The Ultimate Guide for What to Do on the New Moon (Rituals, Manifestation Tips + More)

There is nothing I love more than freshening up my space for a new week, a new day and especially a new moon. A while back I fell madly in love with everything I have learned on living with the phases of the moon. Something about it just inspires me. 

If you've never really tapped into the energy of the new moon, NOW is the time to start aligning your personal feminine energy with the moon’s so that you work with the lunar cycle.

If you're feeling the pull to slow down, reset, or start something new — you might be tuning into the energy of the New Moon. Often overlooked, this powerful lunar phase offers a blank canvas for manifesting dreams, setting aligned intentions, and calling your power back to you. Whether you're new to moon rituals or a seasoned spiritual babe, this guide will walk you through everything you need to do during the New Moon to activate magic in your life.

Inside, you'll discover powerful rituals to do at home, mindset shifts, journaling prompts, manifestation techniques, embodiment practices, and New Moon guidance by zodiac sign. Plus, if you love manifesting in community, I’ll share how to join me live inside Manifestation Queen — my signature membership where we do powerful New Moon work together every month.

Let’s dive into the magic…

What Is the New Moon and Why It Matters

The New Moon occurs when the moon is completely dark in the sky — a cosmic reset button. This phase represents new beginnings, planting seeds, fresh intentions, and aligning your inner world with your outer desires.

Think of it as your monthly chance to:

• Set powerful goals

• Tune into your higher self

• Begin again (with clarity and confidence)

• Shift your energy in the direction you truly desire

This is not the time for action or hustle — it’s the time for visioning, dreaming, aligning, and intention-setting.

5 Things to Do at Home During the New Moon

💜 SLOW DOWN & GET CENTERED

Go into your sanctuary or quiet reading corner and whip out your journal. Grab a beautiful pen or marker and make a list of all the things you want to experience during this phase of the moon. Not from your mind, write from your heart...choose only your deepest desires.

You can also just write the feelings you want to experience. Love, bliss, financial abundance, relaxation, increased health and wellness. Write them big and boldly so you can see them easily when you flip back to that page before the next new moon. 

Make sure you are connecting to joy and bliss when you are writing these things down. If the process lights you up and makes you feel good, you will most definitely amplify the energy of your wishes. It's all about the energy and intention you bring to things. 

💜 CLEAN OUT STAGNANT SPACES IN YOUR LIFE & HOME

Even if you don't really feel you have the time or energy, think yourself into the cleaning mood. Keep reminding yourself that cleansing and refreshing makes room for new things. You can learn how to reset your home and reset your life inside my High Vibe Home workshop.

Where do you want new things in your life?

Health and wellness? Make a pitcher of water for your fridge and add berries or some citrus to it so you are more likely to flush out your body with water. While your at it, clean your fridge too.

Mindset? Pick up and toss out mail. Wipe down your counters with citrus cleanser. Clean out your junk drawer or any place that could use some organizing. 

Confidence? Clear out your closet. Use the new moon to toss out old clothes with old and stagnant energy. You can certainly make room for a whole new look and a new you. 

Finances? Clean out your wallet, your planner/agenda, your files and your money. Re-organize your purse and your mail drop/bill paying area. 

Career/Work? Clean out your desk/home office. Organize everything. Create a new system for your office duties. Apply everything I discuss in this post about how to feng shui the home office.

💜 BRING IN NEW BLOOMS

Fresh flowers or pretty plants are always a must for me during this time. A new bloom always signifies a new start. You can put your new plant or flower ( i highly suggest an orchid ) in the wealth / money corner of your home. What could be more blissful than that?

💜 CLEANSE YOUR CRYSTALS & CREATE AN ALTAR

I always like to use the new moon to cleanse my crystals. You can place them outside to get cleansed by the moon light over night. For an easy cleanse, you can place them along your windowsill to get the moon light basking as well. 

