Blissful Business: 3 crystals to enhance your creativity, success & confidence

It's been very interesting lately how much we are all on a new spiritual wave. When I began sharing more about how I use crystals and Feng Shui on my Instagram, the more emails and messages I have received. More than ever before. When I began implementing more of my spiritual practice into my business, things began to shift immediately...for the better. 

So much of it really starts with letting go. Letting go of the need to hustle, need to control, need to force things to happen or need to know the outcome. There is a time for the hustle and a time for the flow. I learned this lesson when I began practicing Feng Shui in all aspects of my life, there needs to be a perfect balance of masculine and feminine in order for the flow to work. I am a Capricorn and an expert at working hard but it wasn't until I learned how to lean back and let go that things really clicked and made a lot more sense for me. 

The masculine part is being super organized, super clear and focused on the right things for your business. I share how to do all of that here. The feminine aspect is where the crystals, Feng Shui and my spiritual practices came in. These incredible things, gave me a guideline for how to amp up the Yin (the feminine) side of things. That's when doors open, opportunities come out of thin air, manifesting actually works and there is a feeling of freedom and flow. 

I even wrote an e-book all about how I began to flow more once I started using crystals in my life. I changed my health, my joy, my relationship status, etc. Read my story in the book, Manifesting with Crystals.



I will be sharing a lot more of these concepts but for now, I want to share with you 3 crystals that are great tools for keeping by or on your desk to enhance your success and creativity. 

1. Amethyst. In Feng Shui, the color purple is a symbol for wealth and abundance so this crystal brings excellent color to your desk energy. It's also a crystal that connects you with your spirituality and your intuition. It activates your crown chakra so that you can hear your higher self & what it wants you to create. Your higher self knows the things your soul longs to create, and you will know because it will flow out of you. So when you are needing to tap into your creative potential, you can wear an amethyst crystal bracelet on your right wrist, (the hand you create with). You can also place one on your desk, stare at it or hold it while meditating. Whatever feels good to you. 

2. Citrine. This gorgeous crystal represents confidence, courage, vitality and represents the bright energy of the sun. Keep this crystal close to give you a boost of optimistic energy for whatever you are working on. It is known to be the crystal of manifestation as she helps give you the energy you need to manifest your dreams. So, if you’ve been feeling like you need a little extra energy, grab your citrine crystals and go get em! p.s. if have a dimly lit office, this crystal brings on the feeling of natural, bright light.

3. Selenite. White crystals are incredible for cleansing energy and purification of the mind, body and soul. If you are stressed, needing any sort of focus and clarity, this crystal is your magic little pill. I keep several Selenite wands around my home in wand form and I often use them like a magic want to brush away stagnant or negative energy. It also helps you to get honest. Honest with your clients, honest with yourself about what you can do, etc. Pretty powerful. You can watch my video discussing the benefits of Selenite here.

WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR CRYSTALS:

First, I cleanse & charge my crystals, constantly. It's fun to do actually. Just light up some palo santo or sage and let the smoke fill the area with new, clean energy. Next, give your crystals a purpose or an assignment. Hold them in your hand, close your eyes and give them a job to do. For example, one of my first times I ever held my selenite wand, I gave it the purpose to help get rid of things that do not serve me. So each time I use that crystal, I am confident in "letting go" and letting the universe do it for me. Crystals are a great connection to the universe and the earth. Which is really good Feng Shui. Finally, you want to place them where they look beautiful on your desk. The upper left hand corner of your desk represents the wealth sector of the Feng Shui bagua, so thats a really good place to start. Arrange them in a way that feels good and beautiful to you. That's the important part of their magic, using them intentionally. 

