​

ASHLINA KAPOSTA

Interiors. Lifestyle. Blissful Living.
  • About
  • Blog
  • CATEGORIES
    • HOME DECOR
    • SELF CARE
    • FENG SHUI
    • BLOGGING
    • ENTREPRENEURSHIP
    • FASHION
    • ORGANIZING
    • SPIRITUALITY
    • GIFT GUIDES
    • MANIFESTATION
    • ASTROLOGY
  • COURSES
  • SERVICES
    • COACHING
    • Home Consultation
    • BIRTH CHART READING
  • My work
    • BOOKS
    • PODCAST
    • Press
    • ISTA MAGAZINE
    • Interiors
    • Styling
  • Sources
    • Decorate
    • entertain
    • WELLNESS
    • Style
    • Work
    • Books
    • ALL THE THINGS
    • BEST OF AMAZON
  • CONTACT
  • About
  • Blog
    • HOME DECOR
    • SELF CARE
    • FENG SHUI
    • BLOGGING
    • ENTREPRENEURSHIP
    • FASHION
    • ORGANIZING
    • SPIRITUALITY
    • GIFT GUIDES
    • MANIFESTATION
    • ASTROLOGY
  • COURSES
    • COACHING
    • Home Consultation
    • BIRTH CHART READING
    • BOOKS
    • PODCAST
    • Press
    • ISTA MAGAZINE
    • Interiors
    • Styling
    • Decorate
    • entertain
    • WELLNESS
    • Style
    • Work
    • Books
    • ALL THE THINGS
    • BEST OF AMAZON
  • CONTACT

Blog

Ashlina - Lifestyle Blog

  • All
  • 10 things
  • accessories
  • architecture
  • art
  • art + room
  • art wall
  • artists
  • ashlina
  • Ashlina projects
  • bathrooms
  • beauty bliss
  • bedding
  • bedrooms
  • black
  • blogging
  • blogs i heart
  • blue
  • bookcases
  • books
  • business
  • candles
  • celebrity interiors
  • chairs
  • christmas
  • collections
  • color
  • color lover
  • color story
  • decor
  • decor tips
  • decor trends
  • decorating
  • decorating ideas
  • decorista diy
  • design
  • dining rooms
  • do it yourself
  • eclectic glamour
  • entertaining
  • entreprenueress
  • fab finds
  • fabric
  • fall style
  • fashion
  • fashion friday
  • fashion meets decor
  • fashionising
  • favorites
  • fragrance
  • fur
  • furniture
  • glamorous
  • global design influences
  • gold
  • green
  • grey
  • guest bedrooms
  • guest blogging
  • holiday gift guide
  • holidays
  • hollywood glamour
  • home office
  • Home Tour
  • hotels
  • house tour
  • i heart art
  • ikea
  • inspiration
  • instagram
  • interior decor
  • interior decorating
  • interior design
  • interior designers i love
  • jewelry
  • johnathan adler
  • kelly wearstler
  • killer color combo
  • kitchen bliss
  • leather
  • lifestyle
  • lighting
  • living rooms
  • london
  • masculine chic
  • metallics
  • mirrors
  • my apartment
  • my home
  • my life
  • my nyc apartment
  • my style
  • new york
  • nyc
  • nyc events
  • obsessions
  • office space
  • organization
  • painted furniture
  • photography
  • pink
  • PODCAST
  • portfolios
  • powder rooms
  • pretty
  • restaurants
  • rooms that rock my world
  • rugs
  • seating
  • secrets
  • secrets of domestic bliss
  • selections
  • self care
  • self help
  • shopping
  • sofas
  • store decor
  • stripes
  • style file
  • styling
  • stylish women
  • tablescape tuesday
  • tablescapes
  • taxidermy
  • teal
  • things i love
  • thrift shopping
  • tip of the day
  • traveling
  • trend spotting
  • Uncategorized
  • wall color
  • wallpaper
  • wanderlust
  • wellness
  • white
  • white done right
  • wise words
  • yellow

5 simple habits to boost your personal confidence

ashlina kaposta August 19, 2020

"if you've been searching for the light at the end of the tunnel, this is a reminder that the light is already within you" 

It’s no secret that 2020 has been a total rollercoaster. For me personally, there have been many ups and downs. But despite the uncertainty of the year, I’ve actually found this to be one of my most successful years so far. I’m not sure if its the unpredictability that threw me into a state of being that isn’t so attached or fixated on things going a certain way. I’ve really had to embrace the art of going with the flow.

