High Vibe Habits: A blissful bath time ritual to draw in love

Looking for a new bath ritual? or manifest love in your life? This post is for you.

Ever since I was a young girl, long hot bubble baths were a sanctuary for me. Not just a way to keep myself clean but they became a sanctuary for me, a way to unwind after a long day.

There’s something sacred about the way water holds us. When you step into a warm bath with intention, you’re not just soaking your body — you’re nourishing your soul, balancing your hormones, and filling yourself with the same oxytocin your body releases when you’re falling in love. A love bath ritual isn’t only about calling in romance; it’s about calling yourself home.

When you’re grounded, relaxed, and truly cared for, your energy shifts. Your nervous system softens, your heart opens, and you radiate a kind of presence that naturally attracts more love into your life.

This ritual is both magnetic and healing: a way to cleanse away old stress, heal from past heartbreak, and prepare your body and spirit to receive more beauty, connection, and intimacy.

That’s why a love bath ritual is so powerful. It creates a container for self-love and feminine energy, while also aligning you with the vibration of love itself — making you a magnet for the experiences and relationships you desire.

What Is a Love Bath Ritual?

A love bath ritual is the art of turning an ordinary soak into a sacred ceremony for love, self-healing, and attraction. At its core, it’s about creating a container of water, intention, and symbolism that allows you to step into a new energetic state.

Instead of simply relaxing in the tub, you infuse the water with elements that represent love — rose petals, pink candles, essential oils, and crystals — so that the bath itself becomes an energetic magnet.

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Here’s why it works: water has long been seen as a spiritual conductor, able to cleanse, hold, and carry energy. When you set an intention and step into the bath, you’re literally immersing yourself in the frequency of love.

Your body responds physically too — the warmth relaxes your nervous system, encourages oxytocin release (the hormone of love and bonding), and helps regulate stress. In that softened state, your heart naturally opens, and you begin to align with the vibration of what you want to attract.

Manifestation is really about resonance — you don’t just wish for love, you embody it. A love bath ritual helps you embody love by feeling cared for, grounded, and magnetic in the present moment. The more you cultivate that energy, the more love — in the form of relationships, experiences, or self-confidence — is drawn into your life.

Related Reading: 9 tips to Feng Shui to manifest love & romance

Now before I get into the specifics of the Love Bath Ritual, I would like to share a little bit about how I do baths.

First of all, I love a robe, I especially love my kimono robes. Here I am wearing my aqua vintage kimono that always makes me feel so luxurious when I wear it. Not too heavy, not too light. Plus, its a pretty pattern so you can’t spot the baby spit up, which is so helpful.

I like to light my candles and set up the accoutrements along the sides, as I run the bath. Indulge in the experience of decorating your bath scene. Plants and flowers make pretty additions too. I also love a good bath caddy, I need a new one and have my eyes on this one because its bamboo.

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How to Prepare for Your Love Bath Ritual

Preparing the bath is part of the magic. Start by giving the space a little love: clear away clutter, wipe down the tub, and create an environment that feels fresh and inviting. Light a few candles, burn incense if you love it, and dim the lights so your bathroom feels more like a sanctuary than a utility room.

Then, gather your ritual ingredients. Bath salts or pink Himalayan salt are wonderful for detoxification. Rose petals or dried flowers add a romantic touch, while essential oils like rose, geranium, or ylang-ylang infuse the water with sensual fragrance. Crystals such as rose quartz or moonstone can be placed on the edge of the tub to amplify the energy.

Most importantly, prepare your mind. Before you step in, take a moment to set an intention. Maybe you want to release heartbreak, call in a soulmate, or simply remind yourself that you are worthy of the deepest love. Holding that thought as you enter the water is what transforms the bath into a ritual.

BLISSFUL LIVING LOVE BATH RITUAL:

WHAT YOU’LL NEED: 

• A beautiful candle in red, pink or white, a set of pink tea lights works, too. (always work in pairs)

• Rose or Jasmine incense, I like how easy this one burns.

• Rose essential oil

• Rose petals

• Pink Himalayan bath salts

• Rose quartz crystal

WHAT YOU’LL DO: 

Clear an evening for a self pampering ritual to draw in love to you. Prepare your bathroom with fluffy towels, something to sip on, soft background music and anything you love to bathe with. 