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WHERE TO BUY YOUR CRYSTALS:

I recommend going to a crystal shop and finding authentic crystals for your home. You will be have fun feeling drawn to the right crystals for you. You want real, authentic crystals because they hold powerful energy so if you are using them in meditation or in your hands, be sure they are authentic. You can also find them in unique forms at places like HomeGoods. They may not be natural and authentic crystals but honestly, they still can serve as a representation of the symbol. A lot of times you can find these candle holder crystals and light a candle to amplify the vibes. They are so pretty too. It's whatever feels right and good to you. 

I know a lot of this feels a little out there and woo woo, so don't force yourself if you don't feel it. However, I have found the effects of implementing these magical tools in my life to be very effective. 

And again, grab my e-book, How to manifest with Crystals. Inside you will learn:

💎 How to shop for crystals
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💎 Why you need crystals in your life & how you can use them to amplify your manifestations.
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💎 Which crystals go where & why.
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💎How to set up your home with crystals for love, money, health, etc.
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💎 Which Crystals work best in which rooms & why.
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💎 Why you may be dream to specific crystals over others.

How to Set Up Your Home Office in Alignment With Your Next Level (And Why You Should Refresh It Every Year)

Your home office isn’t just a functional space — it’s an energetic container for your ideas, income, confidence, and evolution.

If you’ve been feeling uninspired, scattered, stuck, or like you’ve “outgrown” your current work rhythm, it may not be a mindset issue at all. It might be your environment.

Your workspace holds memory. It holds old goals, old identities, old seasons of hustle or survival. And just like we shed layers every year as women, our offices need to evolve with us.

Refreshing your home office annually isn’t about trends or perfection — it’s about alignment.

Why Your Office Must Match the Version of You You’re Becoming

Here’s the truth most women don’t realize:

You cannot create next-level results inside an outdated energetic container.

Your office should reflect:

• The caliber of work you’re stepping into

• The woman you’re becoming, not who you used to be

• The level of calm, clarity, and authority you desire

If your space still mirrors an earlier chapter — a season of overworking, undercharging, or uncertainty — it quietly reinforces those patterns.

Refreshing your office signals to your nervous system and subconscious mind:
“I’m safe to rise. I’m ready for more.”

Why an Annual Office Refresh Is So Powerful

Just like we reset intentions every new year, your office deserves the same ritual.

An annual refresh helps you:

• Release stagnant energy and outdated goals

• Create mental clarity and renewed motivation

• Anchor a new identity through your environment

• Reclaim ownership over your time, focus, and creativity

Even small shifts — rearranging furniture, changing art, or updating textures — can radically shift how you show up in your work.

Start With an Energetic Cleanse (Before You Decorate)

Before you buy or add anything new, clear first.

This is the most overlooked step.

Do a slow, intentional reset:

• Clear out paperwork tied to old projects

• Remove items that trigger stress or obligation

• Let go of décor that no longer reflects who you are

As you do this, ask yourself:

“Does this belong to the woman I’m becoming — or the woman I’ve already outgrown?”

Your space should feel lighter after this step.

Feng Shui Foundations for a Next-Level Home Office

You don’t need to follow rigid rules — feng shui is about flow, safety, and intention.

Here are the essentials that make the biggest difference:

1. Desk Placement = Personal Power

Ideally, position your desk so you can see the door without being directly in line with it. This creates a sense of safety and authority — you’re not bracing for interruptions or surprises.

When your body feels safe, creativity flows more easily.

2. Support Behind You

A solid wall, bookshelf, or cabinet behind your chair symbolizes support in your work and career. Avoid sitting with your back exposed if possible — it subtly creates stress and vulnerability.

3. Clear the Space Under Your Desk

Clutter beneath your desk blocks forward momentum. Keep this area open and clean to support progress and opportunity.

Design Your Office for the Energy You Want to Feel

Instead of asking “What looks good?”, ask:

• How do I want to feel while working?

• Calm and focused?

• Creative and inspired?

• Grounded and confident?

Then design accordingly:

• Soft neutrals calm the nervous system

• Warm metals elevate confidence and abundance

• Natural textures ground your energy

• Intentional art reinforces identity and vision

Your office should feel like a sanctuary, not a pressure chamber.