When you aren’t completely attached or set on something, it allows room for the Universe to step in and create miracles. And for me, this year has been completely miraculous feeling. I’ve been more in tune with my creativity than ever before and I can’t help but notice that I have also been forced to be “detached” from the outcome which they say puts you in better alignment for manifesting the things that you want.

More importantly, I can’t help but notice that my confidence level has vastly improved as I’ve been moving more into this ‘go with the flow’ vibe.

0V2A2124.jpg

For as long as I can remember, I have made my spiritual practice and my internal energy my TOP priority. Before I do anything else, I go to find my center in order to make sure my mind doesn’t talk me out of things that are good for me or I don’t find myself struggling with fear, anxiety, depression, etc.

From my years of studying Feng Shui I know how important energy is. The energy of ourselves and the energy of our environment. According to ancient Asian literature, Qi (aka Chi aka high vibe energy) warms, nourishes, stimulates and protects the spirit and body, organs and fluids in human beings and in nature. When you are consistent in having Chi, you are more adaptable to the things that come your way in life, you hold more power and when you feel that full of high vibe energy…you radiate CONFIDENCE. And your confidence is that unstoppable, high vibe, manifest it all kind of energy. Who wouldn’t want to always be operating from that energy, right?

I’m going to share 5 simple, daily habits that you can implement to your routine to CHANGE YOUR LIFE!


  1. Proper exercise (Yoga Asanas). It’s no secret that body movement is one of the most important ways that we can enhance our overall physical well being. Yoga improves circulation, massages the organs and assists their overall function. A strong and flexible spine enhances the blood circulation and keeps the body young and powerful. Yoga helps with not only your body but also it’s like therapy for your mental fitness. It helps you to focus on there present and cultivate your mindfulness. I personally like doing a few stretches in the morning when I get up and also in the evening just before bed. I love how my body feels after I workout, it always gives me a little boost of confidence.

  2. The correct way of breathing (Pranayama). Breath work is such a game changer. I can remember the first time I practiced the Andrew Weil 4-7-8 breath technique, it totally transformed my ability to work through stress and anxiety quickly and easily. When we constantly regulate our breath, we are able to build up an extra amount of prana (life energy) and can use these energy reserves on a daily basis, especially in our manifesting efforts. Meditation and breath work are like little cheat codes to your manifestations. (I also love to use crystals to help my manifestations).

  3. Timely rest & relaxation (Savasana). I can’t ever remember a time I regretted taking a nap. Our bodies & minds sometimes need a break from all the work we put on ourselves. I find that if I ever feel exhausted or just overwhelmed, a small nap or rest will do just the trick. The thing to remember is that it needs to be true rest, not watching tv or doing something else while laying down.

  4. Fresh & healthy diet (preferably mostly plant based). A long time ago I tried a plant based diet cleanse (detox) and it honestly gave me so much clarity and energy! I no longer felt bloated and weighed down, I felt light and vibrant. I believe that in order to feel your best, you have to eat foods that make your body feel good throughout the day. Every person is different so you have to try what works for you but paying attention to the food you put in your body and how it makes you feel can completely revolutionize your day. For me, I love coffee but I took a step back from coffee and switched it out with my Arbonne Fizz drinks. Just making this simple shift changed a lot about how I felt about my body and my energy for the day.

  5. Positive thinking (Vedanta) and Mediation (Dhyana). Meditation connects you with your soul. That connection gives you access to your intuition, your hearts true desires, your integrity and the inspiration to create a life you love! When you frequently meditate, you have a better control of your mindset, which puts you in a very powerful position to use your mind as a tool for manifesting.

When you feel calm, centered and in control of your life, you feel confidence. These are some of the ways I put my spiritual development at the top of my to do list everyday. It is such a priority to me to make sure that I walk through my days feeling powerful and confident.

Screen Shot 2020-08-19 at 6.07.22 PM.png

Blissful Living Tip of the day: Before you do anything that is taking an action (masculine), make decisions, speak up, make requests, etc.....
Stop, take a deep breath (feminine) and ask yourself...
..am I doing this out of fear/worry or inspiration/love ?

