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How to dress according to your Venus sign (Everything you need to know)

ashlina kaposta September 4, 2025

This post is all about how to dress for your Venus sign.

Do you ever feel like your wardrobe doesn't truly reflect your inner essence and unique beauty? Perhaps it's time to delve into the world of astrology and discover the art of dressing for your Venus sign.

Venus, the planet of love, beauty, and aesthetics, plays a significant role in shaping our fashion preferences and personal style. By aligning your clothing choices with your Venus sign, you can tap into a whole new level of self-expression and self-confidence.

What is your venus sign and how do you find it?

Where Venus was at the time your were born is what determines your Venus placement, aka your Venus sign. You can book a birth chart reading with me right here and I can walk you through everything you need to know.

You can also look up your Venus placement with any free birth chart calculator online.

What does your Venus sign mean?

When you know your Venus sign, you can unveil the mysteries of your romantic inclinations and interests, your attraction powers, your perception of beauty, and even how you handle your finances.

Your Venus sign illuminates your values and desires surrounding love, romance, intimacy, sex and belonging. It reveals the deeper facets of your inner goddess and romantic personality. You can also tap into your Venus sign to become more attractive and magnetic!

Listen to this podcast episode for more on dressing for your Venus sign:

Here are some compelling benefits of dressing for your Venus sign:

1. Authentic Self-Expression: Your Venus sign represents your unique taste in fashion and aesthetics. Dressing in alignment with your Venus sign allows you to authentically express your inner beauty and personal style, helping you feel more comfortable and confident in your own skin.

2. Enhanced Confidence: When you wear clothing that resonates with your Venus sign, you're more likely to feel confident and attractive. Confidence can be a game-changer in how you carry yourself and interact with others, boosting your self-esteem.

3. Improved Relationships: Venus also governs our romantic and social interactions. Dressing for your Venus sign can enhance your allure and magnetism, potentially attracting people who appreciate and resonate with your unique beauty, both inside and out.

4. Better Mood and Energy: Wearing colors and styles that align with your Venus sign can uplift your mood and energy. It's like wearing a visual affirmation of your inner beauty, creating a positive impact on your overall well-being.

5. Personalized Wardrobe: Dressing for your Venus sign helps you curate a wardrobe that truly speaks to you. It reduces the temptation to follow fleeting fashion trends and encourages you to invest in clothing that resonates with your long-term style preferences.

6. Stress Reduction: Simplifying your wardrobe by focusing on Venus-aligned choices can reduce the stress of deciding what to wear each day. You'll have a clearer sense of what works for you, streamlining your morning routine.

7. Deepened Self-Understanding: Exploring your Venus sign's characteristics and associated style preferences can lead to a deeper understanding of your own personality and desires. It's a journey of self-discovery that extends beyond fashion.

8. Empowerment: Dressing for your Venus sign is a form of self-care and self-love. It empowers you to embrace your individuality and reminds you that your unique beauty is something to celebrate, not hide.

9. Creative Expression: Aligning your clothing choices with your Venus sign can be a fun and creative outlet. Experimenting with different styles, colors, and accessories that resonate with your Venus sign can be an enjoyable and fulfilling hobby.

10. Positive Energy Flow: Many believe that dressing in harmony with your Venus sign can enhance the flow of positive energy and love into your life. It's a way of inviting more love and beauty into your daily experiences.

Dressing for your Venus sign is more than just a fashion trend; it's a journey of self-discovery and self-celebration. By aligning your clothing choices with the energies of Venus, you can enhance your confidence, relationships, and overall well-being.

So, why not embrace your inner beauty and let your Venus sign shine through your wardrobe? It's a beautiful way to express your unique essence and radiate with confidence and authenticity.

I love getting dressed up. I truly enjoy styling myself in fabrics, colors and jewels according to my mood. It’s just a girl thing, I guess. Literally wearing all of the feminine and flowy dresses in my closet and I can’t tell you how many compliments I get about them. So, it was no surprise to me that when I learned that Sagittarius is my Venus sign, it all clicked.

@ashlinakaposta Replying to @Mikk-Bby Venus theiugh the houses part one. Aries - Cancer #alignwithyourhighestself #girlswhomanifest #feminineenergy #goddessglowup #astrologyhack #venus #crystalbracelets ♬ original sound - 🌹 Ashlina

My favorite part of it all however, is just how much our birth chart can tell us about ourselves and our own inner psychology. The inner workings of our psyche are so correlated to what our birth chart tells us, it’s wild to me that we don’t learn this when we are younger.

