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The ultimate 6-step Work from home morning routine...

ashlina kaposta October 12, 2024

One of the things that was a non-negotiable for me when I was looking for a new home, was space for a home office. I need ample space working from home, I spent way too much time working at the dining room table to know that a designated work space is ESSENTIAL to anyone who works from home.

I personally will get caught up if I spot a dirty dish, undone laundry, a book out of place and honestly anything that catches my eye. So, making sure that my office space is filled with ONLY work things is extremely helpful.

WORKING FROM HOME REQUIRES A DESIGNATED WORK SPACE

Anyway, my workspace is actually what you would consider a breakfast nook. And what makes it perfect for my office is the beautiful and bright natural light pouring into the space. So, I adjusted the shelves and had the back wall painted black because you know I believe black walls are just superior.

My favorite office space of all time was black and honestly, it was my most successful year in business. On top of that, the color black in Feng Shui represents water and supports the vibration around your career path. So, if you have been wondering if a black office would work…it actually is an incredibly supportive color for your career/business.

Feng Shui facts, tips & tricks:

FENG SHUI TIP #1: YOU MUST SIT IN THE COMMAND POSITION

I started by working at the counter top on the back wall, but honestly, I found myself never being able to sit down and focus for long periods of time. I would take my computer to the dining room, sofa or even my patio. And I knew pretty quickly what was going on.

Having your back to the door of any room position in Feng Shui is not supportive to your work energy. You always want your desk/ workspace placed in the POWER position, which means that your back should never be facing the entry of the room. You want to be facing a window or the front door so that you can always be facing new opportunities coming your way.

Anyway, so I decided to put a round table, this white Saarinen inspired table was the perfect fit for the space, in the middle of the space for my desk and ever since I did that I find that I just love being in my office and I have been ten times more productive.

Speaking of productivity. . .

Something I recently learned that has completely helped me transform how I work is what they call 4 QUARTER DAYS. It’s a daily breakdown of times where I like to designate my rituals and routines.

Let me breakdown the daily schedule for you:

Morning: 5-9 AM **Here I do everything that is needed from me first thing, movement, getting ready, breakfast, school drop off, etc. I usually go on my morning walks or the gym around 9am.

Late Morning: 10AM -1PM **These are my power work hours, the times when I feel I perform my best and have the most energy. Recording podcasts, creating content, writing out plans, etc. I usually have my lunch around 1 and then my coffee at 2.

Afternoon: 2-7PM **Just post coffee, I do the things I couldn’t get to during my power hours but I allow myself to do them at a slower pace. I will also change up the scenery, maybe go work at a coffee shop or do something that inspires me. This is also the time, I pack orders + make jewelry.

Evening: 7PM+** Here, there is NO WORK. It’s all about my personal time and prepping myself for my night routine. I will do a post on that soon.

FENG SHUI TIP #2: SNAKE PLANTS ARE HELPFUL

They are said to attract prosperity, fortune and growing success. In addition to that, they are extremely helpful in absorbing the harmful radiation that technology emits. I like to keep my snake plants near my computer or anything that uses wifi.

Plants also represent and promote the energy of vitality and growth. So, keep your office filled with your favorite plants to help surround you with the energy of growth and you will align with growth in your work, business and personal growth, too.

read this post for more feng shui home office tips

WORK FROM HOME MORNING ROUTINE:

Here’s the thing, I have been a work from home entrepreneur since 2010 ish. I’ve been working out of my home for as long as I can remember, I love the work from home life. Ever since 2020, so many more people in my world work from home as well.

So, I know how important it is to cultivate a really strong work from home routine because it can be distracting, difficult and lonely at times, too. I am obsessed with routines and rituals, especially my tried and true morning rituals. Here are a few things I do specific to getting myself prepped and ready for working from home:

  1. MAKE MY BED. I shouldn’t have to explain this but making the bed helps so much, especially when you work from home because it helps you not get distracted when you just really want to crawl right back into bed.

  2. GETTING DRESSED: It might sound slightly obvious but this step of my morning work routine is probably the most impactful step of all. Before I go down to my office, I will dress in a cute but comfortable outfit, make sure my hair looks nice, makeup on my face and beautiful smelling perfume, too, this is my signature scent! There is a night and day difference in my work day when I come into my office fully made up versus when I sort of pop in a lazy outfit, hair a mess. My attitude, personality, productivity and entire experience is different when I am dressed up and feeling myself. You will see that the energy behind what you are working on is completely up-leveled and you will even feel more confident and powerful when you feel good about yourself. For me, I will always start my day feeling my absolute best. This is one of those ‘secrets of a millionaire mindset’ that just works!