Draw a warm bath and pour in pink Himalayan bath salts. Add 9 drops of rose essential oil and 27 rose petals to the bath, Place your heart shaped rose quartz crystal in the tub. 

Light your bubble bath Ritual candle & light your incense. Say the following prayer to your higher self as you immerse yourself into the bath water. 

“May my heart be open and my intentions clear. I seek a love to enhance my life, to bring love, joy, prosperity, peace and bliss to my life. Who I can fully love and who can fully love me. Who loves, honors and cherishes our connection. May I let love in. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.”

FAQs About Love Bath Rituals

Can I do this if I don’t have a tub?
Yes! A shower ritual works beautifully. Place salts or petals at your feet and let the water carry your intention over you.

How often can I do it?
As often as you need. Some women create a ritual once a month with the moon cycle, others whenever they feel called.

Is it only for manifesting romantic love?
Not at all. A love bath is just as powerful for building self-love, nurturing confidence, or inviting abundance into any area of your life.

A love bath ritual is a beautiful way to romance yourself and open your heart. It’s a reminder that love begins within, and when you take time to honor your own body and spirit, you radiate a kind of energy that attracts even more beauty into your world.

If this practice inspires you, consider weaving it into a weekly or monthly routine. And if you’re ready to go deeper into self-love rituals and feminine energy practices, you’ll love my private membership community, where I guide women into creating daily practices that unlock confidence, radiance, and feminine magnetism.

You may also like:

🎀 How to prepare your bathroom for a spa day

🎀 How to Feng Shui to manifest love

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The Ultimate Guide to Scripting for Manifestation: Write Your Dream Reality Into Existence

Hiiii beautiful, blissful soul.

I am fully lit up today as I sit here and write this post for you. I’ve been chomping at the bits to share something that has really been working for me and I just know it’s going to help you too. Perhaps it will change your life as it has mine. That’s the whole reason behind this post.

Have you ever wished you could just write your desires into existence? The truth is—you can. That’s the magic of scripting. It’s one of the most powerful manifestation techniques for aligning your energy with what you want to call into your life.

But here’s the key: scripting isn’t about making a wish or writing a fantasy. It’s about anchoring your desires in a new energetic reality so they can begin showing up in your physical world.

In this post, I’m going to show you exactly how to do it, what to avoid, and how to make scripting a part of your everyday manifestation magic.

💫 What Is Scripting (And Why Does It Work)?

Scripting is a technique where you write a detailed story about your life as if your desire has already happened. Think of it like writing a scene from the movie of your future—only you’re writing it in present or past tense, and it feels real.

Why does it work? Because:

• It reprograms your subconscious mind to accept a new belief system.

• It brings clarity and focus to your manifestations.

• It helps you align emotionally and vibrationally with the version of you who already has what you want.

In other words—you stop chasing your desires, and start embodying them.

📝 How to Script Successfully (The Queen’s Way)

If you're ready to stop wishing and start co-creating, here's how to get started with scripting like a Manifestation Queen:

1. Set the Scene

Before you write, get into a high-vibe state. Light a candle, play music that makes you feel empowered, and take a few deep breaths. Your energy matters more than the pen you use.

2. Choose One Clear Desire

Focus on one thing at a time. Whether it’s calling in more money, attracting aligned love, or launching a dream business—get specific.

3. Write It As If It’s Already Done

Use present or past tense. Write as though you’re journaling about something that’s already happened. For example:

“I’m so grateful for the beautiful new home I just moved into. The energy feels expansive, the view is everything I dreamed of, and I’m finally living in a space that reflects the woman I’ve become.”

4. Activate the Senses

Bring it to life. What do you see, feel, hear, smell, taste? The more detail you give it, the more your subconscious accepts it as truth.

5. Feel It Deeply

This is the secret sauce. If you don’t feel the emotion of the desire being real—your energy isn’t fully aligned. Read your script back to yourself and let yourself feel the joy, ease, pride, love, or security you’re describing.