Related Reading: How to Create a Spiritual Altar

Set up a small altar with:

• A white candle for clarity

• Crystals (clear quartz, moonstone, labradorite)

• A written intention or affirmation

• Fresh flowers or herbs

• Anything that symbolizes new beginnings

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💜 ACTIVATE YOUR FRESH START BY IGNITING FIRE

In Feng Shui, fire will activate your intentions. I enjoy lighting candles for everything. Each time I light a candle, I say a mantra or affirmation to myself with an intention that I want to manifest.  When you say a mantra, really mean it, really get into it and let that energy guide you. If you talk to your heart and follow it, you will never be led in a wrong direction. 

You can also do a sage/palo santo burning and cleansing ritual. It will have a beautiful effect in your home refresh for the new moon. I always love getting into these beautiful rituals. 

Mindset Shifts + Mental Rituals for the New Moon

Your mind is your most powerful manifesting tool. During the New Moon, align your thoughts with the life you want, not the one you’re trying to escape.

1. Journal with These New Moon Prompts

• What am I ready to call into my life?

• What’s been holding me back?

• If I fully trusted myself, what would I do next?

• What one area of my life is ready for a fresh start?

2. Write Your Intentions Like a Story

Write your intentions in the present tense as if they’ve already happened. Don’t just list goals — write a scene. How does it feel? Who are you with? Where are you?

Example: I wake up in my sunlit apartment, sipping coffee and reading through my newest batch of podcast sponsorship offers.

3. Release Limiting Beliefs

Write down anything that’s blocking you (i.e., “I don’t believe I’m good enough to start my dream business”), then burn or rip the paper. Symbolically clear the fear to make room for belief.

New Moon Manifestation Tips That Actually Work

Manifestation isn’t just about what you want — it’s about who you’re becoming.

🌙 Visualize Daily

Spend 5 minutes each morning visualizing your New Moon intentions. Feel it in your body. Get emotional. The universe responds to vibration, not just words.

🌙 Speak Your Desires Out Loud

Don’t underestimate the power of your voice. Speak your intentions with confidence. Bonus points: do this while looking in the mirror for a self-worth boost.

🌙 Anchor with an Affirmation

Create one powerful affirmation to repeat throughout the lunar cycle.

Examples:

• “I am a powerful magnet for aligned opportunities.”

• “I trust the timing of my life.”

• “Everything I desire is on its way to me.”

Body + Embodiment Rituals for the New Moon

The New Moon isn’t just mental or spiritual — it’s deeply physical. Your body needs to feel safe enough to hold your next-level desires.

🌙 Move Your Body Intentionally

Try yin yoga, intuitive dance, or a slow walk under the stars. Tune in and ask your body, “What do you need to release?”

🌙 Breathwork or Guided Meditation

Connect your breath with your intention. A short, guided New Moon meditation can help you ground, clear your energy, and receive downloads.

Inside the Manifestation Queen Membership, we do monthly New Moon meditations and breathwork live together — and they are transformative. Breathwork or Guided Meditation

🌙 New Moon Energy by Zodiac Sign + Rituals to Try

Each New Moon carries the flavor of the zodiac sign it lands in. This unique energetic signature can help you set more powerful and aligned intentions. Here's how to work with the energy instead of against it — and a mini ritual idea for each sign:

♈ Aries New Moon

Theme: Bold new beginnings, courage, self-leadership, action

Perfect for: Starting a new project, getting out of your comfort zone, taking the first step

Mini Ritual:
Write a “confidence letter” to yourself as if you’ve already accomplished your big goal. Light a red candle and read the letter aloud to anchor the energy of boldness.

♉ Taurus New Moon

Theme: Self-worth, money mindset, beauty, grounding, pleasure

Perfect for: Manifesting money, upgrading your space, nourishing your body

Mini Ritual:
Create a “luxury vision board” with images that reflect the lifestyle you desire. Place it near your mirror and speak loving affirmations each morning.

