High Vibe Habits: A blissful bath time ritual to draw in love

Looking for a new bath ritual? or manifest love in your life? This post is for you.

Ever since I was a young girl, long hot bubble baths were a sanctuary for me. Not just a way to keep myself clean but they became a sanctuary for me, a way to unwind after a long day.

There’s something sacred about the way water holds us. When you step into a warm bath with intention, you’re not just soaking your body — you’re nourishing your soul, balancing your hormones, and filling yourself with the same oxytocin your body releases when you’re falling in love. A love bath ritual isn’t only about calling in romance; it’s about calling yourself home.

When you’re grounded, relaxed, and truly cared for, your energy shifts. Your nervous system softens, your heart opens, and you radiate a kind of presence that naturally attracts more love into your life.

This ritual is both magnetic and healing: a way to cleanse away old stress, heal from past heartbreak, and prepare your body and spirit to receive more beauty, connection, and intimacy.

That’s why a love bath ritual is so powerful. It creates a container for self-love and feminine energy, while also aligning you with the vibration of love itself — making you a magnet for the experiences and relationships you desire.

What Is a Love Bath Ritual?

A love bath ritual is the art of turning an ordinary soak into a sacred ceremony for love, self-healing, and attraction. At its core, it’s about creating a container of water, intention, and symbolism that allows you to step into a new energetic state.

Instead of simply relaxing in the tub, you infuse the water with elements that represent love — rose petals, pink candles, essential oils, and crystals — so that the bath itself becomes an energetic magnet.

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Here’s why it works: water has long been seen as a spiritual conductor, able to cleanse, hold, and carry energy. When you set an intention and step into the bath, you’re literally immersing yourself in the frequency of love.

Your body responds physically too — the warmth relaxes your nervous system, encourages oxytocin release (the hormone of love and bonding), and helps regulate stress. In that softened state, your heart naturally opens, and you begin to align with the vibration of what you want to attract.

Manifestation is really about resonance — you don’t just wish for love, you embody it. A love bath ritual helps you embody love by feeling cared for, grounded, and magnetic in the present moment. The more you cultivate that energy, the more love — in the form of relationships, experiences, or self-confidence — is drawn into your life.

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Now before I get into the specifics of the Love Bath Ritual, I would like to share a little bit about how I do baths.

First of all, I love a robe, I especially love my kimono robes. Here I am wearing my aqua vintage kimono that always makes me feel so luxurious when I wear it. Not too heavy, not too light. Plus, its a pretty pattern so you can’t spot the baby spit up, which is so helpful.

I like to light my candles and set up the accoutrements along the sides, as I run the bath. Indulge in the experience of decorating your bath scene. Plants and flowers make pretty additions too. I also love a good bath caddy, I need a new one and have my eyes on this one because its bamboo.

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How to Prepare for Your Love Bath Ritual

Preparing the bath is part of the magic. Start by giving the space a little love: clear away clutter, wipe down the tub, and create an environment that feels fresh and inviting. Light a few candles, burn incense if you love it, and dim the lights so your bathroom feels more like a sanctuary than a utility room.

Then, gather your ritual ingredients. Bath salts or pink Himalayan salt are wonderful for detoxification. Rose petals or dried flowers add a romantic touch, while essential oils like rose, geranium, or ylang-ylang infuse the water with sensual fragrance. Crystals such as rose quartz or moonstone can be placed on the edge of the tub to amplify the energy.

Most importantly, prepare your mind. Before you step in, take a moment to set an intention. Maybe you want to release heartbreak, call in a soulmate, or simply remind yourself that you are worthy of the deepest love. Holding that thought as you enter the water is what transforms the bath into a ritual.

BLISSFUL LIVING LOVE BATH RITUAL:

WHAT YOU’LL NEED: 

• A beautiful candle in red, pink or white, a set of pink tea lights works, too. (always work in pairs)

• Rose or Jasmine incense, I like how easy this one burns.