  3. HYDRATION: I am absolutely one of those that needs liquids all around me. I live for making coffee in the mornings. It’s just one of those things that signals my brain that I am ready to start the day. However, staying hydrated while getting caffeinated is top tier. It helps you from getting too crazed. I swear by my electrolyte water, it’s got potassium, zinc, magnesium and sodium which is what you need for optimal hydration (plain water alone doesn’t cut it) . And right now I drink it in this mug. In order to be really effective at work and energized for a good day of working, I need to be hydrated. You’d be surprised how easy it is to forget to hydrate. I think having a fun cup to drink out of makes it easier to remember.

  4. MORNING PAGES: Before I do anything for the day, I will write out everything that comes to my mind. You can read more about morning pages here. For me, my work is all about creating and I can’t get into a creative head space if my mind is full of buzzing thoughts. I need to get my thoughts out onto the paper so that I can free up space in my mind to create. I will make lists of what to do, write out feelings or emotions, jot down any reminders I need and sometimes I will even write out intentions + affirmations. Those help me get clear on where I am going and what I want to create for the day.

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5. SUPPLY SET UP: Another thing that is a must for me when I am working from home, is constantly keeping my office tidy and organized. Sure, I will allow things to pile up here and there. but if my desk space isn’t fully open for me to work on…I can’t complete anything. I have to have room for my drinks (always water + coffee) my writing tools ( usually a few colored pens and highlighters ) and my computer, phone and charger. I also need my pink scissors, proper ink levels in my printer and a fully charged computer. Here’s a list of all things need to feel set and ready to go for me to be ready to take on the day.

6. AFFIRMATIONS: I do not do an-eeee-thing without getting my mental state in check. Here are a few affirmations I like to start my work day with….

♥️ I woke up feeling worthy + empowered today. It’s going to be an amazing day full of new opportunities.

♥️ I am forever grateful for all that I am and all that I have. The life I have created is beautiful and it just keeps getting better and better.

♥️ I inhale positive energy. I exhale all doubts, fears, worries or attachments to things holding me back. I will not worry about anything that is outside of my personal control.

♥️ I am honoring the space between where I am and where I am headed. Everything is working out in my favor and for my highest good. I am living the life of my dreams.

I’d like to take a short break here in this blog post to share a podcast episode that I think you might enjoy.

One of the most common questions I get asked is…what do you do for work?

And honestly, it’s not a simple answer, so I thought I would break down the things I do for work so that you can see what I technically do during a work day.

  1. This blog. I have a personal blog and I write about all of the things I am passionate about

  2. I’ve got 3 self-published books on Amazon. Blissful Living, Blissful Living Journal and The Daily Bliss.

  3. I have a monthly coaching membership, Manifest Bliss membership where I have bi-monthly live community calls, hours and hours of video workshops, trainings and dozens of downloadable workbooks.

  4. I have several online courses inside of The House of Bliss.

  5. I have created various Ebooks/workbooks on topics like manifesting, spirituality and feng shui.

  6. I have a podcast called Feminine & Ambitious.

  7. I also do coaching sessions with clients where we work on their indset,

    Needless to say, I am a full time digital entrepreneur, online coach and content creator, my work plate is absolutely full and I am absolutely in love with what I do for work. The only way that I can stay on track with all of the things is by scheduling myself by days of the week. It changes from month to month, as I put more focus on certain things during certain seasons. My point is strategy is key.

    If you would like to learn more about how to grow your own online business + brand as I have, join me in my program, ONLINE BOSS UNIVERSITY. This is a one-stop-shop to learn all about what building an online business looks like. You’ll learn the ins and outs of blogging, branding, social media, course creation, e-commerce, video, email marketing, etc. PLUS, join a supportive community so you can feel less alone in building your business. Check out the details here.

If you haven’t already, be sure to sign up to receive my weekly love letters here. I share a lot of personal tips and tricks on the behind these scenes of my work life.

Here is a peek at 2 of my books you can grab on Amazon, the colors are so on brand, no?