♊ Gemini New Moon

Theme: Communication, ideas, learning, curiosity

Perfect for: Writing, launching content, having honest conversations, mental clarity

Mini Ritual:
Light incense or diffuse peppermint oil. Free-write for 10 minutes about your desires, then speak them aloud while looking in the mirror.

♋ Cancer New Moon

Theme: Home, emotional healing, self-care, intuition

Perfect for: Creating cozy home rituals, healing inner child wounds, connecting with loved ones

Mini Ritual:
Wrap yourself in a soft blanket, sip warm tea, and write a love letter to your younger self. Place it under your pillow overnight to energetically integrate the healing.

♌ Leo New Moon

Theme: Self-expression, joy, creativity, confidence

Perfect for: Being seen, sharing your gifts, creating something from the heart

Mini Ritual:
Stand in front of the mirror and perform a “glow-up activation” — dance, pose, speak affirmations. Then, do one small brave thing that shows the world who you are.

♍ Virgo New Moon

Theme: Health, habits, routines, organization

Perfect for: Decluttering, creating a new schedule, improving wellness

Mini Ritual:
Clean one space in your home with intention. As you tidy, say aloud, “As I create space around me, I create clarity within me.”

♎ Libra New Moon

Theme: Balance, beauty, relationships, harmony

Perfect for: Calling in love, enhancing self-image, restoring peace in relationships

Mini Ritual:
Create a “love altar” with roses, crystals (rose quartz or jade), and a written intention for the relationship you desire (with yourself or someone else).

♏ Scorpio New Moon

Theme: Transformation, power, emotional depth, rebirth

Perfect for: Shadow work, breaking patterns, calling back your energy

Mini Ritual:
Write down something you’re ready to let go of. Burn it safely in a bowl and say, “I release this with love. I reclaim my power.”

♐ Sagittarius New Moon

Theme: Expansion, optimism, freedom, wisdom

Perfect for: Manifesting travel, learning something new, dreaming big

Mini Ritual:
Create a “future self map” — draw or write out a visual roadmap of your next 12 months. Light a yellow candle and place the map where you’ll see it often.

♑ Capricorn New Moon

Theme: Discipline, goals, structure, career, legacy

Perfect for: Setting long-term goals, building foundations, manifesting success

Mini Ritual:
Write 3 big goals on separate pieces of paper. For each one, list the first action step. Commit to taking one step within the next 48 hours.

♒ Aquarius New Moon

Theme: Innovation, vision, community, higher thinking

Perfect for: Group manifestations, thinking outside the box, launching new ideas

Mini Ritual:
Write a “manifesto” for the world you want to live in. Share one part of it with a friend or community that inspires you — let your voice spark collective magic.

♓ Pisces New Moon

Theme: Intuition, dreams, spirituality, imagination

Perfect for: Deep rest, dreamwork, visioning, spiritual practices

Mini Ritual:
Before bed, write your intention under your pillow. Journal your dreams when you wake up — they might contain messages about your next step.

✨ Pro Tip: You can personalize your New Moon ritual even more by checking where the New Moon lands in your birth chart (i.e., which house it's in). That house shows where this reset energy is showing up most in your life.

Zodiac Signs & Theme of the New Moon:

Aries- Courage, bold new starts, action

Taurus- Money, beauty, stability, self-worth

Gemini- Communication, creativity, learning

Cancer-Home, emotional healing, nurturing

Leo-Confidence, creativity, leadership

Virgo-Organization, wellness, routines

Libra-Balance, relationships, beauty

Scorpio-Transformation, intimacy, power

Sagittarius-Expansion, freedom, adventure

Capricorn-Career goals, discipline, success

Aquarius-Innovation, community, vision

Pisces-Dreams, intuition, spiritual growth

Why the New Moon Is So Powerful for Manifestation

The New Moon isn’t about doing more — it’s about getting clear and letting your energy do the work. It’s a cosmic invitation to step into your next chapter — before the rest of the world sees it coming.