• Rose essential oil

• Rose petals

• Pink Himalayan bath salts

• Rose quartz crystal

WHAT YOU’LL DO: 

Clear an evening for a self pampering ritual to draw in love to you. Prepare your bathroom with fluffy towels, something to sip on, soft background music and anything you love to bathe with. 

Draw a warm bath and pour in pink Himalayan bath salts. Add 9 drops of rose essential oil and 27 rose petals to the bath, Place your heart shaped rose quartz crystal in the tub. 

Light your bubble bath Ritual candle & light your incense. Say the following prayer to your higher self as you immerse yourself into the bath water. 

“May my heart be open and my intentions clear. I seek a love to enhance my life, to bring love, joy, prosperity, peace and bliss to my life. Who I can fully love and who can fully love me. Who loves, honors and cherishes our connection. May I let love in. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.”

FAQs About Love Bath Rituals

Can I do this if I don’t have a tub?
Yes! A shower ritual works beautifully. Place salts or petals at your feet and let the water carry your intention over you.

How often can I do it?
As often as you need. Some women create a ritual once a month with the moon cycle, others whenever they feel called.

Is it only for manifesting romantic love?
Not at all. A love bath is just as powerful for building self-love, nurturing confidence, or inviting abundance into any area of your life.

A love bath ritual is a beautiful way to romance yourself and open your heart. It’s a reminder that love begins within, and when you take time to honor your own body and spirit, you radiate a kind of energy that attracts even more beauty into your world.

If this practice inspires you, consider weaving it into a weekly or monthly routine. And if you’re ready to go deeper into self-love rituals and feminine energy practices, you’ll love my private membership community, where I guide women into creating daily practices that unlock confidence, radiance, and feminine magnetism.

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Please feel free to email me at ashlina@thedecorista.com if you have any questions!  I’m always happy to help with decorating, life advice or even picking out a specific perfume!  Have an amazing day!!

Also, check out my Amazon shop HERE to shop all my favorite things, tips and tricks.

You can also download the free LIKETOKNOW.IT app and follow me HERE.

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As always, thank you so much for stopping by today, I truly appreciate all of you! xo, Ashlina

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How to activate your divine goddess energy ( 8 simple ways )

“The Goddess does not rule the world; She is the world. Manifest in each of us, She can be known internally by every individual, in all her magnificent diversity.” - Starhawk

There’s a power within every woman that is ancient, magnetic, and deeply transformative—what I like to call Goddess Energy. It’s the energy that radiates when you’re fully aligned with your feminine essence: soft yet strong, intuitive yet empowered, radiant yet grounded. Unlike the hustle and burnout energy so many of us get stuck in, goddess energy calls you back into flow. It’s about leading with your intuition, nurturing your body and soul, and creating a life that feels abundant, sensual, and deeply aligned with who you are.

When you tap into your goddess energy, you step into a different frequency. Suddenly, you attract opportunities, love, and abundance with more ease. You stop chasing and start magnetizing. You glow differently. Your relationships feel safer, your home feels softer, and your life becomes a space where you thrive instead of survive.

In this post, I’m going to share eight ways to activate and embody your divine goddess energy—practices that will help you return to your feminine power, awaken your intuition, and elevate every area of your life. These are the same practices I turn to whenever I feel myself drifting into overdrive or masculine “do-mode,” and they always bring me back home to my true self.

And if you want to dive even deeper, I’ll also link to a few of my podcast episodes on feminine energy so you can take this work further while you listen and reflect.

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Okay, so What is Goddess Energy?

Goddess energy, often referred to as the divine feminine, is a concept that transcends cultural and religious boundaries, offering women a profound source of empowerment, connection, and self-discovery.

At its core, goddess energy celebrates and honors the intrinsic qualities and strengths that are traditionally associated with the feminine, such as intuition, empathy, compassion, creativity, and receptivity. It encourages women to reconnect with their inner selves and the natural rhythms of life, fostering a deeper understanding of their own bodies, emotions, and desires.

Embracing goddess energy isn't about subscribing to a specific belief system, but rather about recognizing the sacredness within oneself and the world. It encourages women to embrace their unique qualities and to find balance within themselves, whether that means nurturing their nurturing side or tapping into their warrior spirit when needed.

