How to dress according to your Venus sign (Everything you need to know)

This post is all about how to dress for your Venus sign.

Do you ever feel like your wardrobe doesn't truly reflect your inner essence and unique beauty? Perhaps it's time to delve into the world of astrology and discover the art of dressing for your Venus sign.

Venus, the planet of love, beauty, and aesthetics, plays a significant role in shaping our fashion preferences and personal style. By aligning your clothing choices with your Venus sign, you can tap into a whole new level of self-expression and self-confidence.

What is your venus sign and how do you find it?

Where Venus was at the time your were born is what determines your Venus placement, aka your Venus sign. You can book a birth chart reading with me right here and I can walk you through everything you need to know.

You can also look up your Venus placement with any free birth chart calculator online.

What does your Venus sign mean?

When you know your Venus sign, you can unveil the mysteries of your romantic inclinations and interests, your attraction powers, your perception of beauty, and even how you handle your finances.

Your Venus sign illuminates your values and desires surrounding love, romance, intimacy, sex and belonging. It reveals the deeper facets of your inner goddess and romantic personality. You can also tap into your Venus sign to become more attractive and magnetic!

Listen to this podcast episode for more on dressing for your Venus sign:

Here are some compelling benefits of dressing for your Venus sign:

1. Authentic Self-Expression: Your Venus sign represents your unique taste in fashion and aesthetics. Dressing in alignment with your Venus sign allows you to authentically express your inner beauty and personal style, helping you feel more comfortable and confident in your own skin.

2. Enhanced Confidence: When you wear clothing that resonates with your Venus sign, you're more likely to feel confident and attractive. Confidence can be a game-changer in how you carry yourself and interact with others, boosting your self-esteem.

3. Improved Relationships: Venus also governs our romantic and social interactions. Dressing for your Venus sign can enhance your allure and magnetism, potentially attracting people who appreciate and resonate with your unique beauty, both inside and out.

4. Better Mood and Energy: Wearing colors and styles that align with your Venus sign can uplift your mood and energy. It's like wearing a visual affirmation of your inner beauty, creating a positive impact on your overall well-being.

5. Personalized Wardrobe: Dressing for your Venus sign helps you curate a wardrobe that truly speaks to you. It reduces the temptation to follow fleeting fashion trends and encourages you to invest in clothing that resonates with your long-term style preferences.

6. Stress Reduction: Simplifying your wardrobe by focusing on Venus-aligned choices can reduce the stress of deciding what to wear each day. You'll have a clearer sense of what works for you, streamlining your morning routine.

7. Deepened Self-Understanding: Exploring your Venus sign's characteristics and associated style preferences can lead to a deeper understanding of your own personality and desires. It's a journey of self-discovery that extends beyond fashion.

8. Empowerment: Dressing for your Venus sign is a form of self-care and self-love. It empowers you to embrace your individuality and reminds you that your unique beauty is something to celebrate, not hide.

9. Creative Expression: Aligning your clothing choices with your Venus sign can be a fun and creative outlet. Experimenting with different styles, colors, and accessories that resonate with your Venus sign can be an enjoyable and fulfilling hobby.

10. Positive Energy Flow: Many believe that dressing in harmony with your Venus sign can enhance the flow of positive energy and love into your life. It's a way of inviting more love and beauty into your daily experiences.

Dressing for your Venus sign is more than just a fashion trend; it's a journey of self-discovery and self-celebration. By aligning your clothing choices with the energies of Venus, you can enhance your confidence, relationships, and overall well-being.

So, why not embrace your inner beauty and let your Venus sign shine through your wardrobe? It's a beautiful way to express your unique essence and radiate with confidence and authenticity.

I love getting dressed up. I truly enjoy styling myself in fabrics, colors and jewels according to my mood. It’s just a girl thing, I guess. Literally wearing all of the feminine and flowy dresses in my closet and I can’t tell you how many compliments I get about them. So, it was no surprise to me that when I learned that Sagittarius is my Venus sign, it all clicked.