This is why I created Manifestation Queen, my signature monthly membership designed for women who are ready to create a magical, abundant, turned-on life by syncing with lunar energy.

Join Me for the Next New Moon Inside Manifestation Queen

Every New Moon, we gather live for:

• Deep intention-setting

• New Moon breathwork or meditation

• Ritual guidance based on the current zodiac energy

• Journaling, oracle cards, and real transformation

You’ll also get access to:

• A monthly manifestation workbook

• Manifestation trainings + rituals

• A powerful community of high-vibe women

Doors are now open — and this month’s New Moon is especially magical.
[Join Manifestation Queen here] and manifest with us live under the moonlight.

The New Moon is a sacred moment in time — an energetic window where you get to write your next chapter. Don’t miss the chance to align with it.

You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be present.

Let this be the month you show up fully for yourself, set your intentions boldly, and trust that what’s meant for you is already finding its way.

The moon is listening. Are you ready to speak your dreams into being?

I de-cluttered my closet and it changed my life - Here's how you can do it too {podcast ep. 324}

Let me paint a little picture for you. You’re sitting there at your cubicle desk, mindlessly drifting off scrolling on social media. All of a sudden you see a video of someone who has manifested their dream life.

You instantly think, if you can visualize what you want, you can call it into your life. Am I right?

So, you begin to daydream about your beautiful future. There you are, you’re dreaming of purchasing your very first luxury car. A brand new Mercedes. You can visualize the color, the interior finishes and even how it smells.

You picture yourself confidently walking into the dealership, smiling at the sales people eyeing you and you’re feeing fabulous.

The important question you MUST ask yourself here…..what am I wearing? This is where a lot of people get tripped up on their vision board.

What you are wearing says so much about the energy you bring to your life, especially your manifestations. In your dream life, would you be kicking it in yoga pants with sweaty hair? Hell no.

You’re going to wear your most fabulous outfit of the moment so you feel confident, chic and in control. You want to feel your best. That’s how you manifest it in the first place.

Being in the energy of “having it all”.

So, what you wear is hands down one of the most important things in your life!

As they say, DRESS FOR THE LIFE/JOB/RELATIONSHIP YOU WANT !

Why Dressing for the Life You Want Truly Matters

The saying “Dress for the job you want, not the job you have” is more than just a workplace mantra; it’s a powerful reminder that how you present yourself externally can influence how you feel internally.

Dressing for the life you want goes beyond clothes—it’s about aligning your appearance with your aspirations and showing up as your future self, today. Here's why it matters and how to embrace this mindset in your daily life.

1. Your Clothes Speak Before You Do

We live in a visual world where first impressions are formed in mere seconds. The way you dress communicates volumes about who you are and where you're headed. Whether it’s walking into a job interview, a networking event, or even a coffee date, dressing intentionally sets the tone for how others perceive you.

When you dress for the life you want, you’re sending a clear message: I believe in my goals, and I am ready to achieve them.

2. Clothes Influence Confidence

Ever noticed how wearing a well-tailored blazer or your favorite pair of shoes instantly boosts your confidence? That’s because clothing has the power to shift your mindset. Dressing well can make you feel prepared, professional, and empowered.

Confidence is key to manifesting the life you want. When you look the part, you start to feel the part, which makes it easier to take bold steps toward your dreams.

3. You Attract Opportunities

The energy you put into your appearance attracts like-minded opportunities. Dressing intentionally can open doors you didn’t even know existed—whether it’s a chance meeting with a potential client or leaving a lasting impression on someone who can help you grow.

Think of your wardrobe as a vision board. What would your ideal self wear to accomplish their goals? By embodying that style now, you align yourself with the opportunities that will take you there.