6. Let It Go

Once you’ve written it—detach. Don’t obsess, don’t re-read it every hour. Trust that it’s already in motion. Come back to scripting as a vibe practice, not a control tactic.

👑 Scripting Tips from a Manifestation Queen

These are my golden rules for making your scripting practice powerful, magnetic, and soul-led:

✨ Make it ritual, not routine.
You don’t need to script every day—just often enough to stay aligned and intentional. Let it be sacred.

✨ Don’t overthink the “how.”
You’re not scripting a to-do list. You're aligning with the energy of your desires—the Universe fills in the rest.

✨ Use scripting to shift your identity.
Don’t just script what you want. Script who you are becoming. Become her on paper first.

✨ Speak it into existence, too.
After you script, read it out loud. Let your voice claim it. There’s power in speaking your truth.

✨ Celebrate little manifestations.
When you notice synchronicities or aligned signs—acknowledge them. That’s proof your energy is working.

🔮 Bonus Tip: Add a Mini Vision Board to Your Scripting Pages

Want to take your scripting practice to the next level? Here’s a powerful bonus tip: add a vision board directly onto the page where you script.

You can do this by:

• Printing and taping in small images of what you’re manifesting

• Adding cut-outs from magazines or aesthetic stickers

• Even drawing your own visual representations if you’re feeling creative

This works because your subconscious mind responds strongly to images + emotions. When you script and pair it with visual reinforcement, you're creating a multi-sensory energetic imprint that makes your manifestation even more magnetic.

Think of it like anchoring the vibe deeper into your mind and body. You’re not just writing your dream life—you’re seeing it, feeling it, and inviting it in through every portal available.

Try it on your next scripting page and watch the magic unfold.

❓ Most Common Questions About Scripting

Q: Do I have to script every day?
A: No. Scripting should be an inspired action, not a forced habit. Do it when you want to shift energy, focus a manifestation, or step into a new vibration.

Q: What if I don’t know what I want yet?
A: Then start scripting what you do know—how you want to feel. Focus on scripting from emotion: “I feel so aligned and on purpose…” Let clarity build over time.

Q: Can I script for multiple things at once?
A: You can, but it’s more powerful to focus on one area at a time—especially if you’re new to the practice. Too much at once splits your energy.

Q: Is there a “best” time to script?
A: Whenever your energy feels good! Many love to script during New Moons, at the start of a new month, or on birthdays. But even a random Tuesday can hold magic.

Q: What if nothing happens?
A: Then your scripting is just a piece of the puzzle. Check your beliefs. Check your vibration. Check your actions. Manifestation is a co-creation, and scripting is just the start.

💌 A Sample Script (For Calling in Abundance)

Here’s a little inspo if you need it:

“Wow, I still can’t believe I had my first 10k month in my business. The payments came in with such ease—I didn’t have to hustle, just show up in my aligned power. I feel proud, confident, and so supported by the Universe. This is the beginning of something beautiful.”

💎 Why Scripting Is a Signature Practice in the Manifestation Queen Membership Academy

Inside the Manifestation Queen Membership Academy, scripting isn’t just a side practice—it’s a foundational tool for conscious creation.

You’ll get access to:

• Monthly guided scripting rituals aligned with the moon & astrological energy

• Done-for-you scripting templates for love, money, purpose, and healing

• Live manifestation coaching & energetic support

• A high-vibe community of women manifesting massive shifts in real time

✨ This is where scripting becomes a sacred ritual and your desires turn into aligned action, inner clarity, and tangible results.

I actually wrote the Blissful Living Journal & The Daily Bliss because of how much I loved journaling. If you’d help with learning how to journal, I high recommend this journal. It gives you a 30-day jumpstart to journaling and teaches you to how de-clutter your mind & begin to manifest your dreams.

🔮 You Hold the Pen

You were born to create your reality. You’re not here to wait, wish, or worry.

With scripting, you become the author of your dream life.

So grab your favorite pen, step into your highest self, and write it down like it’s already yours—because it is.

Ready to manifest your desires faster, easier, and with more feminine flow?

💫 Join the Manifestation Queen Membership Academy and start scripting your dream reality into motion, supported by rituals, trainings, templates, and a high-vibe sisterhood.

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