By channeling goddess energy, women can access a wellspring of confidence, resilience, and authenticity, ultimately helping them navigate life's challenges with grace and strength. It's a reminder that every woman possesses a divine spark within her, and by tapping into this energy, she can cultivate a sense of purpose, connection, and inner harmony that radiates through her life, relationships, and the world around her.

In essence, goddess energy is a beautiful and empowering way for women to reconnect with their inner wisdom, embrace their true selves, and step into their full potential.

Related Reading: 12 best books on feminine energy every woman should read

Why should you reconnect WITH and activate your divine goddess energy?

Because when you do activate your divine goddess energy, you reconnect with your worth, your inner value, your vision, your purpose, your passions, your ability to manifest…all the things that make life worth living!

Look, life can be hectic, we are always charging full speed ahead (yang) to accomplish the our goals and continuously we are inching closer to making the things we want to happen, happen.

But, I wanted to write this post a reminder that if we are full speed ahead, go go go…we are likely to experience burn out and miss out on what life really has in store for us! We also have to learn to simply just be (yin) when we need to.

It’s time to embrace the art of SLOW LIVING.

I’ve learned from my work with clients and natal chart readings, that in order to manifest our dreams in a way that has us working smarter, not harder…it’s to attune ourselves to the divine energy around us.

When you align your personal energy with the energy of the stars/universe…you will get into a FLOW that feels good. You won’t “throw the baby out with the bathwater” as they say. You’ll be working WITH the divine, not against it, which makes things feel so much easier and it allows you to drop the frustration, stress and worry.

When you are connected and aligned with your divine inner Goddess energy, you become MAGNETIC! You aren’t forcing good things to happen to you. You are connected to your inner knowing of when to move and when to not, when to work and when to rest, when to take action and when to lean back and attract it in.

The Divine Goddess energy within you in a powerful vortex of connection to the Universe and to all of your wildest dreams. The good news, There is no need to seek this energy outside of yourself. It is a process of tapping into that inner energy field.

8 ways to activate your divine goddess energy

01 | Begin to become aware of your hidden feelings.

Every time I work with my coaching clients, one of the first things we do work around is emotional expression, it is one of the most common chakra blockages, the throat chakra. When you haven’t fully expressed your truth, honored your feelings, shared your feelings with someone you love…it creates a blockage within you. It’s harder to hear yourself, harder to trust yourself and keeps you disconnected in your relationships.

Start your day by asking yourself, '“how do I feel today? What do I need today?” Make an effort to resist the urge to rush through your day and slow down to pay attention to your feelings. Did someone say something that put you in a bad mood ? Take moment to think about why that bothered you.

If you find yourself feeling worried or anxious about something, ask yourself why you are feeling that way. Pay attention to how things feel in your body. Pay attention to your five senses, connect with how the experience feels to you. And do a lot more of the things that feel good.

02 | Cultivate rituals that call to you.

For me, my absolute favorite is taking a long, hot bubble bath ritual. As a mom, it’s honestly one of the only places I can truly be alone. In the ancient times, it was said that Cleopatra would recharge herself and her natural beauty by doing rituals such as milk baths to keep her skin supple and glowing.

Not only does this ritual help you tap into your goddess nature by allowing your self the luxury to be submerged and soaked in water filled with skin soothing properties but it is also a form of spiritual cleansing. Baths are purifying to the spiritual body as well.

I also love rituals like tea meditations, my yoga practice, applying hair and face masks, writing in my journal, going on a nature walk, traveling to my favorite sanctuaries like in Tulum. Whatever rituals cause you to feel connected to the femininity with you, is a ritual you should commit to.

03 | Clean out & care for your body.

When you are looking to connect with your divine self, you want to begin making choices to heal and lighten your body. Pay attention to the foods you are eating.

Whenever I feel disconnected, I like to do this 7-day cleanse. Every time I do this, it’s like giving myself the gift of a clean body. It’s like a reclaiming the energy of my body and reconnecting with my higher self. I always have a flood of creativity and inspiration and I always feel more connected to my intuition. I absolutely love to do this, its so healing.