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My favorite part of it all however, is just how much our birth chart can tell us about ourselves and our own inner psychology. The inner workings of our psyche are so correlated to what our birth chart tells us, it’s wild to me that we don’t learn this when we are younger.

It absolutely changed everything for me, in terms of my focus and direction in life. Also, the level to which I have helped women have personal life transformations and breakthroughs by reading their birth chart has absolutely blown my mind. You can read more of the stories here.

Now, LET’S TALK ABOUT YOUR VENUS…

So, according to Astrology, in your birth chart Venus shines a light on your heart, reflecting all of the wonderful ways you feel most connected yourself, how you connect with others and embrace your environment. Your Venus sign illuminates your values and desires surrounding love, romance, intimacy, sex and belonging. It also reveals your inner Goddess anthem, your style, your charisma and your personal branding. We discuss this in depth inside my community, manifestation queen membership.

When I read your birth chart, I look at your Venus placement to tell me how you can make the most of your magnetic qualities. Like how you can style your home, yourself and your business to unlock your potent influence and inner power. Look to Venus for inspiration, because this will reveals how you tick on the inside, what you’re attracted to and your inner emotional wounds. I highly encourage you to lean on your unique Venusian strengths to alchemize any wounds into gifts.

What’s more, exuding more of your Venus vibration can actually help you to yield more influence. So, when I started curating my wardrobe and my home decor more around my Venus placement, I noticed how much more compliments I started to receive.

People just kept saying to me, “omg, this outfit is just so YOU”…and it occurred to me that every girl should not only know her Venus sign for her love languages but also to help amplify her personal magnetism and influence. (hint hint: this can help with branding and business too)

If you’re not sure what zodiac sign your Venus placement is in, use this birth chart calculator to find out.

If you want to understand more about your birth chart and the planetary placements and how they can help you manifest, book a birth chart reading with me here.

HOW TO DRESS ACCORDING TO YOUR VENUS SIGN

Venus in Aries: Passionate, dynamic and impulsive.

ARIES: Think feisty and fiery boss babe. Get your nails painted red and walk into the room with your fierce and unshakeable confidence. Your energy is very powerful and assertive, like Aries ruling planet, Mars. So, think “how can I express myself in a powerful way today?”

Head to the gym in a bold red workout set & light up a fucking fabulous candle, too because you are on fire girl.

Venus in Taurus: stability, loyalty, luxury & beauty

TAURUS: Think sensual, earthy, body hugging curves. She is bathed in delicious perfume and enchants everyone with her quiet moves. Think designer bags, open toed shoes and expensive scents. One of my most favorite seasons to decorate for is Taurus season.

I always imagine a Taurus venus going shopping and having a glass of bubbly afterwards. Wear your best earth inspired, body hugging dress & a pair of earthy but oh so sexy heels.

Venus in Gemini: talkative, curious and always on the go

GEMINI: This gal is ready for anything + always on the go with a coffee in hand. Gemini Venus can’t really stay in one place for too long, they’re kind of ready to dash off to the next social event. Also, they’re incredibly chatty so they need to dress comfortably enough to stay engaged in a long conversation.

Think a really chic pair of jeans and some cute Veja sneakers.

Venus in Cancer: creative, romantic and nurturing

CANCER: she is always going to have the best home to hang out in, as she is the ultimate hostess. Always dressed cozy and comfortable with that ‘pour a cup of tea and stay a while’ energy.

This girl will wear a cozy sweater even to the beach, her favorite place to be. think a chunky, light weight cardigan & cozy carry all tote.

Venus in Leo : bold, flirtatious and and warm

LEO: she is always the star of the show, so she definitely dresses like it. Big glasses, bold choices, lots of color and bring on the drama, baby! Think a Marilyn Monroe.

A pair of pink Dior sunglasses will polish off any look you opt for & big, bold Balenciaga inspired earrings.