You may also like:

💛 The 12 Best books on Manifestation that transformed my life

💛 The 8 phases of Manifestation you need to know.

💛 How to build an abundance mindset

Download my FREE Manifestation Mindset Makeover workbook here.

Please feel free to email me at ashlina@thedecorista.com if you have any questions!  I’m always happy to help with decorating, life advice or even picking out a specific perfume!  Have an amazing day!!

Also, check out my Amazon shop HERE to shop all my favorite things, tips and tricks.

You can also download the free LIKETOKNOW.IT app and follow me HERE.

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As always, thank you so much for stopping by today, I truly appreciate all of you! xo, Ashlina

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30 Days to Domestic Bliss: The Homebody Edition

ashlina kaposta October 12, 2024

Are you a homebody? Well, you are in good company because I am the ultimate homebody. Even if you aren’t, this post is for you! This post will make you be happier at home.

For some of us, there’s nothing more blissful than being at home—wrapped in a soft blanket, sipping tea, and soaking up the comfort of familiar surroundings. If you’re a true homebody, you already know that your home isn’t just where you live; it’s where you recharge, dream, and create your best memories. This 30-day homebody challenge is designed for you—the woman who finds joy in cozy rituals, comforting spaces, and the little details that make home life feel extraordinary.

Over the next 30 days, you’ll focus on creating a home that nurtures you at every level. Think cozy corners for reading, warm lighting that sets the mood, soothing scents that calm your mind, and self-care rituals that make every evening feel like a retreat.

Domestic bliss, in this edition, is about intentionally designing a life that feels soft, nourishing, and deeply aligned with your love for being at home. Each day, you’ll make small shifts that bring more comfort, ease, and happiness into your daily routine.

By the end of this challenge, your home will feel less like a place you retreat to and more like the sanctuary you thrive in. You’ll rediscover the joy of slow mornings, cozy nights, and the kind of contentment that comes from being completely at peace in your space. Domestic bliss, after all, isn’t about doing more—it’s about savoring what you already have and making your home a place where you feel endlessly inspired and loved.

I also know that my purpose on this earth is to help people love where they live, my 10th house is ruled by Libra after all. I believe having a home that feels good and makes you happy is essential for life happiness + success. 

So, I wanted to share a little challenge with you, a 30-day plan that will help you unleash the domestic goddess within and leave you feeling that covetable but attainable feeling of domestic bliss. You know that feeling when you come home and look around and your environment just makes you feel so good about yourself? If not, don't worry you will. 

First, I want you to download this PRETTY PRINTABLE CHIC SHEET and save it to your phone so you can easily refer to the assignment of the day. Don’t beat yourself up if you have to miss a day, this is more about having a framework versus being overwhelmed with it all.

I know we all have very busy days but I want you to set aside 20-30 minutes to devote to your challenge each day. Set a time to keep you on track, once you have worked on your homework for 30 minutes, put it down. Then once you have completed your task for each day, and checked it off your chic sheet, show us your progress inside the Blissful Living Lounge facebook group!  I'd love to see what you are up to.

DAY ONE:

Assess your living situation and make some goals. Determine which areas of your home need a little bit of TLC. Is your closet in need of organizing? Are you scared to open your fridge because of what might or might not be inside? Do you have a guest bedroom that has become just an extra room for "stuff"? Have you looked closely under your kitchen cabinets lately?

It's cool. We've all been there, we have all at one point or another neglected our home. Now its time to take back control.

Make a list of the TOP 5 areas of your home that need immediate attention. I like to do this in a spiral journal and make notes of what I want to get done in each area.

For example: Area #1 : Kitchen

Then I break it down into Mini-missions.

-organize the junk drawer

-buy a new trash can

-get new liners for the pantry

When I am done with each Mini-mission, I can cross it off the list. I am obsessed with making lists, they are so helpful to keep a clear mind.

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*A note to all my housewives and moms of the world, you have the gift of being the homemaker, whether you like it or not. It's an honor to be the one who runs a household and its your contribution to the lives of your family. Today, I want you to give yourself a reward for this incredible role. You run the world! 

DAY TWO:

Have a paper parade. Paper clutter is one of the biggest problems for most people. Become a relentless paper shredder. Go through all mail, catalogs, magazines, files, old bills, etc. Clear your home of all unnecessary paper that may be floating around.