4. It’s a Form of Manifestation

Manifestation isn’t just about journaling or setting intentions; it’s about taking actionable steps toward your vision. By dressing for the life you want, you’re showing the universe (and yourself) that you’re serious about your goals.

If your dream is to become a CEO, start incorporating power dressing into your wardrobe. If you want a more creative, free-spirited lifestyle, embrace styles that reflect that energy. Dressing intentionally creates a bridge between where you are and where you’re going.

5. It Helps You Stay Motivated

On days when motivation wanes, how you dress can either energize or drain you. Choosing to wear something that reflects your future goals acts as a subtle reminder of why you’re putting in the effort.

For example, if you’re working from home but aspire to grow your own business, wearing polished but comfortable workwear instead of pajamas can help you stay in a professional mindset.

Dressing for the life you want is a form of self-care and self-belief. It’s a way to visualize your goals and embody them in the present moment. When you look in the mirror and see someone who feels capable, confident, and aligned with their vision, you’re already halfway there.

Remember: your wardrobe is a tool, not just for self-expression but also for transformation. So, step into your future one outfit at a time.

Listen to this podcast episode to dive deeper into this topic

I decided to write this post because I want to inspire you with how I personally do a good closet cleanse and what I have recently experienced with my latest cleanse.

This time, I decided to use my Feng Shui knowledge and apply it specifically to my closet, for a few reasons.

One, I’ve been wanting to manifest a fashion stylist who I really like, into my life because I really feel its time for me to step up my style game.

Two, I’ve been noticing that my clothes are full of clothes for my younger, more social self.

How I live and socialize as a mom, a girlfriend, a jewelry designer, calls for a completely different look that I had going even just a year ago.

Three, my love and I share a closet and its overflowing which has been stressing us the eff out. I knew if I wanted to raise the energy in our bedroom, a closet cleanse was in order.

YOUR NEW CLOSET CLEANSE ACTION PLAN:

STEP ONE - FENG SHUI:

24 hours prior to your closet cleanse, gather any and all crystals you have, place them in a bowl and put them in the center of your closet. Let them sleep overnight. The crystals will pull out all of the negative and stagnant energy that does not belong and help the items move on. The next morning, grab the bowl and place your crystals outside for a few hours, allowing the crystals to cleanse their energy in the fresh air and sunshine.

Next, begin laying out the Feng Shui bagua for the closet. You can read this post to learn more about the bagua map. You use each corner of the map as a guide for what color to use in that area, what crystals you can use to enhance or protect the energy and perhaps see what should be organized where.

To get specific I will share an example. In the family area we have wall hooks, so we put up all of our hats and fun bags we use for family outings and activities. In the Fame area, we have a shelf where we can display our luxurious boxes and photos of who we want to be seen as. It’s a great place to put a vision/inspiration board. In our creativity area I have drawers for my favorite accessories that I can use to style my outfits.

Remember that it doesn’t have to be perfect, work with what you’ve got, intention is the key here. Doing this Feng Shui mapping, helps to get the energy flow (chi) up to its highest vibration. You want the vibes to be absolutely delightful in your closet. I teach a specific way of using Feng Shui to cleanse and makeover your life so that you can manifest more of what you want. The three part process flows like this, de-clutter, organize, decorate. Let me break it down for you.

STEP TWO - DE-CLUTTER: I went through each and every piece of clothing in the closet. I held it, sat with it, thought about whether it was a representation of the woman I envision myself as. Here are a few questions to ask yourself….

• Does this fit me properly? Am I willing to invest in tailoring if not?

• Is this old, outdated or a connection to any toxic/draining memories?

• Does this need repair? If so, am I willing to spend the time and money on repairing it?

• Does this color flatter me? Does the fit complement my body type?

• Am I holding onto anything because I have hang ups about money or wasting money?

It’s important to really pay attention to your emotional experience of this because your emotions will always tell you deeper things. I recommend doing this work with a Malachite crystal, which is a crystal of fluid transformation, it will help you let things go and be at peace with your emotions.

