How to Get Strong, Long, and Healthy Hair: 10 Proven Tips for Bombshell Locks

Every woman wants that bombshell hair—the kind that feels thick, shiny, and strong every time you run your fingers through it.

But let’s be honest: achieving healthy, long hair isn’t just about buying the newest “miracle” product. It’s about creating a consistent ritual of care, from what you put in your body to how you treat your scalp, and even how you manage stress in your everyday life.

Over the years, I’ve learned that hair care is like skincare—if you show it love, it shows up for you.

In this post, I’m breaking down everything you need to know about growing strong, long, and healthy hair—from daily rituals and lifestyle habits to supplements and products that actually work. Think of this as your ultimate guide to bombshell locks.

Why Hair Breaks, Thins, or Stops Growing

Before we dive into the fun stuff, it’s important to understand why hair sometimes refuses to cooperate. The truth is, healthy hair starts inside the body. Hormonal changes (especially in our 40s), stress, nutrient deficiencies, and even sleep patterns can affect your hair growth cycle.

The hair cycle has three phases:

1. Anagen (growth phase): where your hair grows steadily.

2. Catagen (transition phase): a short resting period.

3. Telogen (shedding phase): when older hairs fall out to make way for new growth.

When stress, poor diet, or hormone imbalance throw this cycle off, you’ll notice shedding, thinning, or brittle ends. The good news? You can absolutely support your hair’s natural cycle with a little intentional care.

My TOP 10 tips for taking good care of your hair

Daily Habits for Strong, Long, Healthy Hair

01. Stay Hydrated

Water and liquids is everything. I’ll be honest with you, I wasn’t good at drinking water for years and I’ve always had thick, long hair. It’s genetics. However, my hair wasn’t always good. It was frizzy and always had dead ends. that was until I made more of an effort to drink electrolyte water and I noticed a change in my hair immediately.

So whatever type of hair you have, try drinking more water. It will make the best of what hair you were given. I definitely learned how to drink water best while I was pregnant. Carry around a big mug of water at all times. Best. Tip. Ever.

02. Take your vitamins and supplements

I have taken hair, skin & nail vitamins for years. These are the ones I love, to be specific. When I was pregnant, I took these pre natals and I loved them. They are not the best tasting but I could see the most change in my glow with them compared to a few others I tried.

Best Supplements for Hair Growth

Supplements can be tricky, but I’ve found one that really works for me. I’ve been using Viviscal vitamins for months now, and the change in my hair’s strength and fullness has been incredible. It’s become part of my daily beauty ritual. I also use the daily conditioner.

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If your diet is lacking, supplements can help fill the gaps. Some of my go-to’s are:

• Collagen peptides – for strength and elasticity.

• Biotin – supports keratin production.

• Vitamin D – crucial for follicle activation.

• Zinc – reduces shedding.

• Omega-3 fatty acids – nourish from within.

03. Feed Your Hair from the Inside

Strong hair starts with nutrition. I swear by protein-rich meals (chicken, eggs, lentils), omega-3s, and collagen powder in my smoothies. Biotin and iron also play a huge role in keeping strands thick and lush.

I like to add collagen to my water on some days, too. I also make sure to eat Eggs, Berries, Avocado and Sweet Potatoes. These are the foods I keep in my diet on a daily basis. They all are very good for your hair and skin.

04. Prioritize Scalp Care

Your scalp is your hair’s soil—if it’s dry, clogged, or inflamed, your hair won’t thrive. Think of scalp care like skincare: gentle cleansing, weekly exfoliation, and regular scalp massages with oils like rosemary or argan to stimulate blood flow and strengthen follicles.

05. Protect from Daily Damage

I always use this SPF spray when I go outside. Just as much as you need an SPF for your face, you need it for your hair or it will fade and get brittle.

I also never brush my hair, I use a wide tooth comb to detangle. I hate the effect bristles have on my hair. So keep a steady regimen of caring for your hair and I promise you, it will show!

Weekly & Monthly Hair Care Rituals

06. Deep Conditioning Masks

I really try to use organic, paraben free products in my hair. I use this hair mask every 2-3 days. I put in my hair after I wash it and leave it in overnight. The next day I wash it out and my hair feels fantastic. I also swear by changing my shampoo and conditioner all the time.

