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8 Glow-Up Habits for a Sharp & Sexy Mind After 40 {podcast ep. 352}

ashlina kaposta August 19, 2025

When most women think about a glow-up, they imagine skincare routines, new wardrobes, or gym memberships. And yes — those things are fabulous. But the real foundation of your glow-up? Your mind.

After 40, your brain needs just as much attention as your body. Left unchecked, it can slip into autopilot — going through the motions of life without curiosity, excitement, or sharpness. But when you nourish your mind intentionally, you step into a version of yourself that is magnetic, confident, and deeply alive.

Here are the glow-up habits that will keep your mind sharp, sexy, and glowing at every age.

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1. Fuel Your Brain with Creatine + CoQ10

Forget the myth that creatine is just for athletes. Research shows it’s a powerhouse for cognitive performance, memory, and mood regulation. By boosting ATP (your brain’s energy currency), creatine helps reduce brain fog and keeps you focused — especially important for women over 40 as natural levels decline.

Tips & Examples:

  • Add 3–5g of creatine monohydrate to your morning smoothie or coffee.

  • Notice if you feel less afternoon fatigue and more mental clarity after consistent use.

  • Pair with a hydration routine — creatine works best when you’re well-hydrated.

Pair it with CoQ10, a nutrient essential for cellular energy and fighting oxidative stress. CoQ10 supports mental clarity, heart health, and even gives your skin a youthful boost.

Tips & Examples:

  • Start with 100–200mg per day with a meal that includes healthy fats (avocado, olive oil, salmon).

  • Many women notice improvements in steady energy and fewer mood crashes.

  • Bonus: CoQ10 is amazing if you’re already focused on anti-aging and radiant skin.

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2. Try a Dopamine Detox

We live in a world of constant dopamine stacking — scrolling TikTok while watching Netflix, eating meals with Instagram open, juggling 10 apps at once. Over time, this overstimulation burns out your brain’s ability to feel satisfied with the simple things.

Tips & Examples:

  • Commit to one day a week of “single-tasking” — no multitasking while eating, driving, or working.

  • Try 1–2 hours of “dopamine fasting” before bed — put your phone away, light a candle, journal, or stretch.

  • If you find yourself reaching for your phone constantly, swap it with a book or a walk outdoors.

A dopamine detox doesn’t mean removing joy. It means retraining your brain to experience joy without constant overstimulation.

3. Start Your Day Phone-Free

The way you start your day sets the tone for everything. Instead of waking up and flooding your brain with notifications, news, and comparison, give yourself 30–60 minutes before checking your phone.

Tips & Examples:

  • Keep your phone outside the bedroom — use an alarm clock instead.

  • Begin with a ritual: warm lemon water, a skincare routine, light stretching, or meditation.

  • Write down three intentions or gratitudes before diving into the day.

This small shift calms your nervous system and allows you to begin the day on your own terms — not the internet’s.

Related Reading: How to start a gratitude journal

4. Learn Something Every Day

Your brain thrives on novelty. The more you learn, the more adaptable and sharp you become. Even 10–15 minutes of listening to an Audible book, a podcast, or a lecture creates new neural pathways and keeps your mind youthful.

Tips & Examples:

  • Listen to an audiobook on your commute instead of the radio.

  • Watch a TED Talk or mini-documentary while cooking dinner.

  • Choose one new “word of the day” and use it in conversation.

Learning daily doesn’t just make you smarter — it boosts confidence. Every new skill or concept reinforces: I’m growing. I’m capable. I’m alive.

5. Interrupt the Autopilot

Confidence and aliveness can’t exist on autopilot. Shake things up!

Tips & Examples:

  • Drive a different route to work or run errands in a new neighborhood.

  • Swap your morning latte for a matcha or golden milk.

  • Take a new class — dance, pottery, or even a short online workshop.

  • Try “reverse routines” — for example, if you normally work out in the morning, try an evening yoga class instead.

These micro-shifts activate your brain’s curiosity and create space for inspiration.

6. Sauna Sessions for Mind + Body

Saunas aren’t just for relaxation — they’re brain food. Time in the sauna reduces inflammation, improves circulation, boosts endorphins, and increases brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), which supports learning and memory.

Tips & Examples:

  • Aim for 15–20 minutes, 2–3 times per week.

  • Follow it with cold exposure (a quick cold shower) for a mental reset.