Create a tray, folder or bin for all must keep papers looking organized and together. Get rid of the rest! You can find chic paper storage solutions that make your home feel more clutter free. Here are a few options:

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DAY THREE:

AROMATHERAPY. We associate almost everything by smell. Smell is probably my #1 priority in my home. When I get up in the morning, I light a candle while I get ready and I also burn some essential oils throughout the home when I work. Citrus always invigorates me. Today, I am suggesting you do the same.

Pick your favorite place in the home or where you spend the most time and light up your favorite candle or fragrance. If you hate candles, get yourself an essential oil diffuser. Whatever area of your home is special for you, give it some TLC with a pretty fragrance. When you get home from your day, repeat the process. Indulge in the goodness. 

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DAY FOUR:

Declutter your bathroom(s). We will tackle several declutter projects over the course of this challenge but I always like to start with the bathroom. I think because its the one place that is essential for good hygiene.

Start with the bathtub. Are there any products that are so old or almost empty? Please toss them. Do you need to watch your loofah or perhaps its time to get a new one? Do it now. If it needs a cleaning you may want to do that now too. Toss your towels and bath mats in the wash.

Throw away old lotions, toothpaste, empty mouthwash bottles, etc. Anything that is not new, full and fresh THROW IT AWAY! Your bathroom speaks to your personal hygiene, so what does your bathroom say about you? Let's handle this today. Notice how you feel with a clean bathroom? Feels pretty good doesn't it? Keep it up. See some seriously beautiful bathroom organization inspiration here.

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DAY FIVE:

Windex your life away. This is pretty self explanatory but I loooooove windex. Probably a little bit because of the dad from ‘My big fat greek wedding’ movie but in any case I do think Windex is a cure all. In fact, I have also found that I love the Method glass cleaner because of the mint smell.

Today I want you to go around with your windex and clean any windex-able surface. Mirrors, windows, picture frames, art, etc. Just do it. 

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DAY SIX:

Organize your books. If you are a reader or avid book collector like you, you probably have books floating around everywhere. Let's clean them up and find a place for them. Every. Single. One.

I like to stack them according to color of the spine. Some people like to stack them under chairs or use a stack as a side table. However you do it, find a use for every book in the home. 

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DAY SEVEN:

Style up your sofa. Everyone has a sofa right? But not everyone styles them. Trust me, I've seen some pretty dodgy sofa looks. It doesn't have to be anything too crazy, but if you actually intentionally styled your pillows, put a cozy throw on it and freshened it up, you would notice a difference.

Grab yourself a Barefoot Dreams dupe blanket and throw it over one of the arms. ( You will thank me later ). Karate chop your pillows. Vacuum the creases ( get rid of that popcorn ) + under the cushions. Spray it with Febreeze. Whatever you have to do to give your seating area a zhush, just go ahead and do it. Now enjoy your newly styled up and very clean sofa. 

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DAY EIGHT:

Pick one of your TOP 5 areas from DAY ONE + attend to one of the Mini-missions on that list you made. If that means, unpacking boxes, taking in that bag of donations you've been meaning to, cleaning your kids room, getting a bed frame for the guest room. Whatever you need to do, today is your day to do ONE thing for that area and just do it! Then, check it off the list.

DAY NINE:

Declutter your refrigerator. It's probably about time you tackle this beast. Same drill as the bathroom. Get rid of anything old, with mold or that has an way too long ago expiration date. Check the freezer too. If its almost empty, toss it. I don't care if its only beer and champagne in that fridge, I want to see it looking pretty. 

I also like to arrange my drinks in order and get all stylish with it. It makes cooking and opening that door so much more fun. It also impresses your guests. While you are at it, you may want to scrub it down too. Don’t forget to add baking soda and a fridge freshener. Clean those drawers and around the insides with those Lysol wipes, they work wonders. 

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DAY TEN:

Bring in the green. There are numerous healing benefits to having plants in your home. It is also really good Feng Shui. This is essential to making your house feel more like a home. Even if you don't have a green thumb you can get some bamboo or succulents, they live forever.

I am partial or orchids and palm leaves. Whatever it would be that would make you happy, bring in a little life to your space and flow with that energy. If it dies, don't beat yourself up about it, try something else. The key here is that giving your home a gift is something special and will make you appreciate your home a little bit more. Even if they happen to be faux, it will trick your mind into feeling like your home is a little more cozy.