07. Hair Oiling & Massaging

My personal favorite ritual—oiling the hair and scalp. Apply a lightweight oil like argan, coconut, or rosemary, massage it in, and let it sit for at least 30 minutes before washing. It strengthens strands and relaxes you at the same time.

4-Step Hair Oiling Routine ✨

1. Warm & Apply the Oil

Start with your oil (argan, coconut, rosemary, or castor) and warm a few tablespoons. Apply directly to your scalp and ends.

Pick an oil suited to your hair type:

• Fine hair → lightweight oils like argan or jojoba.

• Thick/coarse hair → richer oils like coconut, castor, or olive oil.

• For growth → rosemary oil (mixed with a carrier oil).

2. Massage the Scalp

Spend 5 minutes massaging in circular motions with your fingertips or a scalp brush to boost circulation and stimulate growth.

3. Let It Soak In

Cover with a shower cap or towel and leave on for at least 30 minutes (overnight if you can for deeper repair).

4. Wash & Style

Rinse with a gentle shampoo, condition, and style as usual. Repeat 1–2 times a week for best results.

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Lifestyle Habits That Boost Hair Growth

08. Commit to Regular Trims

One of the biggest myths about growing long hair is that you should skip trims to keep every inch. In reality, trimming your ends every 8–12 weeks is essential for maintaining strong, healthy strands. Split ends left unattended will continue to travel upward, causing breakage that makes your hair look thinner and frizzier over time. By removing just a tiny amount regularly, you’re protecting the length you’ve worked so hard for.

Think of trims as pruning a plant—when you cut away what’s damaged, you make room for new, healthy growth. If you’re nervous about losing length, ask your stylist for a “dusting,” where only the very tips are trimmed. This keeps your hair fresh without sacrificing inches. Over time, you’ll notice your hair feels stronger, grows more evenly, and has that sleek, polished look we all love.

09. Prioritize Restorative Sleep

Your body does its deepest repair work while you sleep, including cell turnover and tissue repair that support your hair follicles. Aim for 7–9 hours of quality rest every night, and try to create a soothing bedtime ritual—dim the lights, sip calming herbal tea, and put away screens an hour before bed. Think of sleep as beauty therapy from the inside out.

10. Move Your Body for Circulation

Exercise doesn’t just tone your body—it also boosts circulation, which carries oxygen and nutrients to your scalp. You don’t need a hardcore workout to see the benefits; even a brisk 20-minute walk, a yoga flow, or a few minutes of stretching can help nourish your follicles from within. Pair this with hydration and your hair will thank you with extra shine.

Love Your Locks

Growing strong, long, and healthy hair isn’t about one magic product—it’s about consistent rituals, nourishing your body, and showing your scalp some love. When you treat your hair with intention, it rewards you with shine, volume, and confidence.

Your bombshell hair journey starts with the choices you make every day—so start small, stay consistent, and watch your strands transform.

FAQs

How often should I wash my hair?
2–3 times a week is ideal for most hair types. Over-washing strips natural oils, while under-washing can clog the scalp.

Does collagen really help hair growth?
Yes! Collagen provides amino acids that build keratin—the protein your hair is made of.

Is hair oiling good for all hair types?
Absolutely, but the type of oil matters. Lightweight oils like argan are great for fine hair, while thicker oils like castor suit coarse or dry hair.

Can stress really cause hair loss?
Yes. Stress can push more hairs into the shedding phase of the growth cycle. Managing stress is key.

How long does it take to see results?
Most women notice changes in 3–6 months of consistent care. Patience is part of the process.

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9 things I am currently obsessed with : November 2020

Most of my closest friends live in different cities than I do. One of my longtime besties lives in Los Angeles and every time we get on the phone, we both just start listing out the things that we have been obsessed with. It’s usually anything that deals with making our lives just a little bit easier, skincare, weight-loss/fitness, time management tips and mom hacks. So, I thought I would do the same for you today. Give you a list of the things that currently have my attention because I haven’t done a post like this in a while.