I also focus on focusing my schedule around my cycle, it’s called cycle-syncing and I have created an entire program around how to do this. It’s living in flow with your body and soul. Check out my Goddess Glow Up program here.

04 | Begin a journaling practice.

I am huge on journaling. I like to journal about everything. My favorite is doing morning or evening brain dumps. I just let all my feelings out in my journal and see what comes up for me. It’s a great way to connect with your soul and allow your inner goddess to speak.

A lot of times we go through our thoughts so quickly, we don’t fully express our thoughts, ideas, frustrations and feelings in a way where they are truly purged from the body. Writing them out in a journal can do that for you. It’s an incredible practice to try. Here is one of my favorite journaling tips for divine goddess energy.

05 | Start following the Moon cycle.

Just like our own 28 day feminine cycle, the Moon also has a 28 day lunation. As women, we can attune ourselves and our energy to the moon. If you understand your feminine cycle and the feelings you experience during each phase, the moon is very similar.

When you are attuned to the energy of the moon, you can enhance your ability to connect with your inner goddess on a universal level. Do some research and find out the date of the next New Moon and then use this guide to help you understand how the Moon energy will affect your month.

Inside my Manifestation Queen Membership, we do Goddess Calls every New and Full Moon to really tap into the Moon’s powerful magic, especially as women. Join our next call here.

06 | Surround yourself with carnelian & moonstone crystals.

I wear crystal jewelry daily. I am always surrounded by the magic of healing crystals. I stack bracelets up my wrists and wear them around my neck and even on my ears.

For centuries, people have been using gemstones to manifest the things they want in life. Especially the goddesses, in Mythology you learn that gemstones was one of the most common healing techniques used worldwide. I’m so obsessed with crystal jewelry, I started designing them.

Moonstone is a really good crystal to wear and work with because it is connected to the moon and helps to bring about a connection with your feminine energy. Read more about moonstone crystal here.

Carnelian crystal is the ultimate goddess crystal as it works to activate our sacral chakra, our divine goddess energy.

HOT TIP: Start expressing yourself with your Venus sign of your natal chart. Here is my guide to dressing for your Venus sign.

07 | Surround yourself around other goddesses and remove people who pull you down.

There is no better experience than finding and connecting with “your kind of people”. Relationships are at the core of every powerful woman. When you know you have other women in your corner, who are like minded and make you feel good about yourself, you become unstoppable. I created a safe space and community of spiritually empowered women, called the Manifestation Queen membership, feel free to come join us!

08 | Curate an altar at home to connect with the divine.

There is nothing I love more than decorating a space and setting up a spiritual sanctuary. It helps you to feel more feminine when you have pretty things around you like crystals, flowers and beautiful artwork displayed. I encourage you to have a special space to go to connect with yourself. I love to have it feeling very cozy and warm, candles, crystals, a place to sit and read or journal. Make it a place that absolutely delights you.

My online workshop High Vibe Home, I created specifically to help you decorate your home to create the things that you want and it will teach you EXACTLY where your divine goddess altar should be.

Don’t forget to DOWNLOAD my Unleash Your Goddess Self e-book here

So, there you have a it, a few things to help you get started activating your divine inner goddess. You can also listen to this podcast episode to help you even more. And again, if you feel called on the spiritual journey, come join my spiritual sisterhood, Manifestation Queen membership community. We discuss all of these topics in depth, together. I’d love to connect with you!

Please feel free to email me at ashlina@thedecorista.com if you have any questions!  I’m always happy to help with decorating, life advice or even picking out a specific perfume!  Have an amazing day!!

Also, check out my Amazon shop HERE to shop all my favorite things, tips and tricks.

You can also download the free LIKETOKNOW.IT app and follow me HERE.

STAY IN THE KNOW:  Don’t forget to sign up for my exclusive Love Letters for STYLE TIPS, LIFE ADVICE, COSMIC TEA, AND MUCH MORE!

As always, thank you so much for stopping by today, I truly appreciate all of you! xo, Ashlina

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