Venus in Virgo: practical, organized, careful and put together

VIRGO: with this placement, things are always neat, clean and organized down to the last detail so she’s always going to look effortlessly pulled together and chic. Think a classic outfit like the extremely popular AF high rise fitted jeans with a classic top, a structured neutral or white handbag, pretty filofax planner .

Venus in Libra: charismatic, calm and harmonious

LIBRA: Venus rules Libra, so she’s right at home here. Clothes will always look like they were made for this girl. No matter her style she always looks pretty, pulled together and polished, especially her nails.

Think tailored dresses and the most sensual perfume, like missing person by phlur.

Venus in Scorpio : mysterious, intense and broodingly romantic

SCORPIO: Mystery is the name of her game, this girl has that femme fatale quality to her.

Think choker with a cross on it, some ripped jeans and tight black belt with incredibly sexy, lacy underwear and the best red lipstick on the planet.

Venus in Sagittarius : fun-loving, free-spirited, lucky and optimistic

SAGITTARIUS: Always looking like she just got back from a trip to the Amalfi coast. Bohemian and flirtatious is her magnetic essence.

Think flowy and feminine long dress paired with an on the go, its always Italty vibes with a designer straw hat.

Venus in Capricorn : patient, stable and dedicated

CAPRICORN: always a gal who just walked out of a business meeting, she is dressed to impress. Never anything over-the-top just that effortless elegance. Think Chanel everything.

The Capricorn venus will want to keep investments in mind first, so opting for a Chanel inspired cardigan and pair it with an actual pre-loved Chanel classic flapbag.

Venus in Aquarius : eccentric, emotionally detached and open

AQUARIUS: This gal is always probably wearing denim of some kind. Styled in a hip and trendy way, because she is the gal that gets along with everyone.

Grab yourself a distressed denim jacket like this one and pair it with some white knee high cowboy boots.

Venus in Pisces: compassionate, empathetic and idealistic

PISCES: off daydreaming in a park with a picnic while reading her favorite romance novel, that’s this girl. Wearing something floral or with ruffles, of course. She’s the ultimate romantic!

Try a cottage core inspired off-the-shoulder ruffle top and the most feminine perfume, Delina.

LISTEN TO THIS PODCAST EPISODE FOR MORE!

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The Hot Girls Guide To New Orleans French Quarter

There are certain cities that feel less like a destination and more like an experience for the soul—and for me, New Orleans is one of them.

Stepping into the French Quarter feels like stepping into another world: a place where history lingers in the architecture, jazz drifts through the streets, and every corner invites you to slow down and savor life.

I recently had the most romantic trip there, and it completely swept me off my feet. From charming boutique hotels to candlelit dinners tucked away on cobblestone streets, everything was within walking distance, making it feel both intimate and magical.

In this guide, I’m sharing where to stay, the restaurants that became instant favorites, and the unforgettable little moments that made me fall in love with the French Quarter.

Whether you’re planning a dreamy getaway or just looking for inspiration, I hope you’ll see why this city has a way of capturing your heart forever.

For a detailed recap of my trip, listen to this podcast episode:

WHERE TO STAY:

Hotel Monteleon at night

my morning coffee

street glow

Where to Stay: Hotel Monteleone

When it comes to capturing the heart and soul of the French Quarter, no place does it quite like the Hotel Monteleone. This historic gem is more than just a hotel—it’s an experience. Built in 1886 and rumored to be haunted, it carries with it a sense of mystery and charm that makes your stay feel straight out of a storybook.

• Charming & Historic Atmosphere: The moment you step inside, you’re greeted with old-world glamour—plush, traditional décor, glittering chandeliers, and details that feel timeless. It’s the kind of place where you instantly want to dress up just to wander the hallways.

• Exceptional Service: Every single interaction felt warm, welcoming, and thoughtful. The staff has a way of making you feel like the hotel is your own private mansion in the Quarter.

• The Pool Vibe: The rooftop pool was an unexpected highlight—sparkling, lively, and such a fun scene. With sweeping views of the city, it’s the perfect spot to sip a cocktail and watch the world go by.