Use Artwork as an Identity Anchor

Artwork in your office should be deeply personal and intentional.

Choose pieces that:

• Reflect who you are becoming

• Evoke confidence, expansion, or calm

• Act as visual reminders of your values and vision

This can include:

• Editorial or magazine art that represents aspiration

• Quotes that anchor your focus

• Images that symbolize freedom, leadership, or creativity

Think of your walls as a living vision board, not decoration.

FENG SHUI TIP: Gold is the color of success, so when it comes to your home office I like to encourage you to decorate with gold. I personally love to hang gold frames for the art in my work area. It pulls in wealth. Just like to gold crystals Pyrite & Citrine pull in wealth, the metal will do the same thing energetically. If you want to learn more about how to Feng Shui with crystals, read this book.
This is how Feng Shui works, its exactly like the law of attraction! Your home becomes your real life vision board.

Refresh the Details That Signal “Next Level”

Sometimes it’s the smallest upgrades that shift everything.

Consider refreshing:

• Your chair (comfort = confidence)

• Desk accessories (trays, organizers, lamps)

• Lighting (soft, layered light reduces stress)

• Textiles (a rug or curtain can ground the space)

Ask yourself:

“Would the next-level version of me work here?”

If the answer is no — that’s your cue.

I never used to like gallery walls. But once I started using interesting photos, magazine tears and different things in frames. It made my home so much more light hearted fun and enjoyable. For more fun tips, listen to this podcast episode to inspire you for your workspace.

Your Office Is a Mirror of Self-Trust

Your workspace should tell a story:

• That you trust yourself

• That you value your time and energy

• That your work matters

When your office feels intentional, your work becomes more intentional too.

This is how environment supports embodiment.

Let Your Office Grow With You

Your home office isn’t meant to stay static — it should evolve as you do.

Refreshing your space each year is an act of self-respect. It says:
“I honor my growth. I make space for what’s next.”

When your environment matches your expansion, everything feels easier — focus, creativity, confidence, and flow.

And that’s when your next level begins.

Listen to this podcast episode for more:

10 stunning home offices to inspire you

01 | Black and gold

02 | Bright natural light

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03 | Cozy neutrals

04 | Bohemian textures

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05 | Monochromatic white

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06 | Chic and architectural

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07 | Modern and Minimal

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08 | Quiet and moody

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09 | Elegant Cloffice

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10 | Modern Parisian

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Putting It All Together: Create a Space That Inspires the Life You’re Building

At the end of the day, creating a beautiful home office isn’t about copying someone else’s aesthetic — it’s about crafting a space that supports your clarity, creativity, and confidence. When your office feels open, light-filled, and intentional, it invites you to show up differently. You think more clearly. You work with more ease. You trust yourself more deeply.

The most inspiring spaces are the ones that feel calm yet expansive, minimal yet warm — spaces that give your ideas room to breathe. As you look through these office spaces, let them spark possibility rather than pressure. Notice what feels grounding, what feels elevating, and what feels like the next version of you. When your environment reflects the life you’re building, inspiration stops being something you chase — it becomes something you live inside of every day.

If this post stirred something in you — a desire for more clarity, ease, or alignment in the way you work — know that it’s not just about your office. It’s about your nervous system, your sense of safety, and the way you allow yourself to be supported as you grow.

This is exactly what I teach inside Shine Online. We don’t just talk about strategy or visibility — we focus on building a life and business that feels grounded, regulated, and sustainable. When your environment supports you and your nervous system feels safe, showing up online, creating consistently, and receiving abundance becomes so much easier.

Your home, your body, and your work are deeply connected. When they’re in alignment, you stop forcing — and start flowing.

If you’re ready to build your next level from a place of calm, clarity, and self-trust, I’d love to support you inside Shine Online.

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