It absolutely changed everything for me, in terms of my focus and direction in life. Also, the level to which I have helped women have personal life transformations and breakthroughs by reading their birth chart has absolutely blown my mind. You can read more of the stories here.

Now, LET’S TALK ABOUT YOUR VENUS…

So, according to Astrology, in your birth chart Venus shines a light on your heart, reflecting all of the wonderful ways you feel most connected yourself, how you connect with others and embrace your environment. Your Venus sign illuminates your values and desires surrounding love, romance, intimacy, sex and belonging. It also reveals your inner Goddess anthem, your style, your charisma and your personal branding. We discuss this in depth inside my community, manifestation queen membership.

When I read your birth chart, I look at your Venus placement to tell me how you can make the most of your magnetic qualities. Like how you can style your home, yourself and your business to unlock your potent influence and inner power. Look to Venus for inspiration, because this will reveals how you tick on the inside, what you’re attracted to and your inner emotional wounds. I highly encourage you to lean on your unique Venusian strengths to alchemize any wounds into gifts.

What’s more, exuding more of your Venus vibration can actually help you to yield more influence. So, when I started curating my wardrobe and my home decor more around my Venus placement, I noticed how much more compliments I started to receive.

People just kept saying to me, “omg, this outfit is just so YOU”…and it occurred to me that every girl should not only know her Venus sign for her love languages but also to help amplify her personal magnetism and influence. (hint hint: this can help with branding and business too)

If you’re not sure what zodiac sign your Venus placement is in, use this birth chart calculator to find out.

If you want to understand more about your birth chart and the planetary placements and how they can help you manifest, book a birth chart reading with me here.

HOW TO DRESS ACCORDING TO YOUR VENUS SIGN

Venus in Aries: Passionate, dynamic and impulsive.

ARIES: Think feisty and fiery boss babe. Get your nails painted red and walk into the room with your fierce and unshakeable confidence. Your energy is very powerful and assertive, like Aries ruling planet, Mars. So, think “how can I express myself in a powerful way today?”

Head to the gym in a bold red workout set & light up a fucking fabulous candle, too because you are on fire girl.

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Venus in Taurus: stability, loyalty, luxury & beauty

TAURUS: Think sensual, earthy, body hugging curves. She is bathed in delicious perfume and enchants everyone with her quiet moves. Think designer bags, open toed shoes and expensive scents. One of my most favorite seasons to decorate for is Taurus season.

I always imagine a Taurus venus going shopping and having a glass of bubbly afterwards. Wear your best earth inspired, body hugging dress & a pair of earthy but oh so sexy heels.

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Venus in Gemini: talkative, curious and always on the go

GEMINI: This gal is ready for anything + always on the go with a coffee in hand. Gemini Venus can’t really stay in one place for too long, they’re kind of ready to dash off to the next social event. Also, they’re incredibly chatty so they need to dress comfortably enough to stay engaged in a long conversation.

Think a really chic pair of jeans and some cute Veja sneakers.

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Venus in Cancer: creative, romantic and nurturing

CANCER: she is always going to have the best home to hang out in, as she is the ultimate hostess. Always dressed cozy and comfortable with that ‘pour a cup of tea and stay a while’ energy.

This girl will wear a cozy sweater even to the beach, her favorite place to be. think a chunky, light weight cardigan & cozy carry all tote.

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Venus in Leo : bold, flirtatious and and warm

LEO: she is always the star of the show, so she definitely dresses like it. Big glasses, bold choices, lots of color and bring on the drama, baby! Think a Marilyn Monroe.

A pair of pink Dior sunglasses will polish off any look you opt for & big, bold Balenciaga inspired earrings.

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Venus in Virgo: practical, organized, careful and put together

VIRGO: with this placement, things are always neat, clean and organized down to the last detail so she’s always going to look effortlessly pulled together and chic. Think a classic outfit like the extremely popular AF high rise fitted jeans with a classic top, a structured neutral or white handbag, pretty filofax planner .

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Venus in Libra: charismatic, calm and harmonious

LIBRA: Venus rules Libra, so she’s right at home here. Clothes will always look like they were made for this girl. No matter her style she always looks pretty, pulled together and polished, especially her nails.

Think tailored dresses and the most sensual perfume, like missing person by phlur.

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Venus in Scorpio : mysterious, intense and broodingly romantic

SCORPIO: Mystery is the name of her game, this girl has that femme fatale quality to her.

Think choker with a cross on it, some ripped jeans and tight black belt with incredibly sexy, lacy underwear and the best red lipstick on the planet.

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Venus in Sagittarius : fun-loving, free-spirited, lucky and optimistic

SAGITTARIUS: Always looking like she just got back from a trip to the Amalfi coast. Bohemian and flirtatious is her magnetic essence.