• The Famous Carousel Bar: This is truly the crown jewel of the Monteleone. The bar itself is a moving carousel (yes, it actually spins), and it’s one of the most beloved staples in New Orleans nightlife. Order an espresso martini (hands down the best in the city) and don’t skip their truffle fries—you’ll thank me later.

  💡 Insider Tip: The Carousel Bar is always buzzing, no matter the time of day. If you want to snag a coveted seat at the rotating bar itself, the best strategy is simple: make friends with the bartender.

  That’s what we did—ordered a drink, lingered nearby, and chatted until a seat opened up. It made the whole experience feel even more special (and trust me, it’s worth the wait).

hotel monteleon pool party

Carousel bar

Staying here gave our trip such a magical, romantic energy. From the history to the views to the buzzing social scene, Hotel Monteleone is the kind of place that becomes part of your love story with New Orleans.

Where to Eat in the French Quarter:

One of the greatest joys of visiting New Orleans is that the city practically invites you to eat your way through it—and nowhere is that more true than the French Quarter. Every meal feels like part of the experience: a mix of history, flavor, and a little bit of magic.

Whether it’s sipping iced coffee in the morning at a charming café, lingering over brunch in a sun-dappled courtyard, or ending the night with a cocktail in a sultry, velvet-clad bar, the food and drink here have a way of becoming part of your love story with the city.

On our trip, we discovered so many incredible spots—each with its own personality and flavor. Below are the restaurants and bars that truly stood out, all within walking distance of where we stayed, and each one offering something unforgettable. From classic French Quarter staples to hidden gems and new favorites, here’s where to eat (and drink!) when you want to taste the best of New Orleans.

cafe beignet morning view

enjoyed my iced coffee in the lush courtyard

BREAKFAST AT Café Beignet

No trip to New Orleans is complete without starting your morning at Café Beignet. Tucked right in the French Quarter, this charming little café feels like stepping into a Parisian postcard—quaint, cozy, and full of that easygoing New Orleans charm.

While the beignets are, of course, iconic, what really surprised me was how incredible the iced coffee was. Honestly, one of the best I’ve ever had. Pair it with one of their fluffy breakfast omelets and you’ll be perfectly fueled for a day of wandering through the Quarter.

Sylvain courtyard

peach fried chicken salad was delicious

Lunch at Sylvain

Nestled on a quiet street in the French Quarter, Sylvain feels like one of those hidden gems you stumble upon and instantly fall in love with. It’s equal parts cozy and chic, with a relaxed charm that makes it the perfect midday escape. The cocktail menu is fabulous—order one of their spritzes and you’ll see why it’s a local favorite.

We couldn’t resist the French fries, which were truly out of this world (crispy, golden, and dangerously addictive). For my main, I had the peach fried chicken salad, and it was every bit as dreamy as it sounds—fresh, flavorful, and a little unexpected in the best way.

💡 Insider Tip: If the weather is nice, ask for a table on the patio—it feels like your own secret garden hideaway in the middle of the French Quarter.

Cafe Amelie decor was perfection

the spicy bloody mary was on point

courtyard cherub

Brunch at Café Amelie

If you’re looking for a brunch spot that feels like pure New Orleans magic, Café Amelie is it. Tucked inside a historic French Quarter carriage house, the restaurant spills out into one of the most enchanting courtyards in the city.

The colorful French-inspired décor and lush greenery make it the kind of place where you’ll want to linger long after your meal. The cocktail game here is strong—think refreshing spritzes and spicy Bloody Marys that will wake you right up.

💡 Insider Tip: While the breakfast dishes aren’t the standout, do yourself a favor and order the shrimp & grits along with the shrimp appetizer. Both are bursting with flavor and will make your brunch here absolutely unforgettable.

loved the french 75 vibe

original french 75 recipe

potatoes were perfection

Happy Hour at French 75

For a happy hour that feels straight out of a glamorous Parisian evening, French 75 is the place to be. Known as the birthplace of the classic French 75 cocktail, this intimate bar captures the essence of old-world sophistication with a sultry New Orleans twist.

