Blissful Living: decorating with amethyst for spiritual glamour

If you are on my love letter list, you learned a couple of little secrets in yesterdays love letter. I always try to open up about what I experience on a very personal basis. After reading a couple of posts and private messages from the Blissful Living facebook group, I noticed that what you all are really craving is a sort of home sanctuary, a place where you can really unwind, get centered and clear your mind. 

I love to share inspiring sacred spaces so that you can create your own at home. For me, I feel part of me is very glamorous yet there is a spiritual side of me that loves some of these more bohemian looks. I'm all about a mix of both; spaces that reflect a spiritual, bohemian vibe yet still  elegant and glamorous. I've realized that it doesn't have to be one or the other. 

I have found that crystals have been such a fun way for me to incorporate that energy into my home and increase the spiritual vibe. I decided to share my favorite looks with Amethyst because I feel like it is the starter crystal. They are easy to find and I have seen them in some of the most beautifully designed spaces. 

I read a little excerpt on Amethyst crystals on Vogue. com saying that 'crystals are the new Feng Shui.

Characteristics: The quartz family’s varied violet or purple colored precious stone is most commonly recognized by its bewitching blend of smooth prism formations and piercing edges within a raw and earthy rock exterior.
Origin: From the Greek a-methystos, meaning “not drunken.”
Benefits: “Not drunken” is a fitting name—the amethyst is said to promote clarity of mind, calmness, patience, and balance.
You Might Not Know: That amethyst is also said to influence one’s dream cycle, so much so that lucid dreaming is not uncommon. For heightened and enriched REM results, try finding a home for your healing stone somewhere within your sleeping quarters.

Here is the down-lo for decorating with amethyst at home:

These crystals work to purify any space of negative vibrations, emanating an energy ideal for you to thrive in. They help to clear the mind of unnecessary thoughts and clutter. On a physical level, having amethyst crystals in your home is believed to help strengthen the immune system and heal any imbalances that lie in the body.

Amethyst clusters and Amethyst geodes carry the strongest power to rid your home of negative energy, making them the best ones to fill your home with. These crystals can be placed on your fireplace or your altar—somewhere central in your house, so that the amethyst healing properties can radiate to every room. They also make wonderful additions to a child’s room because of their gentle and soothing energy. Amethyst crystals are even thought to help people who have trouble falling asleep. Placing an Amethyst cluster in your business is thought to attract abundance and bring new opportunities walking through the door.

Free People has some fabulous crystals for your home. 

Here is a shot of my amethyst on my bedside table and one of my amethyst candle holder on my coffee table. 

A little secret, rumor has it that when you place crystals in your plants, they stay healthy and growing. 

This shadow box is a beautiful and chic way to add amethyst to your home too. Only 34$

I do love these crystal boxes, the amethyst ones are so beautiful. Perfect for hiding jewels and knick knacks.

Image credits: The Aestate | Design Sponge | The Decorista | Lonny | Mydomaine | Nate Berkus Design | The Neo Trad | Sarah Swanson Design

7 things you should always buy at HomeGoods for a CHIC and blissful home

There’s nothing quite like the magic of a HomeGoods run. You walk in for one thing—maybe a new candle or a throw pillow—and suddenly you’re lost in a sea of stunning mirrors, designer-look rugs, and that one perfect decorative bowl you didn’t know you needed. But as dreamy as it is, HomeGoods can also feel overwhelming if you don’t know what to look for. With new inventory arriving constantly and every store layout a little different, it truly is a treasure hunt. The key? Knowing exactly what categories are worth scoping out and how to spot the gems among the chaos.

Over the years, I’ve developed a bit of a strategy—and honestly, a lot of my favorite home decor pieces have come straight from those well-spent HomeGoods strolls. From sculptural accent chairs to high-end-looking bathroom accessories, the right finds can instantly elevate your space and make your home feel more curated, cozy, and chic. Shopping at HomeGoods isn’t just about scoring a deal (although that part is pretty great); it’s about discovering pieces that bring joy and beauty into your everyday life.