  • Use your sauna time for meditation or visualization — pairing body + mind benefits.

Regular sauna sessions also improve sleep and skin — making it a win-win for your glow-up routine.

Related Reading: 5 important wellness benefits of sauna bathing for women

7. Switch to Red Light After 7 PM

Your circadian rhythm is everything for mental sharpness. But blue light from phones and screens tricks your brain into thinking it’s still daytime, blocking melatonin production.

Tips & Examples:

  • On iPhones: set “Color Filters” to red under Accessibility → Display.

  • Use red or amber lamps in your bedroom instead of bright overhead lighting.

  • Create an evening ritual: tea, reading, journaling, or gentle stretching under warm light.

This habit tells your body it’s safe to wind down, leading to deeper sleep and sharper focus the next day.

8. Nourish Your Nervous System

You can’t manifest or reprogram your mind if your body doesn’t feel safe. That’s why regulating your nervous system is the true foundation of your glow-up.

Tips & Examples:

  • Try the “4-7-8” breath: inhale for 4, hold for 7, exhale for 8.

  • Practice grounding: step outside barefoot or lie down with your hand on your heart.

  • End your shower with 30 seconds of cool water — instantly resets stress patterns.

  • Create mini breaks during the day — 5 minutes to stretch, sip tea, or do nothing.

When your nervous system is calm, your brain is clear — and your manifestations flow with ease.

Related Reading: 11 simple ways to nourish your nervous system

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19 Relaxing & Romantic Nightstand Styling ideas for a peaceful bedroom (with Feng Shui tips)

19 Relaxing & Romantic Nightstand Styling ideas for a peaceful bedroom (with Feng Shui tips)

ashlina kaposta August 18, 2025

The Importance of Decorating a Calming and Romantic Nightstand for Your Evening Routine

Your nightstand might seem like just a practical piece of furniture—a spot for your water glass, your phone, or maybe the book you’re reading before bed.

But in reality, your nightstand plays a powerful role in shaping how you end your day and even how you experience intimacy, rest, and connection. By intentionally decorating your nightstand, you can transform your nightly routine into a ritual of calm, romance, and alignment.

Related Reading: 15 of the best nightstand organization ideas

Why Your Nightstand Matters in Feng Shui

In feng shui, your bedroom is considered the heart of love, intimacy, and restoration. Every element in this sacred space carries energy, and your nightstand is no exception. Think of your nightstand as an energetic partner:

  • Balance is key. Feng shui recommends having two nightstands, even if you sleep alone. This symbolizes harmony, equality, and the readiness to welcome or maintain partnership. One nightstand on its own can unintentionally send the message of imbalance or isolation.

  • What’s on your nightstand matters. Clutter, electronics, or piles of work can create mental chaos and disrupt peaceful energy flow. In feng shui, this clutter not only blocks restful sleep but can also create stagnation in relationships.

A thoughtfully styled nightstand, on the other hand, invites tranquility and love energy into your space.

Related Reading: 12 of the most chic yet affordable nightstands on Amazon

What To Put On Your Nightstand?

  • Lamp: A lamp is a practical and stylish addition to any nightstand, providing sufficient light for reading or other activities.

  • Books: A few books or magazines can provide entertainment and relaxation before bedtime.

  • Jewelry dish: A small dish can keep your jewelry organized and easily accessible, preventing it from getting lost or tangled.

  • Vase of flowers: Adding a vase of flowers to your nightstand can be a simple and effective way to add a touch of nature and beauty to your bedroom.

  • Decorative storage box: A storage box can help you keep small items organized and prevent clutter on your nightstand.

  • Picture frames: Displaying photos of cherished memories can bring a sense of comfort and warmth to your bedroom

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Nightstand Décor for a Calming Routine

Your nightstand should support a sense of peace and make winding down effortless. Here are some calming essentials to consider:

  • Soft lighting: A warm-toned lamp or a small salt lamp creates a soothing glow, helping your body transition from the stimulation of the day into rest mode.

  • A grounding object: Crystals like rose quartz (the stone of love) or amethyst (for peace and clarity) bring both energetic and aesthetic calm.

  • A candle: The flicker of a candle sets the tone for relaxation. Choose a scent like lavender or vanilla for stress relief.

  • A journal or book: Having a beautiful notebook encourages you to jot down reflections or gratitudes before bed, signaling closure for the day.

