Recently, I led a live training in the House of Bliss, my online spiritual community. We discussed the idea that in 2021 and beyond, it is important to work on getting visible online in order to serve your purpose in this world. Not just in business but if you’re looking for a relationship, wanting to network, get a new job, etc. The way the world is going, it is pushing us to get more visible and that means showing more than just the pretty pictures in life, but more of the real, authentic sides of us.
I’m very passionate about blogging. I started this blog back in 2008 and it changed my life forever. The life I desired to create, was made possible because I made myself a promise to be more visible and I started this very blog. I had a dream to be seen/heard/understood in the interior design world and that dream came true for me only because I put myself out there with a blog.
And when I decided to shift my career to making jewelry and launched an e-commerce platform, it was successful because I made myself visible. I will never forget how scared I was to try and sell my first product, to push publish on the photo, to speak in front of a crowd of people about my jewelry. However, once I pushed past the fear…it all worked out far better than I could even ever have imagined. Thank God for my blog.
What I love about a blog, is that it is like your home on the internet. You can let people into your world by sharing more of your life on a blog in a more concrete way. Not only that you, you can control the user experience. While you may entertain people on instagram, that only lasts seconds…a blog keeps your people around like they are hanging out with you. That is what is so powerful about a blog. Also, Google is still the #1 search engine on the internet, no matter how fabulous you feel instagram may be…it just doesn’t even compete with Google. I teach EVERYTHING I have learned about blogging in my course, Boss Lady Blogger if you want to learn more/ chat with an entire community of women who are bloggers.
Anyway, Look. You can’t find your calling if you’re calling can’t find you.
And it starts by first getting honest with yourself about what you want and about who you are meant to be in this world. If you keep yourself hidden, quietly hiding your voice and perspective from the world, there are people who are missing out on YOU. The truth of who you are and what incredible purpose you have on this planet. The exciting thing is, no matter who you are, you ABSOLUTELY DO have a purpose on this planet. It just takes a little discovery to try and find it.
You can start by just honoring your truth, here is what that looks like....
🖤 Ask yourself, am I honoring my feelings and instincts? Am I standing up for myself? Have I gone against myself in some way today?
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🖤 If so, decide to be your own bff. What would your very best, most supportive friend say to you in that situation? Tell yourself more of that. .
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🖤 If you have dishonored yourself and your truth...stop what you are doing right now and find a new way to treat yourself to something special. Whether it's flowers, a manicure, a book or even some beautiful crystal jewelry (shameless plug 😜)...do something to treat yourself and show yourself that you commit to honoring your truth, your needs and your happiness. .
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🖤 It's from this place that you step into your power and your worth! Declare that it’s your time to be visible, to come out from hiding & isolation and share the purpose in your heart!
I’m always reminding myself that the answers, clarity, direction for my path to success are & have always been within me.
And the same goes for you. Spend some time today to quiet your mind and look for signs that speak to you.
If it feels good, exciting & lights you up.....that’s what’s meant for you to do. If it feels like a chore, leaves you feeling indecisive or in doubt....that’s not the way. God will lead you to the things you are MEANT to do by following what feels right to your soul.
If you’d like some spiritual support in your life...come join your new spiritual besties in the House of Bliss. You’ll get instant access to my training on how to step into your truth & your calling ! ✨✨✨✨