1. Alice & Olivia Dia Cropped Sweater. In Houston, we recently had a city wide sale happening for charity. Lots of stores participated in the 20% off for holiday shopping and I noticed Alice & Olivia on the list. Let me just start by saying this designer makes clothes that fit women well and make them look fabulous so naturally, when I saw them on the holiday sale list I had to go by. I grabbed a few things but this perfectly peachy pink cropped sweater is my current obsession. I wear it almost every day. The pink is a pink that flatters everybody and it fits really well for an hourglass shaped person but hides tummy imperfections, if you moms know what I mean.

2. Amazonite bracelet from Love Ashlina Jewelry. I recently got my jewelry website back up because the orders on instagram were sucking the life out of me. Thank goodness it has helped so much. Anyway, the stress of the election, Mercury Rx and just all the things has been incredibly tense the past month or so. I knew I had to start wearing more Amazonite because it is the crystal of calming the emotions and soothing anxiety. I am obsessed. I wear it daily along with this moonstone.

3. L’oreal Voluminous Superstar Waterproof Mascara. Omg. This mascara is amazing. First of all, I am all about wearing the mascara primer, it really helps the lashes to lift up. So, I tried this one while traveling because I wanted a 2 in 1 mascara/primer combo to save space in my makeup bag and even though I have a few $30 high end mascaras, this one is my go-to. Something about how it lifts and curls the lash is just different. I wear the washable blackest black.

4. Globe Electric Mushroom Lamp. My girlfriend Allison is moving to Paris and was hosting a garage sale of sorts. I snagged these gold/brass mushroom lamps for my office because they were exactly what I was looking for and I am in love. They each have 2 lightbulbs which means really good lighting for the room they are in (which I use in my jewelry studio). All I have to say is that if you are looking for some chic modern lamps, these are awesome. And they come in rose gold too.

5. Leichtrum A5 dotted notebook in berry. We all know my obsession with bullet journaling. I’ve actually found myself writing slower because I am running out of space in my current journal. The other day I was at the art store and saw this berry colored notebook and it stopped me in my tracks. I snagged this one for 2021 and I could not be more obsessed with it. I may even have to start it sooner.

6. T3 Single Pass 1 1/2” Curling Iron. So, I have been recording lots of videos for the House of Bliss and Soul Aligned (my new 21 day video course) and so I decided to splurge on this and start learning how to curl my hair. It’s so pretty to look at, it actually makes me want to get up and make some effort on my hair.

7. Adidas Silver Luxe Running Shoe. I’ve been working out with my trainer consistently for 3 months and I have been so proud of myself for the commitment. As a treat, I wanted to get some shoes and I am obsessed with these Luxe Silver Running Shoes. They are so sleek and pretty. I am so excited about these.

8. Arbonne Ginsing Energy sticks, Strawberry. I started using Arbonne supplements when I learned about my leaky gut situation (maybe ill do a post on this soon). I made the decision to quit coffee for 30 days to see how my body would react and these energy sticks literally changed my life. I actually started using these at the start of the year and I have 2 every single day. One in the AM and One in the afternoon around that 2:30 mid day slump. They give me the boost of energy I need with a little fun, fizz and flavor. I add my grapefruit Lacroix for an added sparkle and I am obsessed. I also add a digestion pack to it in the AM. And for the first time probably ever in my life, I am not bloated everyday. More on that in another post but honestly. I love these too much not to share. (I also signed up as a distributor, so I do make $$ if you buy these using my link but no pressure. I truly am just sharing what I LOVE!) Side Note: On mornings when I workout with my trainer - i drink this pink drink when I don’t drink coffee)

9. Dr. Teals Cannabis Sativa Bath Salts. OMG. This is just divine. My girlfriend Cara introduced me to this because we both are bubble bath-a-holics. This is totally not what you think, at first I was apprehensive about the smell but it smells so beautifully in my bath it feels like spa. It’s a must try.

I hope you find this fun list to be helpful and inspirational. I always love sharing my current obsessions with my girlfriends. Feel free to leave me a comment below and let me know what you are obsessed with. I always love to try new heavenly things!

Love, Ashlina