These small choices anchor your nightly ritual, reminding your body and mind that it’s safe to relax.

Nightstand Décor for Romance and Relationships

From a feng shui perspective, your nightstand also influences the romantic energy in your life. Whether you’re in a relationship or calling one in, here’s how you can enhance the love energy through décor:

  • Pairs and symmetry: Place items in pairs—two candles, two matching lamps, or two decorative objects. This symbolizes partnership and balance in relationships.

  • Romantic touches: A framed photo of you and your partner, or even art that depicts love and connection, reinforces intimacy. If you’re single, imagery that evokes love and tenderness can help attract the energy you desire.

  • Fresh flowers: A small vase of fresh flowers adds vibrancy and sensuality to your space, reminding you to keep love alive and flourishing.

  • Hidden tech: If possible, keep your phone out of sight or tucked away at night. This creates space for presence, intimacy, and uninterrupted rest.

These choices create a subtle yet powerful invitation for love and harmony to flourish in your bedroom.

How a Romantic Nightstand Shapes Your Night Routine

A nightstand styled with intention shifts your evening from just “going to bed” to a nourishing ritual. Every item becomes a cue: light the candle, read a few pages, write down what you’re grateful for, and slip into a restful night. For couples, it sets the tone for deeper connection. For singles, it affirms readiness for a healthy, balanced partnership.

Most importantly, it becomes an anchor of peace in a world that’s constantly buzzing. A calming, romantic nightstand helps you close the day on a soft, supportive note—and that energy carries over into your dreams, your love life, and your sense of well-being.

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19 Cozy & Romantic Nightstand Decorating Ideas

01 | A bamboo nightstand with layered books for reading

19 Relaxing & Romantic Nightstand Styling ideas for a peaceful bedroom (with Feng Shui tips)

Even though a beautiful lamp and lampshade are a key component, natural light just makes the whole area come alive. 

02 | Photo frames filled with precious moments

19 Relaxing & Romantic Nightstand Styling ideas for a peaceful bedroom (with Feng Shui tips)

03 | Style a round wicker tray

19 Relaxing & Romantic Nightstand Styling ideas for a peaceful bedroom (with Feng Shui tips)

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04 | Frame a beautiful love letter & hang it

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05 | A statement lamp and greenery

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06 | Decorative beads on a stack of your favorite books

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Quick Nightstand Styling Do’s and Don’ts

When it comes to decorating your nightstand, a few small decisions can make all the difference between a space that feels serene and one that feels cluttered. Here are some quick do’s and don’ts to keep in mind:

✅ Do’s

  • Do keep it minimal. Choose 3–5 intentional pieces that feel calming and purposeful rather than overcrowding the surface.

  • Do style in pairs. Use two lamps, matching trays, or paired objects to symbolize balance and harmony in feng shui.

  • Do add something living. Fresh flowers or a small plant bring in vibrant, renewing energy that supports relaxation and romance.

  • Do use soft lighting. A warm lamp or candle instantly makes your bedroom feel like a sanctuary.

  • Do personalize thoughtfully. A framed photo, favorite book, or crystal adds meaning and makes the nightstand feel like yours.

❌ Don’ts

  • Don’t let it pile up with clutter. Avoid stacks of mail, receipts, or random items that block calming energy.

  • Don’t keep electronics front and center. Phones, tablets, and chargers should be tucked away to reduce distraction and improve sleep quality.

  • Don’t go overly bright or harsh. Fluorescent lighting or bold neon décor can disrupt the soothing vibe your nightstand should create.

  • Don’t over-accessorize. Too many trinkets can overwhelm the space and create energetic chaos instead of flow.

  • Don’t ignore balance. A single nightstand or lopsided décor setup can unintentionally symbolize imbalance in relationships.

Related Reading: 12 of the most chic yet affordable nightstands on Amazon

07 | Decorative beads on a stack of your favorite books

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08 | A beautiful framed photo + gratitude journal

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09 | Beautiful tulips and a soothing candle

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10 | Monochromatic white

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11 | Cozy floral patterned accents

Nightstand styling by Gab Mell

12 | A beautiful box to corral small items

Nightstand styling by The Blesser House

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13 | A beautiful box to corral small items

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14 | Dried florals are a calming look

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15 | Books and beautiful pottery

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16 | Calming beige layers

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17 | Glamorous and gold

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18 | Calm and cream relaxing bedroom nightstand styling

Nightstand styling via Aimee

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19 | Animal print magic

nightstand style via @lol.lexxii

Recreate this vibe:

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I really do love the feeling that the romantic look evokes but I feel I have to add my modern yet glam aesthetic to it. Here is my dream guest modern & romantic bedroom vibe. . .

