that feels most authentic and empowered. If you’ve ever struggled with feeling like you have to “do it all” or constantly be in your masculine hustle mode, the wisdom in these books will be a total game-changer.

What is feminine energy? Listen to this podcast episode:

Related Reading: My favorite feminine energy practice

Here are the 12 best feminine energy books to guide you into a life of deeper connection, confidence, and magnetism.

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1. Powerful and Feminine: How to Increase Your Magnetic Presence and Attract the Attention You Want by Rachael Jayne Groover

If there’s one book I recommend every woman start with on her feminine energy journey, it’s this one. Powerful and Feminine is all about striking that beautiful balance between strength and softness—learning how to be taken seriously in your power while also leaning into your natural feminine magnetism.

Groover offers practical exercises that help you develop what she calls “magnetic presence”—that irresistible energy people feel the moment you walk into a room. For women who have felt like they’ve had to constantly hustle, overwork, or over-give to be seen, this book is a breath of fresh air. It shows you how to embody your feminine essence in a way that attracts opportunities, respect, and deeper connection, without burning out or losing yourself.

This is the perfect starting point if you’re craving a reset in how you show up in life, work, or love. Hint: This is hands down my favorite book on the list.

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2. Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer

Few books are as bold, unapologetic, and liberating as Pussy: A Reclamation. Regena Thomashauer, known as “Mama Gena,” takes readers on a journey of reclaiming the power, pleasure, and radiance of being a woman.

This book teaches you that your feminine essence is not something to be hidden or diminished—it’s the source of your confidence, creativity, and magnetism. With humor, warmth, and raw truth, Thomashauer shares stories and practices to help you reconnect with your body, your desires, and your pleasure as powerful guiding forces.

If you’ve ever struggled with feeling disconnected from your femininity, or guilty for wanting more pleasure in life, this book will shift everything.

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3. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

Although written primarily for men, The Way of the Superior Man is a powerful book for women, too. It’s one of the best explorations of masculine and feminine polarity—and understanding polarity is key to fully embodying feminine energy.

David Deida unpacks the dynamics of attraction, intimacy, and power between men and women. Reading it as a woman gives you incredible insight into how the masculine views the feminine, and how you can embrace your own softness, magnetism, and intuition while still honoring your strength.

This book is ideal if you want to deepen your understanding of relationships, intimacy, and the energetic dance of polarity.

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4. The Wild Woman’s Way by Michaela Boehm

Michaela Boehm blends psychology, embodiment practices, and spiritual wisdom in The Wild Woman’s Way. Her approach is about moving away from perfectionism and control, and instead embracing wholeness and the messy, beautiful truth of being a woman.

Through embodiment practices, she teaches how to reconnect with your body, your sensuality, and your natural rhythms. This book is a powerful reminder that true feminine energy isn’t about looking or acting a certain way—it’s about feeling fully alive, present, and grounded in your own skin.

Perfect for women craving a deeper sense of embodiment and presence in their everyday lives.

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5. Women Who Run With the Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés

An absolute classic, Women Who Run With the Wolves dives deep into myth, folklore, and archetypes to help women reclaim their instinctual, wild feminine power. Clarissa Pinkola Estés, a Jungian psychologist, weaves together storytelling and psychology in a way that awakens something ancient and powerful within you.

This book teaches you that the feminine isn’t just soft and gentle—it’s also wild, instinctive, and deeply wise. Reading it feels like being given permission to stop shrinking and instead step boldly into your full feminine essence.

This one is a must-read if you love deep, soulful books that stay with you forever.

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6. Awakening Shakti by Sally Kempton

Awakening Shakti explores the goddess archetypes of the Hindu tradition, offering practical meditations and practices to connect with the divine feminine in everyday life. Sally Kempton makes the wisdom of these goddesses incredibly accessible, helping you embody their qualities—like creativity, love, transformation, and empowerment.

This book is ideal if you’re drawn to spirituality and want a more mystical approach to feminine energy. It’s not just a book—it’s a guide to living in alignment with your divine essence.

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7. The Queen’s Code by Alison Armstrong

The Queen’s Code is part story, part self-help book, and it’s incredibly transformative when it comes to relationships and communication. Armstrong explores how women can step into their feminine energy while also creating harmony with men, without losing their power.

Her writing feels like a conversation with a wise friend, offering insights into how men think, why misunderstandings happen, and how women can communicate in ways that honor both their softness and their strength.

It’s a practical and empowering read if you’re looking to improve your relationships while staying rooted in your feminine essence.

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8. Divine Feminine Energy by Angela Grace

This book is an excellent beginner-friendly guide to understanding and embodying feminine energy. Angela Grace breaks down the concepts of self-worth, confidence, softness, and receptivity in a way that’s approachable and practical.

What I love about this book is that it offers simple practices and reflections you can start using right away. It’s a great entry point if you’re just beginning your feminine energy journey and want something less abstract and more actionable.

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9. The Power of Receiving by Amanda Owen

One of the core aspects of feminine energy is the ability to receive—love, support, abundance, and pleasure. Yet for so many women, receiving feels uncomfortable. We’ve been conditioned to over-give, overdo, and constantly prove our worth.

The Power of Receiving shifts that narrative and helps you embrace the art of receptivity. Amanda Owen shares practices that make receiving feel natural and joyful, reminding you that it’s safe to soften, lean back, and allow blessings into your life.

This book is especially healing if you’ve struggled with burnout, people-pleasing, or constantly feeling like you have to be the strong one.

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10. The Divine Feminine by Layla Moon

If you’re just beginning your journey into feminine energy, The Divine Feminine by Layla Moon is the perfect place to start. Written in a clear and approachable way, this book breaks down the essence of feminine energy and shows you how to reconnect with your intuition, creativity, and softness.

What I love about this book is how practical it is—it offers simple exercises, reflections, and rituals that you can easily weave into your daily life. Layla Moon helps you see that embodying the divine feminine isn’t about becoming someone else—it’s about returning to the truest, most radiant version of yourself.

This is a gentle yet powerful guide that reminds you how magnetic, confident, and whole you already are.

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11. Open Her by Karen Brody

Open Her explores feminine energy through the lens of intimacy and connection. It dives into the power of surrender, vulnerability, and emotional openness as gateways to deeper love and authenticity.

This book encourages women to embrace their intuition, sensuality, and emotional depth as strengths rather than weaknesses. It’s a powerful read for women who want to cultivate both self-love and deeper romantic connection.

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12. Sacred Woman by Queen Afua

Sacred Woman is a spiritual and holistic guide that blends wellness, ritual, and divine feminine practices. Queen Afua weaves together ancient wisdom, healing rituals, and self-care practices designed to help women reconnect with their bodies, intuition, and power.

This book feels like a sacred initiation—guiding you to honor your body as a temple, embrace ritual in daily life, and reclaim your feminine essence as sacred.

A must-read for women craving a deeply spiritual, holistic, and healing approach to feminine energy.

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