.
Make a commitment to yourself to do nothing until it is purely an action out of inspiration and love. 💕


more please
6 simple ways to give your home a feng shui reset.jpg
Jul 10, 2025
Feng Shui : 6 simple ways to instantly create a high vibrational home {podcast ep.}
Jul 10, 2025
Jul 10, 2025
7 things you should always buy at home goods.jpg
Jul 9, 2025
7 things you should always buy at HomeGoods for a CHIC and blissful home
Jul 9, 2025
Jul 9, 2025
6 WELLNESS HABITS TO ADOPT WHEN YOU TURN 40.jpg
Jul 8, 2025
HOW TO KEEP YOUR GLOW: 6 healthy habits you need to adopt when you turn 40
Jul 8, 2025
Jul 8, 2025
HOW TO MAKE THE MOST OF AMAZON PRIME DAY.jpg
Jul 8, 2025
How to Make the Most of Amazon Prime Day 2025
Jul 8, 2025
Jul 8, 2025
10 of the cutest bathmats you've ever seen on the internet.jpg
Jul 1, 2025
10 of the cheekiest little bath mats you ever did see
Jul 1, 2025
Jul 1, 2025
25+ Sweet Cherry Nail Ideas for Summer 2025 — ASHLINA KAPOSTA
Jul 1, 2025
25+ Sweet Cherry Nail Ideas for Summer 2025
Jul 1, 2025
Jul 1, 2025
HOW TO HAVE A MONEY DATE FINANCIAL WELLNESS.jpg
Jun 30, 2025
Money Matters: How to Have a Money Date and Why It’s an Essential Wellness Practice {podcast ep.349}
Jun 30, 2025
Jun 30, 2025
GUIDE TO CANCER SEASON EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO KNOW.jpg
Jun 29, 2025
Cancer Season 2025 Guide: Journal Prompts, Rituals, Affirmations + Astrology Advice for All 12 Signs
Jun 29, 2025
Jun 29, 2025
how to create your own vintage gallery wall.jpg
Jun 27, 2025
How to Create a Dreamy Gallery Wall That Would Make Nancy Meyers Proud
Jun 27, 2025
Jun 27, 2025
how to plan your day as a human design generator copy.jpg
Jun 25, 2025
How to Run Your Life & Business as a Human Design Generator (Without Burning Out or Forcing Success)
Jun 25, 2025
Jun 25, 2025
35+ Chic Fall Nail Ideas to Inspire you this Autumn Season 2025
Jun 24, 2025
35+ Chic Fall Nail Ideas to Inspire you this Autumn Season 2025
Jun 24, 2025
Jun 24, 2025
TJ MAXX ITALIAN SUMMER.jpg
Jun 18, 2025
Currently at TJ Maxx
Jun 18, 2025
Jun 18, 2025
why everyone is drinking lemon balm tea.jpg
Jun 17, 2025
Why Everyong is Drinking Lemon Balm Tea (+ 10 Soothing Recipes to Try!)
Jun 17, 2025
Jun 17, 2025
how to glow up during venus in taurus.jpg
Jun 17, 2025
How to Decorate, Dress and Manifest Money During Venus in Taurus Season 2025
Jun 17, 2025
Jun 17, 2025
25 WAYS TO STYLE YOUR HOME WITH SEASHELLS.jpg
Jun 16, 2025
Decorating with Seashells: A Breezy Dive into Coastal Charm, History, and Why It’s Always in Style
Jun 16, 2025
Jun 16, 2025
draped american flag on art for entryway
Jun 16, 2025
15 Beautiful Vintage Inspired Fourth of July decorating ideas
Jun 16, 2025
Jun 16, 2025
palm beach pink accents on amazon.jpg
Jun 13, 2025
Get the look | Palm Beach Chic ( 45+ glamorous look for less finds on Amazon )
Jun 13, 2025
Jun 13, 2025
12 Creative Outdoor Lighting Ideas for Magical Summer Nights
Jun 11, 2025
12 Creative Outdoor Lighting Ideas for Magical Summer Nights
Jun 11, 2025
Jun 11, 2025
 30+ Ways to try The Goddess Nail Trend: Summer 2025’s Most Divine Manicure Moment
Jun 4, 2025
30+ Ways to try The Goddess Nail Trend: Summer 2025’s Most Divine Manicure Moment
Jun 4, 2025
Jun 4, 2025
black and white umbrella outdoor.jpeg
Jun 3, 2025
17 ways to style your outdoor patio space with black and white stripes
Jun 3, 2025
Jun 3, 2025
The History and Chic Comeback of Oyster Plates: Why These Antiques Are the Newest Design Obsession
May 20, 2025
The History and Chic Comeback of Oyster Plates: Why These Antiques Are the Newest Design Obsession
May 20, 2025
May 20, 2025
red flowers in bathroom
May 6, 2025
The Unexpected Pop of Red Theory: How One Bold Hue Can Transform Your Space
May 6, 2025
May 6, 2025
11 things to do on the new moon.jpg
Apr 23, 2025
The Ultimate Guide for What to Do on the New Moon (Rituals, Manifestation Tips + More)
Apr 23, 2025
Apr 23, 2025
Mother’s Day Garden Basket.jpeg
Apr 21, 2025
What to Put in a Gardener’s Gift Basket (33+ creative ideas to copy for Mother's Day)
Apr 21, 2025
Apr 21, 2025
20 Aesthetic Fridge Organization Ideas - Decorating Your Fridge for Wellness + Daily Joy
Apr 21, 2025
20 Aesthetic Fridge Organization Ideas - Decorating Your Fridge for Wellness + Daily Joy
Apr 21, 2025
Apr 21, 2025
D0E54224-2C41-4869-93E8-E399FC286C9F.jpg
Apr 17, 2025
19+ Best Butter Yellow Manicure Ideas to Inspire Your Perfect Summer Nails in 2024
Apr 17, 2025
Apr 17, 2025
How to boost your oxytocin hormone.jpg
Apr 10, 2025
Why Women Need Oxytocin More Than Ever (And How to Naturally Boost It Every Day) podcast ep. 342
Apr 10, 2025
Apr 10, 2025
30 charming garden space.jpeg
Apr 8, 2025
21 Charming Small Backyard Flower Garden Ideas ( on a budget )
Apr 8, 2025
Apr 8, 2025
50+ Iconic Boat & Tote bag ideas & why you need one this Summer
Apr 2, 2025
50+ Iconic Boat & Tote bag ideas & why you need one this Summer
Apr 2, 2025
Apr 2, 2025
Screenshot 2025-03-28 at 1.53.33 PM.png
Apr 1, 2025
50+ Easter Basket Gift Ideas for kids (finds under $30)
Apr 1, 2025
Apr 1, 2025