Shop the look: Abalone artwork | Linen tufted headboard | A pretty grey side table | angel wing accent | smoked gourd lamp | lavender linen pillow & bedding | striped pillow | Moroccan wedding blanket | 800 thread count Egyptian cotton bedding | 

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Nightstand Styling FAQ

1. How many items should I keep on my nightstand?
Less is more. Aim for 3–5 intentional pieces—such as a lamp, candle, book, and a decorative or personal item. Keeping it simple avoids clutter and creates a calm, balanced vibe.

2. Do I really need two nightstands?
From a feng shui perspective, yes. Even if you’re single, having two nightstands creates symmetry and symbolizes partnership, balance, and readiness for love.

3. What should I absolutely avoid putting on my nightstand?
Avoid clutter, paperwork, electronics, and anything stressful (like bills or work reminders). These items block calm energy and can disrupt sleep and intimacy.

4. What’s the best lighting for a nightstand?
Choose soft, warm lighting—lamps with warm-toned bulbs, candles, or even a salt lamp. Harsh, bright light can disturb relaxation and romantic energy.

5. Can plants go on a nightstand?
Yes—small plants or fresh flowers bring life energy into your space. Just avoid spiky or sharp-leafed plants, as they can feel too harsh for the bedroom. Opt for rounded leaves or soft blooms instead.

6. What items encourage romance in feng shui?
Pairs of objects (like two candles or two lamps), rose quartz crystals, romantic photos, and fresh flowers all enhance love energy. Keep everything in harmony and avoid lone, mismatched décor.

7. Should I keep my phone on my nightstand?
Ideally, no. Electronics can disrupt rest and create distance in relationships. If you must keep it nearby, store it in a drawer or out of sight to maintain the calming energy of your space.

8. How often should I refresh my nightstand décor?
Refresh seasonally or whenever your routine shifts. Even small updates—like switching flowers, changing a candle scent, or updating a photo—help keep the energy fresh and flowing.

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bedrooms, selections, pink, black walls, weekend decorating
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Bedding I've got my eye on and why I love a night routine
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Balancing feminine & masculine energy in the bedroom
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Inspired Design: 5 rooms I love and why
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modern design, inspiration, instagram, bedrooms, neutral tones
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Blissful Babe: chic mommy decorating inspiration
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blissful babe, bedrooms, kids spaces, bohemian
chic display
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HOME TOUR: edited elegance in Toronto
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interior designers i love, black and white, modern glamour, bedrooms, organization
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Home Tour: layers of luxury by Lee Ledbetter
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Blissful Living: decorating for abundance
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organization, blissful living, decor therapy, bedrooms
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Weekend decorating idea: don't forget to Feng Shui
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Get the look: bohemian & romantic bedroom
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bedrooms, master bedroom, romantic decor, get the look
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Toronto Design: High style by Lori Morris
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bedrooms, closet, black and white, modern glamour, designers i love
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E-design: A French modern mix for a beige bedroom
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Home Tour: the glamorous bohemian home of Amelia Widel
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Bedroom decorating update: new chinoiserie night stands
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my home, ashlina kaposta apartment, black and gold, vintage, thrift shopping, bedrooms, feng shui
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Inspiring Interiors: A beautiful black and blush bedroom crush
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bedrooms, black walls, black, rue magazine, interior designers
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My current accent table love. . .mirrored cube magic
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Interior Inspiration: Why you need a romantic bedroom
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romantic decor, bedrooms, master bedroom, parisian style
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Back to school season: a fresh perspective on neutrals
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neutral tones, fall, bedrooms
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Domestic Bliss: what you need to create a COZY sanctuary
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domestic bliss, bedrooms, shopping
Boho glam bedroom
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Get the look: Boho glam bedroom, black and gold sconces
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Decorating Inspiration: The power of a Zen Den
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Domestic Bliss: How to create a sleep sanctuary
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Guest bedroom makeover: The perfect grey
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How to Decorate for your Zodiac sign
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Killer color combo : Lavender & Slate
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grey walls, color lover, bedrooms, bohemian
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