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DAY ELEVEN:

Dress up your bed. I've been attempting this "make your bed every morning" method for a while now and let me tell you. It works. It's hard to keep up on the commitment, but the feeling I have now if I don't make my bed is so much worse that the laborious time it is making it up.

I've invested in some new pillows and high quality bedding. Now I make my bed up like its a hotel complete with a throw. When I get into bed at night, its so exciting I even do a little squeal. It's such a fun experience now.

Plus, it helps me from taking little naps in the afternoon because it just looks so dang comfy. So, try it out today, make your bed look as best as you can like a hotel, get those sheets flat and wrinkle free, plump up those pillows and fold over that comforter and show me your pics! Here are my exact personal favorite bedding essentials:

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DAY TWELVE:

Attack your junk drawers. Any and all drawers used for random things, go through them and throw away what isn't needed.

Get yourself some organizers that fit your drawers and make a home for random things you need. Batteries, paper clips, glue sticks, etc. See how empty you can get them, challenge yourself. 

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DAY THIRTEEN:

Clean the ceiling fans. Or your heaters, or your AC units. Get that dust moving along and replace any ducts that need replacing. Make sure the air that you are breathing is clean and fresh. Your lungs and sleep will thank you for it. 

DAY FOURTEEN:

Style up your shoes. Some people like to keep a bunch of shoes by the door to keep carpets clean, others like them lined in the closet. Where ever it is that you like to keep your shoes, come up with a stylish way to display them.

Treat them like books, organize according to size or color or stack them away in pretty boxes. I don't want one pair of shoes out of place, even if it is for easy access, keep those soles cared for and put properly in their stylish place. And don't forget, Show me those pics! 

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DAY FIFTEEN:

Take a shelfie. I'm sure most of you are pretty aware of the instagram condition and insta your heart out. We all can get overwhelmed by all of the gorgeous pics out there that show such stylish homes and covet the look of fabulousness.

Well, you can have that too. You've just got to put a little work into it. Go to pinterest and get inspired by some style pics. Then recreate that look on a shelf surface in your home.

Get flowers, candles, trinkets, whatever you need to get your shelf super stylish. It doesn't have to be perfect, so don't beat yourself up about it. What matters here is the effort, its TLC for your home. 

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DAY SIXTEEN:

Make a meal. For some of you, this will be easy and for others, not so much. I want you to challenge yourself by making a meal at home, pour a glass of wine, turn off all TV, light candles, play soft music and enjoy eating it.

You could even make frozen pizza for all I care, but do it with delight. Treat yourself as if you were at a restaurant, the hostess, the chef, the waiter and the diner. Relish in every part of it.

Use beautiful dishes, decorate your dining area, drink out of the most gogeous glasses, etc.

I try to do this for myself or my family and friends at least once a week. It's sort of therapeutic for me and can take place of my meditation practice. I just get into my zone and enjoy the flow. 

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DAY SEVENTEEN: 

Pick one of your TOP 5 areas from DAY ONE + attend to it. Repeat process from DAY EIGHT.

DAY EIGHTEEN:

Do you remember this post I wrote about adding encouraging words in your home? Now its your turn to do it. You can head to a craft store and make something yourself, order a poster online or even write a message to yourself in the bathroom mirror with beautiful red lipstick! Whatever you do, put your heart and soul into it. As always, show me your words! 

DAY NINETEEN:

Declutter your home office or workspace. Where do you pay your bills, write letters, check your email? It's time to get REALLY organized in this area as its the key to your financial health.

We already did a paper detox but if more has come up, toss it. Be sure to make sure all bills are paid and the work space is clear and easy to find things. Read this post for some home office feng shui tips to help you

Also, grab yourself some new office supplies that will make you feel more professional, chic, organized and productive.

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DAY TWENTY:

Style up your coffee table. Having killer coffee table style is just one of those things that is essential in a stylish home that you will love. It's a perfect place to display some of your favorite things to look at while lounging on the sofa or chatting it up with your guests.

You want conversation pieces, chic candles, fun books to browse, etc. Click here for some serious inspiration and today, make your coffee table the hot spot of your home. 