Title image via WeHeartIt.

Tags spiritual glamour, mindfulness, meditation, confidence
Comment

ASHLINA KAPOSTA

… A creative, work from home, mom-entrepreneur who is passionate about all things blissful. Here you’ll find musings on decorating, slow living, self-development, spirituality, femininity, mindset, health, astrology, wellness, business, organization and lifestyle!

Pour yourself a glass of wine and stay a while…


GET MY FREE WEEKLY LOVE LETTERS:

RECENT POSTS…

Featured
Jul 10, 2025
Feng Shui : 6 simple ways to instantly create a high vibrational home {podcast ep.}
Jul 10, 2025
Jul 10, 2025
Jul 9, 2025
7 things you should always buy at HomeGoods for a CHIC and blissful home
Jul 9, 2025
Jul 9, 2025
Jul 8, 2025
HOW TO KEEP YOUR GLOW: 6 healthy habits you need to adopt when you turn 40
Jul 8, 2025
Jul 8, 2025
Jul 8, 2025
How to Make the Most of Amazon Prime Day 2025
Jul 8, 2025
Jul 8, 2025
Jul 1, 2025
10 of the cheekiest little bath mats you ever did see
Jul 1, 2025
Jul 1, 2025
Jul 1, 2025
25+ Sweet Cherry Nail Ideas for Summer 2025
Jul 1, 2025
Jul 1, 2025
Jun 30, 2025
Money Matters: How to Have a Money Date and Why It’s an Essential Wellness Practice {podcast ep.349}
Jun 30, 2025
Jun 30, 2025
Jun 29, 2025
Cancer Season 2025 Guide: Journal Prompts, Rituals, Affirmations + Astrology Advice for All 12 Signs
Jun 29, 2025
Jun 29, 2025

LISTEN TO THE PODCAST:

JOIN THE MEMBERSHIP:

learn how to manifest

grab my NEWest E-BOOK:

click for details

Follow me on Houzz

SHOP MY STYLE:

BUY MY JOURNAL. . .

click here to purchase

premiere sponsors

This website is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com.

pinterest twitter youtube-unauth facebook-unauth instagram-unauth

CREATE A BEAUTIFUL SITE LIKE THIS ONE

Privacy Policy

ASHLINA KAPOSTA

Interiors. Lifestyle. Blissful Living.

Ashlina - Blissful Living, a lifestyle blog. Mindset, wellness, organization, decorating, spirituality, femininity

pinterest twitter youtube-unauth facebook-unauth instagram-unauth