Think flowy and feminine long dress paired with an on the go, its always Italty vibes with a designer straw hat.

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Venus in Capricorn : patient, stable and dedicated

CAPRICORN: always a gal who just walked out of a business meeting, she is dressed to impress. Never anything over-the-top just that effortless elegance. Think Chanel everything.

The Capricorn venus will want to keep investments in mind first, so opting for a Chanel inspired cardigan and pair it with an actual pre-loved Chanel classic flapbag.

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Venus in Aquarius : eccentric, emotionally detached and open

AQUARIUS: This gal is always probably wearing denim of some kind. Styled in a hip and trendy way, because she is the gal that gets along with everyone.

Grab yourself a distressed denim jacket like this one and pair it with some white knee high cowboy boots.

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Venus in Pisces: compassionate, empathetic and idealistic

PISCES: off daydreaming in a park with a picnic while reading her favorite romance novel, that’s this girl. Wearing something floral or with ruffles, of course. She’s the ultimate romantic!

Try a cottage core inspired off-the-shoulder ruffle top and the most feminine perfume, Delina.

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LISTEN TO THIS PODCAST EPISODE FOR MORE!

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7 things I swear by and wish I had bought sooner as a work from home mom (Amazing Amazon Finds)

ashlina kaposta August 30, 2025

At 44, I’ve realized something: life’s too short to struggle through chaos when Amazon can deliver a solution to your doorstep in 24 hours. As a work-from-home mom, I’ve tried to “make do” more times than I can count — balancing Zoom calls with snack requests, pretending my dining table was an office desk, and telling myself I didn’t really need that gadget everyone on TikTok swears by. Spoiler: I did.

Here’s the thing — the right little purchases can completely change your day-to-day. They save time, bring peace of mind, and honestly make me feel like I have my life a little more together (even when I don’t). These are the 7 things I finally caved in and bought — and now I swear by them. I only wish I had clicked “add to cart” years ago.

So here’s my mom-to-mom advice: save this list, throw a few of these into your Amazon cart, and thank me later when you’re sipping your coffee with both hands free.

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7 things I swear by and wish I had bought sooner:

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01 | white croc laptop case.

Working from home can sometimes feel… a little blah. You’re staring at the same laptop every single day, and honestly, it’s not exactly inspiring when your “office” is also your kitchen table.

Enter: the chic white croc laptop case. I swear, the moment I slipped this on my MacBook, my whole work-from-home vibe leveled up. Suddenly my desk looked less “mom chaos” and more “CEO energy.” It’s sleek, it’s stylish, and it protects my laptop from the inevitable coffee spills and little fingerprints that come with mom life.

Here’s the truth: when your workspace feels elevated, you feel elevated. Every time I open my laptop, I get that little spark of joy — like I’m stepping into my own mini corner office. It’s such a small thing, but it completely changes the way I approach my day. Plus, it looks gorgeous in flat-lay photos (because yes, aesthetics matter).

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02 | Weekly Agenda Page Refills for My Louis Vuitton GM Agenda

If you’re anything like me, life as a work-from-home mom can quickly turn into a blur of deadlines, dentist appointments, soccer practice, and that one return you keep forgetting to make. Without a system, everything lives in your head — and spoiler alert: that’s not sustainable (ask me how I know).

These weekly agenda page refills keep me sane. Seriously, I would lose my mind without them. I pop them right into my Louis Vuitton GM agenda, and suddenly I can see the big picture and the tiny details all at once. The layout gives me space for appointments, habits, priorities, and even those little “don’t forget” tasks that usually slip through the cracks.

Instead of running around feeling like I’m constantly two steps behind, I feel calm, focused, and in control of my week. Plus, there’s something so chic about opening up my agenda with fresh, clean pages — it feels like a reset button for my brain. And let’s be honest, writing things down with a pretty gold pen just makes planning way more fun.

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03 | Chia Seed Yogurt Meal Prep Containers

You know that 3 p.m. crash when you’re starving, your to-do list is still a mile long, and you realize you haven’t eaten anything but coffee and maybe your kid’s leftover toast? Yeah, not exactly the recipe for productivity or glowing skin.

These glass meal prep containers are my secret weapon. Every Sunday, I prep a batch of chia seed protein yogurt. I mix 2 tbsp of chia seeds in with almond milk, pop it into these jars, and they’re ready to grab whenever I need them. They’re the perfect size, they seal tight (no surprise leaks in the fridge), and they make my snacks look like something out of a wellness Pinterest board.