The space is decadent—sumptuous décor, warm lighting, and the hum of live jazz that makes you want to settle in and stay awhile. Naturally, the French 75s here are perfection, but don’t skip the food: the deviled eggs, tuna tartare, and perfectly crisp potatoes were standouts.

hermes bar was so charming

the grilled oysters were outstanding

Dinner at Antoine’s

For a truly romantic New Orleans dinner, Antoine’s is a must. Established in 1840, it’s the oldest family-run restaurant in the U.S., and dining here feels like stepping back in time—grand dining rooms, white tablecloths, and an air of timeless elegance.

We began our evening at the Hermes Bar, where the vibe is lively yet refined. A signature martini set the tone perfectly, paired with oysters to start. And not just any oysters—their grilled and baked oysters were hands-down the best thing on the menu, brimming with rich, buttery flavor.

For dinner, we surprised ourselves and went with the burgers, and they turned out to be just as incredible as the classics.

💡 Insider Tip: Start with a drink at the Hermes Bar before your reservation—it’s the best way to ease into the full Antoine’s experience and ensures you don’t miss out on their oysters, which are worth the visit alone. Also, dress up!

such a magical courtyard at orleans grapevine

I highly recommend the fish

Dinner at Orleans Grapevine

Of all the meals we enjoyed in New Orleans, Orleans Grapevine was hands-down my favorite. Tucked away just steps from Bourbon Street, this spot feels like a hidden sanctuary—a perfect blend of French Quarter charm and elevated dining.

Their courtyard seating is absolutely the place to be: romantic, intimate, and glowing under string lights. We started the evening with their signature martinis, which set the perfect tone, and then moved on to the fish of the day—cooked to perfection and bursting with flavor. Every single bite felt thoughtful and unforgettable.

💡 Insider Tip: Make a reservation and request a table in the courtyard. It’s the most magical way to enjoy the atmosphere, and it turns dinner into a truly memorable experience.

Bar Marilou

Late-Night Cocktails at Bar Marilou - salon salon

If you’re in the mood for something playful, sexy, and a little bit mysterious, make your way to Bar Marilou. One of the French Quarter’s newer hotspots, it’s tucked away inside the Maison de la Luz hotel and feels like a secret worth discovering.

The décor is bold, whimsical, and wildly Instagram-worthy—think jewel-toned velvet, vintage bookshelves, and Parisian flair in every corner. The cocktails are just as artful, crafted with unexpected ingredients that make every sip feel like an adventure.

It’s the kind of place that makes you want to dress up, lean into the romance of the city, and stay out just a little later than planned.

💡 Insider Tip: Try to snag a seat in one of the cozy nooks—it makes the whole experience feel even more intimate and special. And don’t be shy about asking the bartender for a recommendation; their craft cocktails are always on point.

Where to Shop in the French Quarter

If there’s one thing I adore about the French Quarter (besides the food), it’s the shopping. The neighborhood is filled with hidden gems, from couture boutiques to antique shops brimming with history. Every stop feels like a treasure hunt—you never know what one-of-a-kind piece you’ll stumble upon.

Vintage 329 – Designer Cocktail-Worthy Finds

Nestled on Royal Street in the heart of the French Quarter, Vintage 329 is your go-to haven for exquisite vintage Chanel and designer jewelry. In fact, it boasts the largest collection of authentic vintage Chanel jewelry in the entire United States—right here in New Orleans!

This boutique is a treasure trove of elegance and style, showcasing timeless pieces from Chanel, YSL, Miriam Haskell, Bakelite, and other iconic names in designer vintage fashion.

Whether you're hunting for a delicate brooch, a statement necklace, or a pair of earrings with history, Vintage 329 captures the romance and craftsmanship of fashion’s golden eras.

Fleur de Paris

hat collection was superb

Fleur de Paris Hats

If there’s one shop that feels like it was made for a romantic French Quarter stroll, it’s Fleur de Paris Hats. This boutique is pure enchantment—part couture salon, part fashion fantasy.