THINGS TO ELIMINATE FROM YOUR CLOSET: .

🦋 clothes that don’t fit you well or don’t make you feel your best. You can keep a few “skinny jeans” but So long frumpy.

🦋 clothes with negative or toxic memories attached to them. Let go of that energetic tie, it will lighten you up.

🦋 Anything you have been meaning to get “repaired” but it’s been sitting in your closet for over 4 months. This re-enforces your lack of following through, so eliminate that “energetic vibe” from your home. Pay attention to what you tolerate.

🦋 Any and all damaged shoes, old bras, work out wear, handbags, etc. Take them to get repaired or tailored, if it isn’t worth it...throw it out.

🦋 Ask your self “does this (dress, shirt, pair of shoes,) serve as a reflection of the woman that I truly want to be?” If you don’t absolutely love it, it’s just emotional clutter and you need to let it go so you can flourish and fly.

Hot tip: You can use these pretty pink , 13 gallon trash bags to sort the clothes you are going to get rid of. This will make the entire experience more fun.

STEP THREE - ORGANIZE: You’ll want to organize everything you are getting rid of. Make a bag for things going to a resale shop, and another one for what you can take to Goodwill. Perhaps you want to sell things on Facebook marketplace, make a pile for that. You could also opt to have a closet party and give your clothes to friends, too.

With the remainder of your clothes, you don’t have to organize it to a specific science but you MUST organize it in a way that feels good to you. I personally love to organize my clothes by category and then color. Tank tops, short sleeves, long sleeve, long dresses, short dresses, you get the idea. I like to keep my accessories in organized drawers underneath my closet. I still have no trick for my shoes but I am working on it.

The point of a good organization is that when you go to get dressed for the day, you have a good idea of where everything is. You want to be able to get dressed quickly and confidently and you want your clothes to be clean and cared for. They need to be wrinkle free and ready to wear. Having an organized closet will do wonders for your confidence.

STEP FOUR - DECORATE. Now that everything is cleared out, it is time to add some woo-woo magic. First, I highly suggest you sage the closet, this helps to smudge out all the stagnant and stuffy energy. Then add the appropriate crystals. Crystals totally change up the energy in your home. They are like magic little elixirs for your environment.

SELENITE is the ultimate cleansing crystal. If you place selenite in your closet, it will energetically keep the energy of your clothes clean and clear and will renew and refresh things on the regular. You’ll notice that dense energy accumulates most in a closet because of the filled corners and closed boxes. It could be draining the entire home, so make sure you bring in some selenite. I have placed small selenite stones in all the dark corners (especially near my grandmas vintage Chanel bags).

I also place ROSE QUARTZ crystals in my lingerie drawer. You will want to pull in all the love and self love energy in toward your most intimate clothing. I also spray a rose quartz aromatherapy mist on my intimates, too.

BLOOD STONE and GOLD STONE are really great for placing near your work out gear. These stones activate and invigorate your ambition, energy and passion. It’s a fantastic stone if you are looking to get your workouts back up.

I literally wear a CITRINE bracelet every time I do anything for work. It’s the ultimate success stone and its fabulous to pair with anything you wear while you’re going after your goals. HOT TIP: If you or your man wear suits, place a small citrine in a suit or jacket pocket.

If it’s possible, you will want to add a full length mirror to your closet. Not only will the mirror bounce around light energy, you want to be able to see your entire look from head to toe before you leave the house.

Now that you’ve got your closet cleansed and high vibe……hire a wardrobe consultant or stylist to help you create a new look for yourself. When you elevate your game like this, MAGIC happens in your life and your business. So, get to it sister.

Happy Weekend, beauties!

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P.S. Have you cleansed or decluttered your closet recently? Share your tips and tricks with me in the comments. I’d love to know what you’re finding to be effective. Share your wisdom with us!

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