DAY TWENTY-ONE:

Just add fabrics. If by this time you still aren't really feeling that super cozy feeling in your home, chances are its pretty bare. One of the first things I like to tell my clients to do is add some fabrics to your space to give it some warmth.

Get yourself some curtains and dress up those windows. Even if you don't really feel like you need curtains, add pretty panels to the sides of your windows. Just think of it like adding a picture frame to your view. I don't know why, it just changes the entire space.

Then, add some pillows you like or a throw blanket or perhaps it’s about time you get a new rug.

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DAY TWENTY-TWO:

Curate a bar or coffee cart. Even if you aren't a drinker, adding a drink cart area to your home is so much fun. You can make it a coffee cart, too. On mine you will see bottles of Perrier and grapefruit Pelligrino right next to my champagne.

Display your favorite glassware or vintage dishes, add a candle. If you already have a bar cart going, how can you spruce it up? Add your favorite candies or get some fun new cocktail napkins.

Put some love into how your bar cart is displayed, it's a love letter to your guests. Don't forget, send me pics. 

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DAY TWENTY-THREE: 

Pick one of your TOP 5 areas from DAY ONE + attend to your mini-mission. Repeat process from DAY EIGHT.

DAY TWENTY-FOUR:

Frame AND hang some new art. I don't think I have ever been to a home I adore where there isn't an interesting piece of art. In my home, there is more art than anything else, each piece tells a story. It makes you love your home so much more.

It doesn't have to be perfect because its your home and where your gut tells you to hang it, is where it's meant to go. You could frame some art your child made, print out a map of your favorite city, frame a menu from your favorite restaurant or a flyer from a fun event you attended. Have fun with it.

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DAY TWENTY-FIVE:

Smudge your space. Open up all the windows, if weather permits, and light up some sage and/or palo santo. I prefer Palo Santo. Fresh air brings a new energy into a home and lets the stagnant energy out. I usually do this routine on Sunday mornings and play my favorite music. It's kind of like restarting your phone or computer. You've just got to clear all the air out. 

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DAY TWENTY-SIX:

Have a guest over. Play hostess for the day and set up a little soiree and have a guest or two over and tell them about your 30 days to domestic bliss journey. Show off the new things you have styled up, wow them with your commitment to a clutter-free life or show them your hotel like bedding situation. Spread the domestic bliss energy. 

DAY TWENTY-SEVEN:

Create a personal altar. Now, you don't have to do all of this but I am a HUGE believer in morning meditation and journaling. It was my 2015 resolution and it has literally changed my life.

I put my most comfortable chair in the corner or my bedroom and next to it I set up a side table with a lamp, some crystals, my journal and a candle. I sit here in the mornings or in the evening when I have my tea and just want to take a moment of solitude to reflect on the day. I am so in love with my little space now. This is also self care + self love, two extremely crucial keys to happiness and domestic bliss! 

HOT TIP: Look up what Feng Shui element you are according to your birth year. Add some items to your personal space in your birth element. Mine is Metal, so I like to add metallics to my home for added calm and nurturing my energy. More on this inside my Feng Shui workshop, High Vibe Home.

DAY TWENTY-EIGHT:

Declutter your garage. Or shed. Or any other space you have that is overflowing with "extras". I understand this may take longer than a day but put one foot in front of the other and take a stab at it.

Again, grab a timer and set it for 15 or 20 minutes and just begin to throw things away. Don't be afraid to let go of things and their energy, new things always come in. It's the circle of home life. 

DAY TWENTY-NINE:

Pick one of your TOP 5 areas from DAY ONE + attend to your mini-mission. Repeat process from DAY EIGHT.

DAY THIRTY:

Buy your home a special gift to reward yourself for doing this work. It's so important to be very grateful for the home that you currently live in. I can remember even being in the smallest studio in NYC and more grateful than ever. Gratitude = happiness.

Now that you have conquered this challenge, you can see that goal setting can be super easy when broken down into fun actionable steps. If you enjoyed this challenge, I have another 30-day Life decluttering challenge that you might really enjoy.

So happy you guys could join me on this 30-day challenge. I want to encourage you and be a part of this with you every step of the way. Each day and assignment, feel free to add to the Blissful Living Lounge facebook group.

Have you joined the challenge? Leave me a comment below and tell me your ways you find domestic bliss!

Good luck! xo ashlina

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