Inside, you’ll find an exquisite collection of one-of-a-kind dresses, tailored jackets, couture hats, handbags, and accessories that make you feel like you’ve stepped right into a Paris runway moment. Every piece is special, beautifully made, and utterly unique.

I found the most perfect dress and earrings here—pieces that felt as though they’d been waiting just for me. It’s truly every girl’s dream boutique, the kind of place where you leave with not just something to wear, but something to treasure.

💡 Insider Tip: Don’t rush through this shop. Take your time trying things on, chatting with the staff, and soaking up the artistry of each piece. If you’re celebrating something special (like a romantic trip), this is the perfect place to treat yourself to a forever keepsake. Ask for Ashley!

always eyeing the oyster plates at moss antiques

Moss Antiques

For a taste of New Orleans history through objects, Moss Antiques is a must-visit. This classic French Quarter antique shop is filled with timeless treasures, but the real showstopper is their incredible collection of oyster plates.

As someone who adores vintage and antique finds, walking through this shop felt like stepping into a carefully curated museum—only here, you get to bring a piece of history home. From fine furniture to delicate glassware, every corner is filled with something special.

💡 Insider Tip: If you’re hunting for oyster plates (a true collector’s item), this is the place to start your collection—or add to it. The staff is wonderfully knowledgeable and happy to share the stories behind the pieces, which makes shopping here feel like a conversation with the past.

Hemline

If you’re looking for a mix of trendy and timeless, Hemline is always a go-to. I already loved shopping Hemline in Texas, but the French Quarter location completely blew me away. It’s huge—spanning three bustling sections—and filled with everything from chic everyday staples to statement pieces that feel perfectly on-trend.

I ended up finding a couple of the cutest outfits here that I can’t wait to wear all fall. It’s the kind of store where you walk in just “to browse” and inevitably leave with a bag (or two) of new favorites.

💡 Insider Tip: You can bring your husband or boyfriend, they have excellent seating & they’ll pour you both champagne!

Romantic Things to Do in the French Quarter (Beyond Eating & Drinking)

New Orleans is a city made for romance, and beyond the incredible food and cocktails, there are so many experiences that make the French Quarter unforgettable. Here are a few of my favorites:

gorgeous building

fabulous ferns

💛 Stroll the French Quarter – Wander hand in hand through cobblestone streets and admire the gorgeous historic architecture that makes this neighborhood feel like another era.

canal street palm trees

💛 Take a Streetcar Ride on Canal Street – There’s something so nostalgic and romantic about gliding along Canal Street on a vintage streetcar. It’s an easy way to see more of the city while soaking in the charm together.

WWII museum was gorgeous

loved the installations

WWII aircraft carriers

💛 Visit the WWII Museum – A surprisingly romantic experience, this museum was moving and memorable—we were truly blown away by the history and storytelling.

Lafayette Park

💛 Walk Through the Parks – From the charm of Jackson Square to the beauty of Lafayette Park and Audubon Park, each green space feels like a little oasis for slowing down together.

second line was magical

💛 Catch a Second Line – If you’re lucky, you might stumble upon a joyful second line parade in the streets—complete with brass bands and dancing. It’s spontaneous, celebratory, and pure New Orleans magic.

Final Thoughts on the French Quarter

New Orleans has a way of stealing your heart, and for me, the French Quarter was pure magic from start to finish. From our romantic stay at the historic Hotel Monteleone, to unforgettable dinners under twinkling courtyard lights, to wandering shops filled with treasures, every moment felt like something out of a storybook. There’s truly no place else like it—rich in history, alive with music, and brimming with charm at every turn.

I already can’t wait to plan my next trip back, because this is the kind of city that keeps calling you to return. ✨

Have you been to New Orleans? I’d love to hear your tips, favorite restaurants, hidden shops, or must-do experiences. Share them in the comments below—I’ll be adding them to my list for my next visit!