The seven items I’m sharing below are my go-to categories—things I consistently look for and always recommend. These are the little design secrets that help me keep my home feeling elevated, organized, and blissfully put-together. If you’re craving a home refresh or want to add a dose of personality to your space without spending a fortune, this list is your starting point.

FUN FACT: TUESDAYS are the best days to shop at these stores. They typically put out all the new inventory out on Monday evening. (My friends mom has a part time job at one of these stores, so that’s how I get all the juicy details) Come to think of it, how fun would it be to have a part time gig at HomeGoods when retired and just looking for something fun to do. I love that.

Anyway, here we go…..

You should also see: 15 bohemian chic affordable finds from Wayfair

7 things you should always buy at HomeGoods:

01 | LOAD UP ON LAYERS OF PILLOWS

K, so I love velvet pillows, accent pillows with texture and the very soft and plush throw blankets they have. They come in almost every color, so you are sure to find one to fit the vibe of your home. I like the velvet pillows that come in a set of 2. They’re affordable and comfortable. So, it makes it easy to switch up your pillows for the seasons.

02 | SHOP FOR SCENTED CANDLES

Omg. This is one of my most favorite things to do in life. Smelling candles at HomeGoods. I can’t believe I actually just admitted that. Anyway, I do. Right now they have the winter candles out and they are soooooo good! I really anything by DW Home candles. Those are the best candles in my opinion, they burn the longest and have really good burn range, meaning they smell up not just one room but will linger into others. They also have Yankee Candles which are also really fragrant, too.

03 | HIT UP THE HEALTH ISLE

I am obsessed with these Lifestyle Awareness teas. I probably have about 5 at home currently. They really are so good. There are a ton of vitamins, teas, collagen powders, etc. This is a great way to get a bargain on your health needs. There are also chic containers and jars that you could use to organize all of your health essentials.

04 | DIG THROUGH THE DISHES

One of my biggest secrets for really good self care and healthy eating, is always using gorgeous dishes to eat on. When you are eating with beautiful things, you tend to focus more on the food and less on the distractions. Make eating a beautiful ritual with things that make you happy. I found these gorgeous white and gold quilted dishes which would look so glam with a breakfast, no?

05 | HEALTHY COOKING ITEMS

Wood cooking spoons are much healthier to cook with than the plastic ones. Same for strainers, get them in gorgeous copper. They have done such a good job making pretty things for kitchen. I love the wood cutting boards, spoons, etc. They look glam mixed with copper.

06 | PERSONALIZE YOUR PLACE WITH PRETTY PULLS

I spoke about this in one of my recent podcasts. When you are renting, one great way to personalize your space is through hardware. There are so many affordable options here. They are always mixing the styles up so you gotta keep going to get the good ones. I love the agate and stone pulls.

07 | VELVET HANGERS

Okay, so having matching hangers is everything. My boyfriend has so many wire hangers from the dry cleaners and I literally cringe at the sight of them. I am desperately trying to move these babies in. I have shopped everywhere for velvet hangers and HG has the best looking, most durable and most affordable ones. They keep clothes hung properly which helps your clothes last longer. Also, you can have each family member with a different color, so when sorting hanging laundry, you always know what is what. I just love these.

At the end of the day, HomeGoods is more than just a place to browse—it’s a goldmine for affordable, elevated home decor that helps you turn your space into a sanctuary. Whether you're styling a shelf, refreshing your entryway, or just want that little pop of something new, these seven tried-and-true finds are my personal musts for creating a home that feels both chic and blissfully lived-in.

So next time you head out on a HomeGoods run, bring this list along—you might just walk out with a few treasures that make your home feel even more you. Let me know in the comments below what you like to buy at HomeGoods.

IN CASE YOU MISSED IT….check out the podcast I recorded about turning your home into a sanctuary. This episode will make this post make much more sense. Hope you enjoy.