Instead of grabbing chips or running on fumes, I’ve got a protein-packed snack that keeps me full, focused, and feeling good. And here’s the best part: because they’re already portioned out, I don’t overthink it. Just grab, eat, and get back to my day. Honestly, these containers have saved me from a hundred “hangry mom” meltdowns.

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04 | An everyday fitted basic tee

Some mornings, the thought of putting together an outfit feels like a full-time job. You want to look polished, but you also need comfort (because let’s be real — there will be errands, kid pickups, and probably a spilled juice box involved).

Enter the humble yet powerful fitted tee. This one is soft, flattering, and hugs in all the right places without being restrictive. It’s the kind of tee you can throw on with jeans, tuck into trousers, or even layer under a blazer when you need to look like you’ve got your life together.

On the days when my brain just can’t handle “outfit math,” this tee is my go-to. It makes me feel chic, put-together, and — dare I say — a little French girl effortless. It’s proof that basics don’t have to be boring; in fact, they’re the ultimate luxury when they fit just right.

05 | Suction cup phone mount case

As much as I love creating content, finding the perfect spot to prop my phone is always a struggle. Balancing it on a stack of books, leaning it against a coffee mug, or worse — watching it slide mid-recording — is not the vibe.

This suction cup phone mount is the unsung hero of my content game. It sticks to mirrors, windows, cabinets — basically any smooth surface — and holds my phone steady while I film. Whether I’m recording a quick Instagram story, filming a workout, or just FaceTiming while cooking dinner, it makes hands-free content actually easy.

Now I can shoot content anywhere, anytime, without the production stress. No tripods, no complicated setups — just stick, film, and done. Honestly, it’s like having a mini content assistant in my pocket, and for a work-from-home mom trying to juggle it all, that feels priceless.

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06 | The Cat tower (aka The Royal Throne)

Working from home with a cat? Forget it. Mine would climb on my laptop, paw at my keyboard, and demand attention the second I tried to get anything done. He acted like my entire job was to serve him — and honestly, without a solution, he wasn’t wrong.

This cozy cat tower became his throne, and suddenly, he was satisfied. It’s soft, sturdy, and the perfect height so he can perch like the king he thinks he is while still keeping an eye on me. It’s like giving him an office of his own — one that doesn’t involve my laptop keyboard.

Now, instead of sabotaging my Zoom calls, he curls up happily in his little tower while I actually get things done. Peace for me, comfort for him. Honestly, buying this wasn’t just for my cat… it was for my sanity.

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07 | The infamous Tik Tok Hailey Beiber selfie light

Bad lighting is the fastest way to ruin a perfectly good selfie (or Zoom call). Natural light isn’t always available, and overhead lights? Let’s just say they don’t do anyone favors.

This is the viral TikTok selfie light — yes, the one Hailey Bieber made famous — and let me tell you, it lives up to the hype. It clips right onto your phone, gives you that soft, flattering glow, and instantly makes your skin look like it had eight hours of sleep (even when it didn’t).

Whether I’m hopping on a last-minute Zoom, filming content, or just taking a quick photo with my son, this little light is my secret weapon. It’s compact, rechargeable, and takes me from “washed out” to “camera ready” in seconds. Honestly, I wish I had caved and bought it sooner — because good lighting isn’t just vanity, it’s confidence.

At the end of the day, it’s the little things that make a big difference in how we move through our daily routines. Whether it’s a chic laptop case that makes work feel more inspiring, a fitted tee that saves you on “nothing to wear” days, or even a cat tower that finally buys you some peace, these finds have honestly elevated my work-from-home mom life in the best way.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned at 44, it’s this: don’t wait forever to invest in the tools, clothes, or gadgets that make your life easier. They’re not “silly” purchases — they’re sanity savers, time savers, and little boosts of joy that we all deserve.

So go ahead, add a few of these to your cart and treat yourself. Your future self (the one sipping coffee with her laptop in a chic cover, kids occupied, cat happy, and light glowing) will thank you. ✨

And honestly, while I love all of these things I swear by, the biggest thing I wish I had discovered sooner isn’t a product at all — it’s a practice. When I finally committed to rewiring my mindset and aligning my mornings with success, everything shifted. That’s exactly why I created my Soul Aligned Success program — a 21-day morning reset where you’ll get a short video and exercise each day to help you release imposter syndrome, boost your confidence, and step into the version of you who doesn’t just wish for success… but actually lives it. [Learn more about Soul Aligned Success here →

Please feel free to email me at ashlina@thedecorista.com if you have any questions!  I’m always happy to help with decorating, life advice or even picking out a specific perfume!  Have an amazing day!!

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